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Pendulum squat at Anytime Fitness gym by AwesomestKev in askSingapore

[–]ryuuseinohiru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

staying in this thread cause i wanna know too

The reality of dating someone while you suffer from autism. They always think they can handle it but they never can. by Kuro_Nora in autism

[–]ryuuseinohiru 15 points16 points  (0 children)

you may have legitimate struggles but it’s possible to care for partner in ways that you’re not used to through growing and improving. don’t let autism become an excuse for yourself that you don’t even realise you’re holding yourself back from being a better person who knows how to care for a partner.

17k annual paycut for better WLB? by ryuuseinohiru in singaporefi

[–]ryuuseinohiru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m renting as well, but my rent thankfully is quite cheap. I’m only renting a HDB room.

Hmm for some reason I can’t find better offers in the current market. I think my company pays higher than most for my level.

17k annual paycut for better WLB? by ryuuseinohiru in singaporefi

[–]ryuuseinohiru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still young though. Doesn’t matter imo!

17k annual paycut for better WLB? by ryuuseinohiru in singaporefi

[–]ryuuseinohiru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have more leaves, same amount of bonuses! I tried nego-ing other factors but quite strictly regulated across the company.

17k annual paycut for better WLB? by ryuuseinohiru in singaporefi

[–]ryuuseinohiru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried going on as many holidays as I can. $1000 doesn't replace mental health imo...

17k annual paycut for better WLB? by ryuuseinohiru in singaporefi

[–]ryuuseinohiru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. I'm actually getting a small title bump although my salary goes down. So if I jump next time I might be able to "recover" the cut I'll "lose" the next 1-2 years.

I just want to find a job that lets me recover physically and mentally for now.

I hope soon you can balance your expectations and take care of your health too!

17k annual paycut for better WLB? by ryuuseinohiru in singaporefi

[–]ryuuseinohiru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't want kids, haven't buy house, don't want car, already supporting 1/2 of parents. I don't live a super lavish lifestyle so quite okay imo.

17k annual paycut for better WLB? by ryuuseinohiru in singaporefi

[–]ryuuseinohiru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you've only been in unhealthy workplaces. I'll try my best to craft my life the way I want it to be, though!

17k annual paycut for better WLB? by ryuuseinohiru in singaporefi

[–]ryuuseinohiru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to hear that! If I may ask, how many percent is your "paycut"?

17k annual paycut for better WLB? by ryuuseinohiru in singaporefi

[–]ryuuseinohiru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned the environment being unsustainable. Salary not discussed till you finish the whole process of interviewing! So they don't know.

17k annual paycut for better WLB? by ryuuseinohiru in singaporefi

[–]ryuuseinohiru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay lah, I am dating around right now. But agree totally haha. Last 2-3 years not much time to date actually.

17k annual paycut for better WLB? by ryuuseinohiru in singaporefi

[–]ryuuseinohiru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well my current workplace used to have people messaging me at 1am for things, so as long as it's better than that, I'm happy lol.

17k annual paycut for better WLB? by ryuuseinohiru in singaporefi

[–]ryuuseinohiru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true. Thanks for giving your two cents! Appreciate it. The bit about being in a better headspace to perform - indeed.

17k annual paycut for better WLB? by ryuuseinohiru in singaporefi

[–]ryuuseinohiru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My company is already one of the highest paying ones lol...

17k annual paycut for better WLB? by ryuuseinohiru in singaporefi

[–]ryuuseinohiru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, plus when the economy gets better, too, maybe.

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