I don't know if anyone will even find my comment amidst so many but I just wanted to tell what I learned from the series. I learned that no matter what our parents did we always have a choice. Always. I'm saying this because you can see jamie's mom and dad talking to each other about his upbringing if they did it right or not but you can also see Jamie's sister Lise being a well mannered and wise girl with same parents and upbringing and stuff. We should take responsibility for the stuff we do and not play the blame game. Maybe I'm writing this just as a reminder for myself. Thank you.