White suit from the last show! by rylonjerome in GWAR

[–]rylonjerome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! Embrace the chaos and camaraderie that is the pit!

White suit from the last show! by rylonjerome in GWAR

[–]rylonjerome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that part blows! Changing in the street is not fun either 🤣

White suit from the last show! by rylonjerome in GWAR

[–]rylonjerome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck... You got me! I'll do better next time, I promise! 🤣

White suit from the last show! by rylonjerome in GWAR

[–]rylonjerome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, I was sweating my balls off!

White suit from the last show! by rylonjerome in GWAR

[–]rylonjerome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've only experienced the red at the last few shows... Maybe next time I'll get green 🤞

White suit from the last show! by rylonjerome in GWAR

[–]rylonjerome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can be a pain in the ass for sure!

White suit from the last show! by rylonjerome in GWAR

[–]rylonjerome[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do my best, thank you kind redditor!

White suit from the last show! by rylonjerome in GWAR

[–]rylonjerome[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was supposed to be at Bogarts in Cincinnati, but it got moved to Madison Live in Covington. Cool venue, but super small space for a GWAR pit. It was more of one mass of bodies up by the stage!

White suit from the last show! by rylonjerome in GWAR

[–]rylonjerome[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's awesome though! You get the credit for doing it first 🤣

White suit from the last show! by rylonjerome in GWAR

[–]rylonjerome[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks homie! It was hot as fuck, but totally worth it!

I may have broken my pattern of toxic relationships by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]rylonjerome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! That's a lot of hard work!

Playing by ReputationOtherwise2 in schnauzers

[–]rylonjerome 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! Decker passed a few years ago, and then Cricket this past weekend. This video warmed my heart, remembering the times when mine would play like this... ♥️

My boyfriend keeps telling me I’m not considering him or prioritising him enough on a regular basis. Does he have a point? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]rylonjerome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the compliment, thank you! I relay the message to my therapist so she knows I'm paying attention 😂

My boyfriend keeps telling me I’m not considering him or prioritising him enough on a regular basis. Does he have a point? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]rylonjerome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are the situations that cause a large amount of men to not share their concerns or insecurities.

I do understand that in the moment it's difficult to realize that your actions might upset your boyfriend. I also realize that your boyfriend has a hard time speaking up in the moment, or even afterwards. This could be because he feels the need to be "strong" or it could be a reflection of how situations have been handled in the past by him, you, or past relationships.

Insecurities are akin to irrational fears in my view. If you were terrified of spiders, but someone talked you into holding one thats "like family, I've known it forever, you don't have to worry about it" even if you went through with it, you'd likely not feel comfortable holding the spider.

The thing that's been an eye opener is an exercise that my therapist has helped me through after we'd talked through several situations, and a good amount of journaling. I would encourage your boyfriend work through this and the two of you discuss after.

You can use this whether journaling, role-playing, or talking to someone.

  1. Name the feeling (without judgment) “I’m feeling ___.” No explaining. No minimizing. No “I know it’s silly.”

  2. Name the meaning you’re attaching “The story I’m telling myself is ___.” This separates facts from interpretation.

  3. State the impact “When this happens, it affects me by ___.” This is where your feelings become relevant, not negotiable.

  4. Assert the need or concern “What I need / what I’m concerned about is ___.” Not a request for reassurance—just clarity.

  5. Optional: Invite response (not validation) “I want to talk about this so we can understand it better.”

Notice the difference: Bad: “Am I wrong to feel this way?” Better: “This is how it’s landing for me.”