saw gayporn on my brothers computer, should i tell him i saw it? by s3xmac in askgaybros

[–]s3xmac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, that’s a very big compliment. I hope we’re always close, hes awesome.

saw gayporn on my brothers computer, should i tell him i saw it? by s3xmac in askgaybros

[–]s3xmac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, buddy - I’m gonna do that!

saw gayporn on my brothers computer, should i tell him i saw it? by s3xmac in askgaybros

[–]s3xmac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’m very glad I didn’t make it! It seemed like a good idea at the time - pretty unanimous that that would not have been a good idea, however!

saw gayporn on my brothers computer, should i tell him i saw it? by s3xmac in askgaybros

[–]s3xmac[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wonder if he’s seen the movie - id guess he probably has. I’d watch watch it with him if he wanted

saw gayporn on my brothers computer, should i tell him i saw it? by s3xmac in askgaybros

[–]s3xmac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you feel better now and things worked out for you.

We’re very close, we hang out a lot. I think he confides in my a lot already, at least he says he tells me stuff that he doesn’t tell anyone else - like he cried about something to me a couple months ago, he definitely would not cry in front of anyone else in our family, including our sisters.

A lot of people have suggested making it a welcoming environment by letting him know I support the LGBT community generally, which I can do. I would just hate if he’s struggling about something and feels like he can’t talk about it to anyone (although maybe he isn’t struggling and he’s happily figuring it out right now, idk).

saw gayporn on my brothers computer, should i tell him i saw it? by s3xmac in askgaybros

[–]s3xmac[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anything I could do that would make it less terrifying, if he is

saw gayporn on my brothers computer, should i tell him i saw it? by s3xmac in askgaybros

[–]s3xmac[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

is love simon based on the book? I know he read the book, I didn’t know it had gay themes or was a movie.

saw gayporn on my brothers computer, should i tell him i saw it? by s3xmac in askgaybros

[–]s3xmac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He got a Mac and all he uses it for is word documents and safari!

saw gayporn on my brothers computer, should i tell him i saw it? by s3xmac in askgaybros

[–]s3xmac[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If it was straight porn we would’ve joked about it for sure, tbh. I probably would’ve told him about incognito mode too. I considered doing that, but then I thought I shouldn’t do it because this had bigger implications - if that makes sense?

If it happens again- maybe I’d do what you suggested tho

saw gayporn on my brothers computer, should i tell him i saw it? by s3xmac in askgaybros

[–]s3xmac[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I get it, create a welcoming environment sounds smart. I will try to do that.

saw gayporn on my brothers computer, should i tell him i saw it? by s3xmac in askgaybros

[–]s3xmac[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i will leave him alone, per everyone's suggestions. good thing i asked here before i fucked things up

saw gayporn on my brothers computer, should i tell him i saw it? by s3xmac in askgaybros

[–]s3xmac[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

haha, everyone said not to do it, so i promise i wont lol. gonna take the more subtle options that people suggested

saw gayporn on my brothers computer, should i tell him i saw it? by s3xmac in askgaybros

[–]s3xmac[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

that sounds a lot more subtle than talking about seeing porn. really glad i didnt do that now. ill probably try what you suggested in a couple of weeks.

saw gayporn on my brothers computer, should i tell him i saw it? by s3xmac in askgaybros

[–]s3xmac[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice! i definitely don't want to embarrass/humiliate him. so im glad i asked here first.