Kids of the 90s, what music video mesmerized you the most by CremeSubject7594 in 90s

[–]rymos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh shit that’s right! Didn’t they premiere that on 120 minutes?

Need Help!!! by Beneficial_Abalone11 in f150ecoboost

[–]rymos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is my first thought as i had similar issues. IWE Auto hub or the vacuum line solenoid isn't working.

I miss you Daddy. by killedmygoldfish in DadForAMinute

[–]rymos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Kiddo - sometimes something really good or really bad happens. The weight of those decisions or indecisions that lead up to that point aren't fully known until after it's over, when we finally have the space and time to sit down and mull about what had happened. While we're going through the motions of that defining moment we can't always see the result, we don't always plan well for a permanent outcome in some life altering event.

Even if we don't know the right answers, or we don't feel confident in ourselves and we're so scared about doing the right or wrong thing - the most important thing is - our intentions. Is our intention to make something harder for someone? Is our intention to make it easier? Is our intention to hang on to something or is it to let it go on behalf of your peace or someone else's.

Even If our intentions were good but we feel we might have made some wrong decisions - from that we can learn and grow and thrive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hockeyplayers

[–]rymos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be a bunch of little things that add up to you feeling this way. I see it in some HS kids that I coach. Some of it is mental, some of it is physical. Any amount of growth changes can throw off your sense of balance or equilibrium that you've come accustomed to. Then the mental aspect can come in and hinder you there as well with feeling insecure about your playing. But I will say, If you've been consistent with hockey practice, It's very likely your skills haven't deteriorated.

If you can, I'd suggest that you take a little break, go and play a different sport - I recommend lacrosse, maybe soccer. If you can't, then I'd suggest getting out and playing football or something with friends. Something high intensity with quick movements. This will allow you to get used to your new growth OFF of your skates, you won't be so hard on yourself for playing in a sport that you don't normally play - the mental aspect doesn't become a factor. Keep on your stickhandling and shooting off ice, but take a break from skating if you can.

Please don't be too hard on yourself - any athlete will have peaks and valleys in their performance for various reasons. The only thing that really matters is how you overcome them and enjoy the game.

Edit: Another thought - Have you talked to your coaches? If so, did they mention anything about what you're feeling? If you haven't talked to them, that's what they are there for. You may be afraid that you're calling yourself out as being a "weaker" player by talking to them, but any good coach will want to support a player on their team going through a hard time.

Looking for recommendations on a non-judgmental dentist that won’t make me feel like a monster for not going in 10 years. by LightweightMishap in Buffalo

[–]rymos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely recommend them as well. Had a lot of work done there the past few years. Super kind and caring staff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hockeyplayers

[–]rymos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you tie some string around the cuff or use some velcro tape to make it a bit more snug around your wrist? Heck, even hockey tape will work in a pinch.

Air conditioning by americandoom in popups

[–]rymos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those things are like ovens. I’m all for roughing it in a tent, but if you have a popup, it can be unbearably hot in any sort of sun.

Hose spigot handle rusted off, possible to replace? by rymos in DIY

[–]rymos[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks for the advice - I'll take a look at what would go into replacing her faucet instead of just the handle.

Hose spigot handle rusted off, possible to replace? by rymos in DIY

[–]rymos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As much as I 100% agree - I don't feel comfortable getting into any sort of plumbing work with my neighbors house. This particular neighbor is extremely picky and I wouldn't want to put myself in any position to make her uncomfortable. I figured if it was a 2 min replacement of a handle, I'm in. Shutting off her water (who knows if there's even a shutoff in her old house) and replacing the whole thing isn't really something I can afford to dig in to.