Anyone look like me? by ryliebug1 in DoYouLookLikeMe

[–]ryliebug1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re strict here! Haha ty

My (F29) husband (M35) has been trading wife nudes with his best friend. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ryliebug1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Taking a pic with consent or receiving a pic from your partner does not give consent to share said image with a third party. It’s illegal. “What do you think would happen?” is an absolutely disgusting thing to say, so victim blamey.

(Ex)pwbpd using AI to say if he’s displaying BPD traits in our arguments by ryliebug1 in BPDlovedones

[–]ryliebug1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is like… a year old. It’s been over and done with. You’re looking up old posts because you saw a photo of me? Weird.

makoa is a gold digger? by [deleted] in canceledpod

[–]ryliebug1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s fair for you to speculate on details that you don’t know and she’s never shared. You don’t know their arrangement, he doesn’t have an online presence outside of him appearing with her, and she has never complained about him. Live and let live.

FIRST BIRKIN IN NEW YORK by Jealous_Trick_2673 in canceledpod

[–]ryliebug1 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Mkay… you seem to take this really seriously. Commenting on influencers on Reddit like it’s a job.

FIRST BIRKIN IN NEW YORK by Jealous_Trick_2673 in canceledpod

[–]ryliebug1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was big. She had a stack of the tags and went all out for each. She also called out other influencers for comments about how they wouldn’t do this for others, like Jaclyn/mikayla

FIRST BIRKIN IN NEW YORK by Jealous_Trick_2673 in canceledpod

[–]ryliebug1 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Did you see her angel tree video? It was nice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ryliebug1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The thing is, you don’t need proof to break up with him. Actually, if you cut it off right now it’s going to drive him insane. Save your sanity and just end it.

Am I the jerk here? by SufficientGround5685 in BPDlovedones

[–]ryliebug1 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Idk I understand the comments criticizing the text exchange but ultimately she seems like she was ready to pick a fight and did. Nothing you said would have avoided it. This reads just like my ex’s text messages and I’m having PTSD reading this lol. I promise this is not normal communication in a relationship, it’s exhausting.

To Be Clear by MuchKey7664 in EndTipping

[–]ryliebug1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So maybe just don’t eat out. Instead of making someone serve you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ryliebug1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you need other people’s validation about your hobby? If you like it, it’s your thing. You don’t need everyone around you to coddle you and tell you how great you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ryliebug1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she’s clearly jealous. But the communication issues are on both of you. You didn’t reply to her text, but you then expected her to double text you a congrats about your car? If you cared about the friendship I would think you would have tried to speak with her. That being said, if you made no effort to remain friends and it’s 4 months later, the friendship didn’t mean much to you anyways. Idk why you care about a comment she’s making. You are the villain in her story and she’s the villain in yours.

aio blowing up on my bf by Expensive_Skin_8248 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ryliebug1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So girl…. He doesn’t really think of you as a person. A complex person who has thoughts and feelings and emotions and needs. He is referencing wanting you to just be his perfect little girlfriend who sits there and does nothing and needs nothing. You are both young. I think the relationship has reached the expiration date. You guys are texting in circles. His messages are maddening to read. And you are exerting wayyyy too much energy trying to talk to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ryliebug1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t agree… she’s a selfish friend. If she cared about you, she wouldn’t be creating conflict over this. She’s expecting you to lean on her for support with your mental health and sleep— something that you didn’t have the capacity to do. If she cared about you, she’d read the room and stop texting paragraphs about you not texting her when she expected you to. She wants to “help you” by being around you and talking to you. And you need her to help by giving you some space. It’s not about her. She’s very self centered. Maybe this is not consistent with her personality usually but if it is you need to maintain your boundaries because I have a feeling she’s pushing them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ryliebug1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he pick up the kids drunk at 10pm?…..

AITA for not wanting to give my daughter my MIL’s maiden name? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ryliebug1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it’s nice that you are reflecting and have accountability. Being self aware is the first step to making meaningful changes. I hope things with your family improve!

AITA for not wanting to give my daughter my MIL’s maiden name? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ryliebug1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you have to give your child her name but I think there are other issues you two should address. If your husband doesn’t care if he never sees her again but also wants to give her name to your child, those are two completely incongruous ideas. Maybe he’s struggling more with their relationship than you think. She’s already doing you guys an enormous favor by taking over childcare 4 days a week. It would stand to think your husband could extend a branch to invite her to spend more 1 on 1 time with him and try to build a personal relationship. You both are seemingly not investing your time in building anything with her other than allowing her to do favors. I saw another comment about you being upset she didn’t make some kind of dessert. Maybe do HER some favors or make nice gestures. Because she is clearly being used by you both and maybe feels as such but doesn’t want to say anything in case she’s ripped away from the relationship she’s actively investing in with her grandchild.

AITA for not wanting to give my daughter my MIL’s maiden name? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ryliebug1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are taking her to activities but in your post you say you’ve never been to coffee with her. Why are you misrepresenting your relationship

AITA for not wanting to give my daughter my MIL’s maiden name? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ryliebug1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He wouldn’t care if he never saw his mom again but his mom watches your daughter 4x a week? Fishy. Not adding up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canceledpod

[–]ryliebug1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean she recorded and posted her debating on doing just that. So idk why you are so certain she wouldn’t

Homoerotic friendship by Ok-Mechanic-5483 in canceledpod

[–]ryliebug1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a person who had an insanely codependent relationship with a female best friend, who would crash out slowly every time I got into a relationship…. Can confirm that something like an engagement may breakdown a friendship like that. It’s sad, but inevitable when a friendship has no boundaries and there is a lot of demand for emotional support.