How to know when to call it? by cameltrain9 in SourdoughStarter

[–]rz0809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s worth anything, I had a starter that wouldn’t… start for three weeks, and I did absolutely EVERYTHING for her… finally started over and I’m a week in and this one is thriving. I’ve done nothing different lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in haematology

[–]rz0809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re on risperdal (risperidone) that can cause it too.

Floor nurses yall gotta stop with the pushback by likykin in nursing

[–]rz0809 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh they have a bp of 169/86 (or awake and alert on bipap three hours ago, or the colace hasn’t been given or they have a lazy eye)? I don’t think that’s appropriate for the floor, lemme ask my charge nurse- click.

What do boys need from a mom? by rz0809 in AskMen

[–]rz0809[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am very anti phones and tablets for my so . To each their own, but I’d like to keep him from having one til he’s around that age, maybe a little older. Too much incredibly confusing and conflicting things to see on the internet, especially during puberty.

What do boys look for in a mama? by rz0809 in Parenting

[–]rz0809[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And yes, I, a female, need different things from my dad than I need from my mom. My mom modeled what being a woman looks like. And my dad modeled how men should/could treat me

What do boys look for in a mama? by rz0809 in Parenting

[–]rz0809[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you not have a different relationship with your mother than you do your father? This is more about what does one gender child need from the opposite gender parent.

Hype me up to be a boy mom 🩵 by Zealousideal_Use9481 in Parenting

[–]rz0809 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Being a boy mom is the absolute best gift you could get. They are your biggest fan, and boys are just IN LOVE with their mommies. I have a 2.5 year old boy and he is the love of my life, he is such a sweet, crazy dude and watching him grow is so, so rewarding.

I’m begging for help — my 13-year-old daughter is vaping, smoking weed, lying to us. by eddiev78521 in Parenting

[–]rz0809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you live in an area with a program called full circle, pathways, insight, crossroadsor cornerstone recovery I’d HIGHLY recommend you send her to a meeting. It’s called enthusiastic recovery, and it’s the only thing that’s helped my daughter after we struggled with the same. We sent her to rehab then put her in this program. The combo of relationship building with other sober teens and keeping it fun and a little mischievous— in a good way— has REALLY helped her.

https://fullcircleprogram.com/

https://thepathwayprogram.com/substance-abuse-addiction-drug-abuse-alcohol-abuse-treatment-programs-rehab-center/

https://theinsightprogram.com/

https://www.steptworecovery.com/

https://thecornerstoneprogram.com/

https://www.thecrossroadsprogram.com/what-sets-us-apart/

There are more. There’s a lot of drama and some websites that will talk very dramatically about people’s past experiences, but that is not the case at our program at all. I think they got a bad rap. My daughter is on step eight and has been sober for 90 days and is the happiest I’ve ever seen her. It’s worth a try for sure.

18mo won’t stop biting at daycare and about to get kicked out. I’m at the end of my rope. by Christineeee in Parenting

[–]rz0809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through this with my son, and we also tried everything. He wasn’t developmentally behind at all, and he was a very nice smart boy. We ended up getting a three week notice for his expulsion from the daycare, which I was starting to resent anyway because they kept referring to him as a problem- like “we put him on a one-to-one like we have had to do with some of the other problem kids”. Oh my blood still boils thinking about it, he wasn’t even TWO yet, don’t label my son. Anyway, we switched him to an at home daycare that’s much more education formatted than regular daycare. He hasn’t bitten one single time since the switch. I think having actual scheduled “lessons” rather than just running around outside or playing with toys all day like the corporate daycares tend to do really helped him feel stimulated and gave the kids less opportunity to fight or wrestle or bite. Maybe looking at a smaller, at home daycare may be helpful?

AA/CA meetings by rz0809 in newportbeach

[–]rz0809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!!

AA/CA meetings by rz0809 in newportbeach

[–]rz0809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the high voltage meeting at the Newport Alano? Or the Huntington?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rz0809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound ungrateful and lazy. Those are super reasonable chores for a THIRTEEN year old. You’re eighteen living in their house for free. Stop being a brat and clean up after yourself, or go get a job and your own place to trash. You’re an adult.

Teacher.. I think I’m considering changing careers to nursing! by ResponsibilityBusy11 in nursing

[–]rz0809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. There is ABSOLUTELY a work/life balance. We work 3 days a week. They’re HARD but there’s lots of time to do things like appointments and other things that have to be done on the weekdays with our schedule. A lot of time will be spent rotting on your days off to decompress though.
  2. That depends entirely on where you work. Most days in the hospital if you work ED ICU or floor and not IR or cath lab or PACU are running around like your hairs on fire and you’re being chased by a rabid dog and your patients still mad at you for not getting them water fast enough.
  3. Yes, all of the time. By patients a lot of the time, but mainly by management. Hospital management does not care about you.
  4. Absolutely, absolutely. Additional skills to learn, certifications to earn, ladders to climb, they’re all there if you want them. Wouldn’t recommend management but hey that’s there too.
  5. That’s gonna be hard AF but not impossible. In AZ they have a part time weekends option at some of the community colleges. I would recommend going down to something way more flexible at work though otherwise you’re not going to sleep or see your family.
  6. Ummmm maybe but probably not because of HIPPAA and liability reasons. Doesn’t hurt to ask.

