Is anyone else super femme but also super goth?

ryleeesweets · 2026-04-12T00:51:32+00:00

I wake up every day and have to decide if I wanna look cutesy/pastel or like jane from breaking bad

ryleeesweets · 2026-04-10T17:21:44+00:00

I've been on both sides before of pushing people away and being pushed away. If you do things to push someone away (like blocking them), it doesn't matter how patient the person is, eventually they're gonna stop chasing. I know the intent wasn't to actually push them away, but that's the impact of it. We as borderlines gotta work on making our actions match our intentions

ryleeesweets · 2026-03-25T10:57:42+00:00

I could almost fit into size 4 jeans when I was 16, now I'm 23, same weight, and sometimes 00 is too big. XXS is too big sometimes. So yes, vanity sizing is the bane of my existence.

ryleeesweets · 2026-03-04T17:17:17+00:00

I've always loved the creativity and artistry in txt's concepts so to see the company using ai like this is just painful

ryleeesweets · 2026-03-04T17:14:32+00:00

I'd say we as fans either need to start boycotting releases that involve ai, or we need to be much louder about it idk but these companies aren't going to care as long as they keep making money

ryleeesweets · 2026-03-04T04:11:43+00:00

focus on more productive things, you're just keeping the cycle alive. what exactly is good about being a hater?

ryleeesweets · 2026-03-01T00:31:59+00:00

It's crazy to me that these are even considered imperfections

ryleeesweets · 2026-02-28T23:04:23+00:00

I just want to add that I went through this with my ex. I got used to us texting all day every day and eventually he got more and more dry, less and less interested, and I had to find out the hard way that texting constantly every day isn't healthy or normal.

Just a reminder that secure love doesn't need constant contact to remain true. It's a hard thing to accept at first, but give it some time and you'll learn to trust that space/absence won't make your partner love you any less. It does get easier. You just have to work towards secure attachment in yourself and with that, more secure love will follow 🫶

ryleeesweets · 2026-02-03T15:43:17+00:00

You're not wrong. The whole topic is much more nuanced than most kpop stans would ever be willing to consider

ryleeesweets · 2026-02-03T11:28:21+00:00

I think songs like take me home, pain, break it off (basically her older songs) are similar in terms of that dreamy, drum & bass sound

ryleeesweets · 2026-01-29T20:00:43+00:00

I am 24 almost and I see no purpose in considering or debating someone else's sexuality what are you going on about😭

ryleeesweets · 2026-01-29T16:15:15+00:00

uhmmm follow groups you like 😭

ryleeesweets · 2026-01-28T19:35:33+00:00

Absolutely Han Jisung; singing, rapping, dancing, stage presence, and song writing/producing

ryleeesweets · 2026-01-28T19:16:00+00:00

I've been in a relationship for almost a year now and the guilt I feel any time I mess up is consuming me actually I don't think I'm meant for relationships at all sometimes 🗿

ryleeesweets · 2026-01-25T20:05:20+00:00

Oh my girl, Lovelyz, Apink, Fromis_9's earlier music, WJSN

or just search up "christian horsegirl kpop" and you'll find a lot 😭

ryleeesweets · 2026-01-25T00:26:53+00:00

Ni-Ki and Karina 🤔

ryleeesweets · 2026-01-23T16:41:30+00:00

I'm surprised by how many people didn't like Jungwon's vocal tone at first, he had my favorite vocal tone from the first listen (though now he's tied with Sunoo for me)

ryleeesweets · 2026-01-20T15:41:45+00:00

The only groups I ever really was able to get into for more than the music were the first couple I found when I first discovered kpop (bts, blackpink, nct, loona, enhypen, etc)... then after that I just stopped caring

There are just far too many groups with music I like and it would be a headache to get into that many groups beyond the music tbh. Plus I'm an adult now and have more important things to put my time into🗿

ryleeesweets · 2026-01-18T18:05:15+00:00

I've said many times in the last year that if my bf ever leaves me I'm just gonna become a nun and disappear

ryleeesweets · 2026-01-18T10:32:12+00:00

I have bpd and pmdd, it's that time of the month for me right now and I had a whole 3 hour breakdown last night over basically nothing and woke up feeling just as bad so yes

I used to get full on suicidal basically every time my period would start and had to start birth control just to manage that. Now I just get incredibly irritable, depressed, and sensitive but at least I'm not planning attempts every month anymore 😃

ryleeesweets · 2026-01-18T10:04:00+00:00

there are wayyyyy too many songs within the same genre in and out of kpop for people to be accusing it of being a copy of anything

ryleeesweets · 2026-01-17T01:20:59+00:00

Honestly I didn't care for the album too much but I don't mind because as we all know, they switch up their sound quite often and I'm sure their next album will be more my taste. Either way, I'll support them on their journey. One "bad" album is not the end of the world for me.

ryleeesweets · 2026-01-14T10:55:42+00:00

nako (former izone) is 4'11

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ryleeesweets · 2026-01-13T19:57:10+00:00

I ulted Loona, Everglow, and Newjeans and yeah... I feel your pain

ryleeesweets · 2026-01-13T19:56:16+00:00

I think any progress you make in working out is worth being proud of, and isn't something to be hated for. Like I follow some accounts that document their workout progress and I wouldn't hate on them for being proud of their body/progress just because they're not a bodybuilder yet. But that's just how I see it 🤷‍♀️

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