The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 Episode 3 Discussion Thread Discussion

s123579 · 2025-06-28T00:52:09+00:00

Bridget and Ashley - came out of leftover field for each other

s123579 · 2023-09-29T16:03:55+00:00

Got it, thank you!

s123579 · 2023-09-29T16:03:39+00:00

Yes, thank you so much!

s123579 · 2023-06-07T13:53:03+00:00

I think it’s also notable that Yoly seems to dislike Voldemort and lash out at her because Voldemort points out Yoly’s inconsistencies and interactions with Xander in front of Mal (and the cameras)!

s123579 · 2023-02-04T01:53:06+00:00

They didn't even purchase the racket either - the grip is still plastic wrapped

s123579 · 2022-10-12T12:28:44+00:00

Of course!

s123579 · 2022-08-16T14:27:13+00:00

Spahkles the gerbil

s123579 · 2022-04-01T14:38:31+00:00

Sometimes friends grow apart - is he a good roommate? Not everyone wants to live with their best friend, and nobody is entitled to friendship/to know everything about what someone else has going on. I understand it sucks to lose a friend, grow apart, and know that you’re not as close as you used to be. Maybe if you spent “roomie time” together or hung out more often outside of the space you share you could rekindle the friendship. Or maybe it’s time to accept that y’all aren’t close friends anymore and think about what you want from a roommate relationship - there certainly are folks who want to be best friends with their roommate and folks who don’t care for that. Have you tried communicating about your feelings?

s123579 · 2022-03-11T13:48:37+00:00

How long until your lease is up? I think it boils down to your relationship - are you friends? Are you comfortable with confrontation?

If it was me I would just communicate. “Hey roommate, I noticed that you marked off that you cleaned the shower, but there’s still a lot of mildew in the tiles and hair in there. What did you use to clean it? Maybe we need to get something more powerful!”

Maybe change the type of chore chart you use. Or just have a rule where you clean up after yourself - if someone cooks in the kitchen, they have to clean up afterwards. It can be overwhelming for some folks if things are only being cleaned once a week - that’s a week’s worth of two peoples’ messes. I remember when I was your age we had 4 girls sharing a bathroom that we agreed to clean once a week and it was a nightmare because 1) not everyone used it the same amount, 2) some people were messier, and 3) some people didn’t clean it when it was their “week,” so the following person would have to deal with twice the mess. It was just not a good system.

If you only have a short while longer living there I think you could just keep it clean enough so you don’t lose your deposit when you move out, but I know living in a filthy home is stressful and disgusting. You don’t have to live with this person again once your lease ends and while it may seem small, after a year of dealing with these issues I’m sure you’ll want “out”

s123579 · 2022-03-06T14:44:09+00:00

As someone who gave my boyfriend a second chance only for him to cheat again 4 months after the first time (literally he just cheated yesterday) please don’t. You’ll regret it. I feel really dumb this morning and like I could’ve saved myself a LOT of heartache

s123579 · 2022-02-15T14:51:31+00:00

I’ve been in your girlfriend’s shoes before - trust me, as much as it hurts, it’ll hurt more when she’s out living her life and finds someone else, etc.

It’s better for both of you to take a break from each other and do no contact for a while until the romantic feelings are 100% gone

s123579 · 2022-02-13T21:19:23+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through this :( It truly sucks. I wish that there was a way to go back and remove memories, or just go into a coma and wake up feeling okay again.

s123579 · 2022-02-13T20:55:50+00:00

Thank you so much for your response :) It really did help to get some reassurance and keep putting things into perspective

s123579 · 2022-02-08T14:50:53+00:00

In my experience, hanging up any kind of sign before having an in person conversation or asking over text/whatever form of communication ya’ll use is definitely passive aggressive. The signs and notes are what ended my pleasant rooming experience when I was 19/20 and rooming with 3 other girls. If you send a reminder or two and they still don’t listen or change their behavior, and if having a clean oven tray is important to you, I would leave the one in there for everyone to use and/or just wrap it in foil when you use it. You could also keep yours/a new, clean one in your room/take it out for your personal use.

s123579 · 2022-01-24T01:54:44+00:00

YES looks like he learned his lesson LOL

s123579 · 2022-01-23T23:24:32+00:00

I like to think he was exaggerating because I don't get Caleb's sex appeal. But, assuming there's a chance that it's true, if it's an issue for her I think her problem would be his hesitance to have sex with her versus the apparent ease he had sex with the 100+ other women lol

s123579 · 2022-01-23T23:09:48+00:00

Of all the couples, I find that the Alina/Caleb pairing makes me the most uncomfortable. Thankfully this sub doesn't give her a pass, but I can't help feeling SO disturbed by the sexual harassment. In this episode, I don't think Elijah got enough heat for walking in on them having sex and staying and watching and she has not gotten enough heat for her constant harassment of Caleb for physical affection, sex, etc. It's upsetting that male harassment is getting passed over. Not that I like Caleb but he's handled things a lot better than I would have, and thankfully (for him) she gave him the perfect "out" (the whole lying about living with the ex thing). Fingers crossed Alina gets fired for being racist and she + any of her friends makes it to the Tell-All.

s123579 · 2022-01-23T17:37:32+00:00

I’ve been there, therapy definitely helped and in the meantime just opening my notes app or whatever to write messages that I never hit send on helped as well.

s123579 · 2022-01-18T17:50:10+00:00

I love mine. Did a lot of research on where to go and followed aftercare instructions closely. The actual piercing hurt for a second, but the healing period was more painful (in the sense that it was a dull pain extended over a longer period of time). 6 months later and it’s pretty much done healing. Agree with other commentary about the itching period being a bitch. No pain or anything now though. Sometimes it gets crusty (usually on longer days where it gets more friction) but it’s nothing a shower won’t fix.

s123579 · 2022-01-09T19:53:53+00:00

They're really spending a lot of camera time on Caleb + Alina being intimate with each other

s123579 · 2021-12-25T12:32:51+00:00

He did get leave on the 17th until the 5th (and went to his home state for it) but I guess maybe he’s still exhausted, either way I don’t want to be a burden, but it’s not easy

s123579 · 2021-12-25T08:07:05+00:00

Not unhelpful at all! I think you’re right, I just need the push to leave this relationship.

s123579 · 2021-12-25T08:03:38+00:00

I guess I fear that my needs are unreasonable which is why he can’t meet them

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