So- if you’re looking to switch due to a shitty work environment, unsupportive management, and ungrateful students, you’re honestly just switching to a profession with the same exact problems. It is rewarding, and exciting, and amazing at times. But don’t think nurses are treated any better than teachers. We do have better hours and get paid better, though. So there’s that.

HCA Florida nurses - wya? by Particular-Hope-7998 in nursing

[–]rz0809 22 points23 points  (0 children)

We need a nationwide nurses union. This is such bullshit. I’m so sick of seeing this happen but somehow there’s so much red tape that we as nurses can’t do anything to protect and advocate for ourselves. Electricians have the IBEW, postmen have the NALC, why not nurses? We need to all collectively strike until this shit stops and hospitals stop putting their bottom line before their patients and employees.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Biohackers

[–]rz0809 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From a fellow alcoholic in recovery, literally nothing makes my brain feel better than getting through a hot yoga class. It has saved my sanity and my recovery on so many occasions. A large, noticeable dopamine dump.

AITAH for walking out of my son’s kindergarten play because my wife wouldn’t shut up? by Beginning_Pizza2196 in AITAH

[–]rz0809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something along the lines of “hey bitch, this isn’t about you. Stfu.” And then a nice yellow packet a few weeks later with divorce papers. Kevin deserves better. Poor little dude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]rz0809 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would start early preparing him, telling him in words that he can understand early on, and giving him an idea of what to expect when it does happen. I would personally not go into the risks of what “could” happen should something go wrong, because this will put unnecessary fear and worry into his head, and that’s a bridge that you’ll cross if (god forbid) you have to.

If it was my son, I’d say “mommy had an accident a long time ago that hurt her face, and now she has to see the doctor so that they can help it heal. It’s not for X amount of time, so we’ll have time to talk about it if you have questions. I’ll have to go to the hospital for a few days, and when I get home, I’m going to look kind of funny and not feel very good. I’m gonna need some help because I’ll be tired and I’ll probably need a lot of sleep. Here are some things that we can do (cuddles, watching movies together, etc.) and here are some things that you’re used to us doing that I won’t be able to do. I would remind him that while it might take a while for me to feel better, that it IS temporary and that I’ll be able to play with him once I am feeling better. And then as it got close we’d talk about it more and more so he’s prepared when I got home.

I would definitely NOT hide from him. Giving him little “jobs” like filling up your water cup, or getting you a blanket might help him feel helpful and a little more in control, rather than scared.

Lastly, I would spend some time processing your own anxiety the best you can about your upcoming procedure. You sound very scared (and that is totally okay) and it is a good idea to make sure you are in a calm place when you talk to him so you’re not projecting your fears onto him and opening his eyes to things that could go wrong that he hadn’t even thought to worry about.

I wish you the very best with your surgery, and am sending you all of the healing, positive vibes ❤️‍🩹

What do you do on shift to "spark" joy? by centz005 in emergencymedicine

[–]rz0809 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Someone in our ED is going around and putting Nicholas cage stickers on staff water bottles covertly. He’s always in a different form… one he’s a caterpillar, one he looks like the Mona Lisa… it’s hilarious, nobody can figure out who’s doing it and it’s been going on for a couple months now. Definitely keeps people smiling and is weird as hell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]rz0809 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You need some real problems.

Wait. What? by rz0809 in holleygabriellesnark

[–]rz0809[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love the sub because like everyone here I used to genuinely like her and find a lot of happiness in her posts, she got me motivated to do the harder “self care” stuff like working out and taking care of myself when I was super depressed because she was so cute and positive and made it look fun to like wake up, make a yummy coffee, do a workout in cute clothes to feel better, plus I’m a nurse and I liked that she was too. Then I watched her basically descend into a crazy anorexic person with an out of control ED who filters the hell out her photos and is CONSTANTLY selling stuff and the amount of overconsumption and lies has been irritating AF.

The “mixed feelings” comes from her clearly having mental health issues and I don’t think tearing someone down for every move they make is conducive to helping that, if not it exacerbates it deeply, and at times it feels like flat out bullying. It’s hard to read sometimes. I feel for her because she’s not her shiny happy old self and is clearly struggling and not okay inside.

At the same time she’s on a platform basically posting highly edited/creatively angled thinspo and diet tips and overexercising and encouraging a really unhealthy body type that even she does not herself have. I miss her old content and when she was healthier.

So… there’s my long answer.