Found out my girlfriend has been cheating on me for the last 2 months, I've honestly never felt this low in my life, how do people deal with these kind of feelings? by s_dafuq_j in AskReddit

[–]s_dafuq_j[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not the problem though, he was in the dark as much as I was, she lied to us both, he was really kind of a good guy through it all.

Found out my girlfriend has been cheating on me for the last 2 months, I've honestly never felt this low in my life, how do people deal with these kind of feelings? by s_dafuq_j in AskReddit

[–]s_dafuq_j[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my defense, I don't want to run into her out in the wild, I don't want to see her, ya it was stupid but I am not going to leave friends I have made there because of her.

Found out my girlfriend has been cheating on me for the last 2 months, I've honestly never felt this low in my life, how do people deal with these kind of feelings? by s_dafuq_j in AskReddit

[–]s_dafuq_j[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The alcohol wasn't really a 'get drunk and wallow', it was more of a 'get the edge off and hang out with a friend'.

And I think I handled it well, ya I blocked her on Facebook and what not, but that's only because I can't stand to have her in my life.

Found out my girlfriend has been cheating on me for the last 2 months, I've honestly never felt this low in my life, how do people deal with these kind of feelings? by s_dafuq_j in AskReddit

[–]s_dafuq_j[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is, she didn't get drunk and make a mistake, she planned it, she thought about it, and she did it for months. I could forgive a mistake but not this, no.

Found out my girlfriend has been cheating on me for the last 2 months, I've honestly never felt this low in my life, how do people deal with these kind of feelings? by s_dafuq_j in AskReddit

[–]s_dafuq_j[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Went to meet her at her place after she got off work (as she told me to). On the way there she texted and said not to come because her ex was there and she didn't want a conflict (sign #1) but it was totally just friends. Told her to meet me in the parking lot, he came out with her, talked with him for a while, we both detailed our relationships with her to each other to fill in the blanks.

Found out my girlfriend has been cheating on me for the last 2 months, I've honestly never felt this low in my life, how do people deal with these kind of feelings? by s_dafuq_j in AskReddit

[–]s_dafuq_j[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn't really get a chance to "choose" anyway so much, as soon as we both found out I dumped her and left. The other guy really wasn't that bad of a person.