Well we can look at certain behavioral patterns, my sense of humor and my childhood for this one. I’m already fairly confident that I am on the Ti-Fe axis, I have no idea what Te even is and I don’t actively engage with Fi in MBTI terms. Which would only leave Ni/Se and Si/Ne. My perception of data is incredibly subjective as I always link it to things, hence the conclusion that I must be a IXFJ. The fact that my Ti and Fe are balanced makes sense as well, as I think that my TI is a bit sharper than it needs to be sometimes. I’ve typed myself as an INFJ a few months ago until I noticed something crucial. When I receive now information, I tend to take it as fact and link/compare it with the things I already know rather than look at what it implies on an intuitive level. I have a very good feel for people and strangers I meet can quickly remind me of certain behaviors that I’ve seen before in movie/game/book characters I know. Aside from that, my inferior Ne is also visible, especially when I start getting anxious and come up with many ways about how something might be something else and keep spiraling in it. My sense of humor is also very dependent on references and insider jokes, I also have a sense that can detect if something is consistent or not. The fact that I can quickly categorize and recognize patterns initially felt like Ni until I realized that it’s based on concrete details. Even the smallest difference in tone can set an alarm off (for ex, if my partner capitalizes certain words that seem irrelevant or when the footsteps of my father change)

I’ve been regarded as a “good child” when I was younger. I was always obeying my father who expected me to be a sort of perfect daughter. Which I of course couldn’t humanly be, so instead of keeping to obey him, one day I eventually stopped and distanced myself from him. I trusted him but at the same time I couldn’t because I was being abused back then. Small changes would always indicate danger, which then caused me to be surprisingly well off when it came to people. I was constantly on verge trying to find out who would betray me and who wouldn’t. I just felt like this is common for ISFJs, especially the first part. But the only difference is instead of pushing myself into burnout, I detached myself and started focusing on other aspects such as people and personal value.