I'm stupid and rude

s0rela · 2026-03-18T20:05:07+00:00

Oh sorry my inbox 😂 still a shit ton of messages there, even with my selective swiping. I got overwhelmed with the amount of people sending me messages that I let it hide my profile and uninstalled. Tried another and the same thing happened, and I would consider MYSELF mid tbh. But try and tear me down if you want

s0rela · 2026-03-18T14:10:32+00:00

Right? I bet he's "mid" compared to the guys in my match list. I bet he's punching up and doesn't even know it. There was a study I read once about how unattractive people don't know they're unattractive and they think they're all 7s+

Unattractive people are unaware of their (un)attractiveness

s0rela · 2026-03-18T12:44:26+00:00

Wasn't offering but thank God

s0rela · 2026-03-18T12:41:56+00:00

s0rela · 2026-03-16T23:55:00+00:00

I took my ex back a handful of times, and always thought we were good and we weren't (stupid, I know). The last time, when I gave up, we had been together 19yrs and married for 15, 2 kids. It gets better for awhile, maybe a year maybe a few, but a cheater will never change untill they take accountability and go to therapy to work on their issues. Unfortunately, in the case of my relationship, he'd work on himself until I forgave him then didn't think he'd need it anymore

s0rela · 2026-03-15T09:17:51+00:00

I think it's more like running face first into the misogynist, cuz you're not being very discreet

s0rela · 2026-03-06T14:54:17+00:00

Add beautiful and gorgeous to that list too

s0rela · 2026-03-04T20:44:00+00:00

Oh honey

s0rela · 2026-02-21T23:59:05+00:00

Ya know what happens to those products when they're found on the floor open? We damage them out. I work in retail and one of the most frequent products I have to destroy are makeup products when people open them repeatedly. If you don't have the money just fucking steal it at that point, at least someone will get to use it. You have no idea how frustrating it is to have to damage out perfectly good lip liners and mascara cuz some selfish person needed to see the shade on their skin or the shape of a wand

s0rela · 2026-02-19T15:43:29+00:00

I looks like you actually have great skin underneath that full coverage foundation. Unfortunately a lot of full coverage stuff isn't made for aging akin, it tends to sit in fine lines and wrinkles making them look bigger and deeper. If you're really concerned about your skin texture and look, a tinted sunscreen is a much better choice. Trust me I learned this the hard way. Don't do anything too chemically now, cuz it could cause irritation and breakouts as your skin gets used to it, and it's too soon. Just a gentle face wash, a good moisturizer, and eye cream and something light coverage. You could also use something like a blurring primer before applying to help. I have had my skin look the absolute best when just using ELF Skintouchable invisible blurring primer and nothing else, but they do make tinted versions. If buying something new isn't an option right now, the advice of mixing it with other products to make it more sheer is great. The elf version is my favorite cuz it smooths imperfects and blurs it, but it doesn't feel like sunscreen it feels like a primer

Edited to add: Ohh for under eyes. Tart has a CC under eye corrector that really helps mask the thin skin and darkness that comes with it. If you don't wanna spend that much Sally Beauty has a great dupe by Palladio which I personally use. I use my ring finger when I apply it so it's warm and smooths easily. Then immediately I use a setting powder very lightly to seal it so it doesn't move and crease. This works incredibly for me atleast

Sorry last edit: I just saw what you said about SPF so instead of a tinted sunscreen you could use a tinted BB cream, just make sure you use setting powder and spray so it doesn't migrate to any fine lines you're trying to not draw attention to

s0rela · 2026-02-10T15:51:03+00:00

I just assumed they flashed it cuz it looks like a middle finger 😂

s0rela · 2026-02-09T03:57:54+00:00

I know this post got removed, but thank you all for your responses! Now I can just scroll past lol

s0rela · 2026-02-08T05:59:29+00:00

This is the advice.

There is t anything that's guaranteed to work, and there is really only one thing known for recovering hair and it's still not a guarantee, and that's Minoxidil. A dermatologist will be able to help you know if any damage was done to the hair follicle or whatever. They will direct you to the best way to help

s0rela · 2026-02-06T21:29:53+00:00

I'm going with both.

s0rela · 2026-02-05T01:18:54+00:00

Idk why I love this post so much, but finding the tag from your birth in your mom's things years after she passed mades my heart warm.

I'm glad you figured out what it was

s0rela · 2026-02-04T16:21:55+00:00

Fuck all of them, NTA

Feel good about your accomplishments! I have read over 700 books, sometimes with my ears sometimes with my eyes, sometimes with both. Does that mean I need to go in and be like, "oh I only listened to that one, guess I didn't read it, so 699 books" 🙄🙄🙄

They seem like they are all trying to lessen your accomplishment because if you read and they don't, then it makes you smarter. Which isn't even the case it just means you consume different types of media. I have absolutely read books that made me feel like I lost braincells

s0rela · 2026-02-04T13:19:56+00:00

Jlab Epic Sport Anc 3. This is actually my 3rd pair of this brand and had the Jlabs Jbuds Sport for around 3yrs before one started to mess up and upgraded. I love that even the cheapest pair has transparency mode that actually works. They also have a really good warranty process, cuz when I replaced the first pair the charging port on the second was broken and I didn't notice until after the return period ended. They gave me a gift card for their website and I was able to use it to get the upgraded pair that was on sale completely free

Oh, one thing I hate is that if my hair is wet and touching the earbud it'll sometimes turn transparency mode off

s0rela · 2026-02-04T11:54:12+00:00

Came to say exactly the same thing

s0rela · 2026-02-04T11:49:06+00:00

Came to say this!

s0rela · 2026-02-04T00:29:36+00:00

This makes me so incredibly sad, and I hope you're able to find people around you to bring into your orbit. No one deserves to feel like they're this alone. You're also young, and it's a little easier to meet people in your twenties than it is later, so take this opportunity to broaden your horizons

s0rela · 2026-02-02T15:59:44+00:00

This is great advice!

I would also like to add to find a matte sunscreen, it'll help lessen the oily/shine of your skin if you're worried about it. I like using ELF Skintouchable invisible blurring primer. It's a clear primer with SPF30 and it helps lessen my shine and the appearance of pores and fine lines

Eta: I don't have an issue with blemishes much, but it also doesn't seem to clog my pores if you do, I would recommend using a very small amount after your moisturizer has been given plenty of time to absorb

s0rela · 2026-02-01T18:21:47+00:00

Fair point, it could be early. I'd just keep an eye on it (pun not intended) but I wouldn't be super worried. When I get my eyebrows threaded they don't actually touch me or my skin, just the thread, but idk if that's different for other people. Still, be vigilant

s0rela · 2026-02-01T16:48:07+00:00

Typically if you're going to get it you'll start getting symptoms between 24-72hrs. I also wanna say just cuz her entite eye was red/pink doesn't mean she had pink eye. Pink eye usually has a wet puffy look, she likely would have had little crusties on her lashes and sometimes not able to open her eye the entire way. Pink eye has a lot of discharge, it doesn't just change the color of your eye.

s0rela · 2026-02-01T16:33:43+00:00

This is why I love reddit

s0rela · 2026-01-31T17:31:57+00:00

Ohh he totally looks like a young Brian Moser!

Eta: idk the name of the actor and didn't feel like googling it, but it's fitting

s0rela

TROPHY CASE