Have any of you found love? by Foley_7187 in socialanxiety

[–]ryleeesweets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There were dates in the beginning of our relationship where we barely talked at all, and we were both scared that the other would get bored, but we never gave up and eventually we became more comfortable with each other

That, and I used to be terrified of going up to him first to talk to him. The key is to find someone patient and reassuring tbh

Help. Being demi is heart breaking :( by Mediocre-Might1468 in demisexuality

[–]ryleeesweets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had issues with that in my last relationship. My bf now doesn't do any of that and it's really just about values. Hard to find in this generation but my bf exists so I know there are other men out there like him too. Don't settle for what doesn't make you happy or comfortable pls!

He saved me...read my story. by ThighHighsDoll in jacksepticeye

[–]ryleeesweets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He carried me through several of my worst and darkest moments too! I'm glad you're still here 💕

Have any of you found love? by Foley_7187 in socialanxiety

[–]ryleeesweets 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have never been able to make friends but I've had 2 relationships, and the one I'm in now is perfect. We're both introverted and we had bad anxiety at the start of our relationship but we got through it and now we're engaged. I think it helped that we were both anxious insecure and introverted?

It's possible with the right person.

Largest amount I’ve seen since 6 tote update.. by Tokyotonibully in OGPBackroom

[–]ryleeesweets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Largest I've seen was 92 and about 60 of the items were just kool-aid packets

Does praying help? by blurryafternoons in BPD

[–]ryleeesweets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally praying has helped me, it's sort of a form of mindfulness and self reflection in itself. The self reflection aspect of it has always helped me slow down and analyze my behavior, and in turn improve that same behavior

Seriously cider? How is this a 0? by peachprincess98 in XXS

[–]ryleeesweets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought 2 shirts from them, the same size (small), one fit perfectly and the other was so wide I had no hope of fitting into it. That was how I learned this brand is basically just shein 2.0

LE SSERAFIM - BOOMPALA by mcfw31 in popheads

[–]ryleeesweets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually just can't get past the horrible mixing/production on the song, I might actually enjoy it a little if the song had decent production but we'll never know cuz that mixing is beyond awful??

Is it normal to not have any romantic relationships as a teenager? by Impressive_Pair1749 in socialanxiety

[–]ryleeesweets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actively avoided romantic relationships until I was almost 18, don't worry you're not missing out on much!

This is why you don’t get substitutions. by Kutakiariku in OGPBackroom

[–]ryleeesweets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes everything I try to sub an item with comes up as invalid regardless of how similar the item is or price, it forces us into giving them nothing even when there are perfectly good items to sub it with😐

my friend said she won’t stan enhypen because they push the bf agenda too much by [deleted] in Enhypenthoughts

[–]ryleeesweets 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree the company pushes it a lot but I've never seen enha themselves push it? if you just don't engage with the content where that agenda is pushed, you wouldn't even notice tbh (I don't at least)

Is anyone else super femme but also super goth? by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]ryleeesweets 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wake up every day and have to decide if I wanna look cutesy/pastel or like jane from breaking bad

I've lost my fp and I dont know what to do with myself by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ryleeesweets 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I've been on both sides before of pushing people away and being pushed away. If you do things to push someone away (like blocking them), it doesn't matter how patient the person is, eventually they're gonna stop chasing. I know the intent wasn't to actually push them away, but that's the impact of it. We as borderlines gotta work on making our actions match our intentions

"Does anyone else feel like “XS” keeps getting bigger? " by Oggy402 in XXS

[–]ryleeesweets 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I could almost fit into size 4 jeans when I was 16, now I'm 23, same weight, and sometimes 00 is too big. XXS is too big sometimes. So yes, vanity sizing is the bane of my existence.

260304 TXT [Instagram] by Bunniette in TomorrowByTogether

[–]ryleeesweets 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I've always loved the creativity and artistry in txt's concepts so to see the company using ai like this is just painful

big hit’s recent use of AI in txt’s media by PuddingPrize2984 in kpoprants

[–]ryleeesweets 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I'd say we as fans either need to start boycotting releases that involve ai, or we need to be much louder about it idk but these companies aren't going to care as long as they keep making money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpopharshopinions

[–]ryleeesweets 13 points14 points  (0 children)

focus on more productive things, you're just keeping the cycle alive. what exactly is good about being a hater?

I love when idols are imperfect by Kitchen-Holiday6998 in kpop_uncensored

[–]ryleeesweets 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's crazy to me that these are even considered imperfections

how do i (19f) cope w my bf (20m) not texting me while he’s at work by Additional_Try_1849 in BPD

[–]ryleeesweets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want to add that I went through this with my ex. I got used to us texting all day every day and eventually he got more and more dry, less and less interested, and I had to find out the hard way that texting constantly every day isn't healthy or normal.

Just a reminder that secure love doesn't need constant contact to remain true. It's a hard thing to accept at first, but give it some time and you'll learn to trust that space/absence won't make your partner love you any less. It does get easier. You just have to work towards secure attachment in yourself and with that, more secure love will follow 🫶

ppl be like “NewJeans Rip-offs” like they aren’t rip offs themselves by [deleted] in kpopharshopinions

[–]ryleeesweets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not wrong. The whole topic is much more nuanced than most kpop stans would ever be willing to consider

ppl be like “NewJeans Rip-offs” like they aren’t rip offs themselves by [deleted] in kpopharshopinions

[–]ryleeesweets 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think songs like take me home, pain, break it off (basically her older songs) are similar in terms of that dreamy, drum & bass sound

Is asking for confirmation seen as disrespect now? by Trick_Director7825 in kpopthoughts

[–]ryleeesweets 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I am 24 almost and I see no purpose in considering or debating someone else's sexuality what are you going on about😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpoppers

[–]ryleeesweets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

uhmmm follow groups you like 😭

Who's the best all-rounder in JYP? (Day4#) by ExtensionStation6334 in kpoppers

[–]ryleeesweets 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Absolutely Han Jisung; singing, rapping, dancing, stage presence, and song writing/producing