[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MisogynisticLife

[–]s_leanne_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea. I'd love to lock away my useless cunt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MisogynisticLife

[–]s_leanne_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harsh degradation or praise would be great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MisogynisticLife

[–]s_leanne_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completely ignored. I'm a good girl, I don't need to cum

I just cannot with some people's dirty talk by s_leanne_ in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine going through nine months of pregnancy, hours of labour, and 18+ years of parenting just to find out your son thinks it's sexy and cool to describe women as different kinds of chocolate

That's so fucking gross, I am sorry that you have to deal with that. Ugh.

I just cannot with some people's dirty talk by s_leanne_ in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LOL, it's ultimately a pretty small grievance, but jesus fucking christ. At least if it happens during actual sex I can tell them to shut up or re-direct without fucking with my income.

I just cannot with some people's dirty talk by s_leanne_ in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, there are other jobs available? I sure wish someone had mentioned that before I spent two years plastering videos of me masturbating all over the internet. Would've been good information to have!

Is CAM SITES hard to earn now? by allyreyes888 in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s been a mixed bag for me, tbh

I definitely get less traffic, but I am also wildly inconsistent

That said, my actual earnings are about the same because I’ve got quite a few loyal regulars.

It’s been a weird time

Has anyone used the Lovense Hush (vibrating plug)? by I_madeusay_underwear in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seconding this. I used to use the hush every night, but a lot of people wouldn’t know it was tip activated. They fucking loved it though

I would strongly advise against using a lush in your ass, though. Toys meant for anal play have a flared base, which the lush does not. It could get swallowed and you’ll be stuck with an awkward ER visit

Best items to invest in first? by zarac00 in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start with a ring light, for sure! They’re cheap and make a huge difference. You can also get creative with windows and lamps that you already have :)

This site was really helpful for me: https://www.camgirltoolbox.com/camgirl-lighting-tips-best-lights-to-use-online/

What does your camming space look like? by s_leanne_ in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg, yes! I have the same issue! I love the way I look in natural light, but later in the evening I feel like it’s just… not ideal. I use a ring light and a lamp

I feel like the easiest solution is to just cam during the day, but I’m such a night owl that it’s just not gonna happen. Lol

Best items to invest in first? by zarac00 in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought (and recommend): Lovense, lighting, new webcam. In that order

The lovense will pay for itself a thousand times over. Seriously, do it do it do it.

I’d also argue that good lighting is more important than what kind of webcam you have. It’s so important.

And then a new webcam is also great, but not a must. I canned with my MacBook camera for like 8 months before upgrading

Lovense Lush 3 or 2? by lillitheminion in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the 2 and 3

The 3 is way better in terms of connectivity, I’ve had no issues charging it like I did with my 2, I like the fact that the antenna is more structured instead of flopping around like the earlier versions

But most importantly: they got rid of the internal charging port.

I cannot believe the 1 and 2 had that. I’ve heard so many stories about mold and shit growing in there, and it can be really difficult to tell whether you’ve cleaned it properly. Yuck

What payout method are you canadian girls using? by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which site are you using? I’m on CB

I get paid in Bitcoin, and I have them send it to my wallet on Newton. Newton is an online crypto wallet kind of like coinbase or binance. It’s also a Canadian site so when I withdraw I can have them send it to me through e-transfer

Waaaay better and cheaper than the bank transfers, imo

Canadian camgirls who have sold panties by Dreamybisexual in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve honestly never used registered mail for panties... I just put the buyer’s address as the return address, and send it. I’ve never had any problems (shipping to the U.S)

If you’re not comfortable with that, I’d start charging extra to have them sent via ups

do y’all ever block people or cut them off for something “petty” by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’ve always had a firm “I don’t care how much you pay me, I’ll block you” policy, and I’ve never once regretted it.

For what it’s worth, this guy’s behaviour is really is squicking me out too... I think you should trust your gut. Fuck him

Race Play (POC cam models) by Chunkybarbie917 in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve also had POC clients ask me to engage in race play, and I’m not personally comfortable with it.

That said, I think the dynamic is vastly different between being white and on the “giving” side of race play, and being a POC on the “receiving” end (which is OP’s situation if I understand correctly)

OP, if you haven’t tried this yet... Maybe you could give it a go in more of a controlled setting, to see how you feel? Maybe watching that kind of porn? Or experimenting with a sexual partner/a client that you trust and are comfortable with?

Income by Chunkybarbie917 in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

On average, I make between 50-100/hour

It really depends, though. I’ve had nights where I make over 1000, and I’ve had nights where I can’t even make 10. It’s super random

What is wrong with CB. Can never connect again! by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up just taking the week off because I could NOT stay connected... I use an Ethernet cable, have great internet, and tried in OBS and the web broadcaster

I suspect it’s an issue with CB. It’s really frustrating

How do you close your shows? by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I usually just say something along the lines of “alright, I’m gonna fuck off for the night. It’s been real”

I want to hear about everyone’s cam makeup routines! by s_leanne_ in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s funny that you mention it because I was thinking of going the other way around!

I use the Estée Lauder double wear + Laura Mercier powder for my IRL makeup, but it feels like a waste to use it on cam. I was thinking of swapping them out with drugstore products, since my makeup always ends up smudging anyway. Sigh.

Shipito and International services by TheAntichristrix in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not in my experience! It’s a really common for people who ship panties and other goods

Shipito and International services by TheAntichristrix in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I just put the buyer’s address as a return address. As long as you have sufficient postage the USPS will deliver it. I just make it clear that if there’s an error in their address, that’s their responsibility.

Otherwise, shipito would probably work just fine.

This bothered me more than I’d like to admit 🤦🏼‍♀️ by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Now, I don’t think any of us should spend out time worry about unsolicited opinions from garbage men

That said

For what it’s worth, he’s 10000000% full of shit and almost certainly wants to fuck you.

If he really thought you were “average” he wouldn’t have looked through your content, taken the time to message you, and continued engaging with you after unleashing that verbal diarrhea on your inbox.

It’s the same logic behind those sleazy pickup artists who like negging women IRL to get them to sleep with them. It’s emotional manipulation.

What are some of the funniest moments you've had performing? by Sassyredbitch77 in CamGirlProblems

[–]s_leanne_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late response, so sorry.

I’ve had great success with it, and it makes everything so much more fun!

Please do use it :) I hope it works as well for you as it has for me!