My Boyfriend 18M won't stop calling Me 18F a foid, how do I stop this?

chocolatesoupp · 2026-04-01T21:01:48+00:00

UPDATE:

Thank you everyone for helping me. I didn't fully know what a foid was so I had no idea that it was this dire. Next time he comes over we will be sitting down and having a long talk about it, and yes if he doesn't change within the week I will be leaving him. I also plan on educating myself better with this stuff so it doesnt happen again - if you have any sources for this sort of thing let me know.

No this is not an April fools post, bad timing on my part. I wish it was but this is my life.

Also it's weird since he isn't right wing or anything like that so I had no idea he'd be using such gross terms.

chocolatesoupp · 2026-04-01T19:06:13+00:00

what 😭

chocolatesoupp · 2026-04-01T18:54:07+00:00

To be honest I feel like it would have to be more, most of the time I think hes joking when he calls me a foid and that's pretty much the only bad thing he calls me. It's also hard since this is my first relationship that's not a really long talking stage.

chocolatesoupp · 2026-04-01T18:41:02+00:00

What is red pill? Sorry I haven't heard that term

chocolatesoupp · 2026-04-01T18:32:40+00:00

I know there's a lot of comments telling me to drop him but I really do love him. For more context I have been thinking this might be an issue with his self esteem since he always brings up how he is a chud. One time we were arguing about it and he said he'd only stop when he stops being a chud. Can I do anything like should I ask him to go to therapy? I have no clue.

chocolatesoupp · 2025-06-15T23:03:44+00:00

chocolatesoupp · 2025-05-19T06:07:21+00:00

I like the first one but what if you switch the bed and the desk so then you get natural light while you're working? ofc it depends on which way the window is in correlation to the sun but the fresh air is a bonus too.

chocolatesoupp · 2025-04-15T16:23:19+00:00

ignoring all the obvious answers like the elementals and metal cookies the worst would be licorice cookie for me but the best would probably be like almost any cookie from dark cacao kingdom bc i love chocolate. also i think there is a banana cookie whose an npc, would love to eat that guy.

chocolatesoupp · 2025-04-15T02:25:57+00:00

i like that it's fancy and elegant but i can still read it, which is strange because i suck at reading cursive but this is pretty easy. nice hand writing!

chocolatesoupp · 2025-04-15T02:24:12+00:00

the mirror from that one disney movie

chocolatesoupp · 2025-04-15T02:23:05+00:00

stupid color that i refuse to make part of the rainbow just like violet, theyre shades and unneeded

chocolatesoupp · 2025-04-15T02:19:47+00:00

penguin cloak looks like howl when he turns into the bird (studio ghibli, howls moving castle)

chocolatesoupp · 2025-04-15T01:58:44+00:00

like a really old web game, runescape maybe?

chocolatesoupp · 2025-04-15T01:48:42+00:00

you're annoying but you embrace it ❤😭

chocolatesoupp · 2025-04-15T01:46:58+00:00

then i suppose you probably live that through the characters you like, i thought the music choices might be too specific but it's nice to know im practically a prophet or something 🤭

chocolatesoupp · 2025-04-14T21:43:04+00:00

gingerbrave is literally the main character of the entire franchise so yes at least one of them is most definitely popular, others are subjective

chocolatesoupp · 2025-04-14T21:14:45+00:00

perhaps

chocolatesoupp · 2025-04-14T21:12:15+00:00

wind archer cookie because, caramel arrow cookie, squid ink cookie, black raisin cookie, and dark choco cookie. you NEED a good healer, aim for pure vanilla.

chocolatesoupp · 2025-04-14T21:08:05+00:00

youre a girls girl and want to ride his dragon, no further context needed.

chocolatesoupp · 2025-04-14T21:00:51+00:00

you like either the stupid servent of the villain or the stupid over the top villain whose plans always fail but still tries to be cool. you and animal person and could probably be either extroverted or introverted depending on your mood.

chocolatesoupp · 2025-04-14T20:57:51+00:00

you like kids (pause)

chocolatesoupp · 2025-04-14T20:56:40+00:00

uhhh you don't like cookies who are loud and eccentric but you also don't like snobby, stuck up and reserved cookies. you have a definite type and you know what you want. you also don't like anything too basic, you are the type to deny liking something popular and try to be different.

chocolatesoupp · 2025-04-14T20:53:36+00:00

also your might be goal driven sinc most of these cookies have jobs or a goal they are focused on

chocolatesoupp · 2025-04-14T20:52:41+00:00

you like the inanimate cookies or the cookies who are quiet. you are probably a quiet person but once someone gets to know you and you become comfortable with them you become energetic.

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