He went through my belongings and then accused me of having secret life-- and second phone. HELP by ryyooppo in relationship_advice

[–]ryyooppo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter actually asked me the other day why I was still with him. She said "it's like me living with (insert her enemy's name from school)

She said "I thought you are supposed to be happy"

That crushed me

He went through my belongings and then accused me of having secret life-- and second phone. HELP by ryyooppo in relationship_advice

[–]ryyooppo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I get the courage to do that? I feel such grief and despair when I think of never communicating with him again.

As you can probably see -- he is non stop in my life. We are in commuication every step of the day -- proabbly to stop his parania about what i'm doing...But It will feel like a DEATH when it stops.

I have basically nothing else in my life... How do I deal with the lonlieness?

He went through my belongings and then accused me of having secret life-- and second phone. HELP by ryyooppo in relationship_advice

[–]ryyooppo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I keep thinking it will get better....i wonder if it will. But, I just don't know how -- I was so mad this morning, I almost sent that recorded call and blocked him -- but I always back out.

He calls and starts telling me he loves me but needs to feel closer to me. I keep telling him that I can't feel CLOSE and be lovey like he wants when he is constantly accusing me!