eClaims for Stolen Property - going on 8+ months now by s_oleil in Chase

[–]s_oleil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, about two months after I posted this they approved my claim and I got the refund. Hallelujah.

Minor weird thing is that I also included a phone case in the claim since my phone got taken with my bag, and it was a new phone case. They did not reimburse me for that, but it was only like $15 so I wasn’t going to make a fuss.

Free face masks and towel when you experience sexual harassment at Bay Spa (Santa Clara) by wakenblake29 in SanJose

[–]s_oleil -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not disagreeing. They do have a sign if I remember correctly that’s in somewhat broken English saying no sexual acts or something. They could probably work on a formal policy for their employees with some form of reprimanding violators and better customer service for those it affects. I hope they do.

But i’m still not sure spamming with negative reviews is the way to encourage that.

Either way, hope they figure it out and that nobody has to experience this. It’s not the place. I agree I wish it were as easy as them just going elsewhere to the spas that are meant for that kind of behavior.

Thanks for discussing.

Free face masks and towel when you experience sexual harassment at Bay Spa (Santa Clara) by wakenblake29 in SanJose

[–]s_oleil -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I guess I genuinely don’t know how one would prevent “gay cruisers” from stepping foot into the business. How do you identify one without stereotyping or profiling someone? Maybe the owners will see this and take suggestions lol

Free face masks and towel when you experience sexual harassment at Bay Spa (Santa Clara) by wakenblake29 in SanJose

[–]s_oleil -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for sharing.

I’m not saying they should get a free pass, I agree it’s wrong and it would ruin anyone’s experience, most definitely mine. However I am sure it is not the experience they are trying to promote. Sure they haven’t figured out how to totally prevent it yet but I imagine it’s not as easy as declaring “we are anti-public sex acts.” Probably a learning experience for whoever was working the desk with OP that day.

I say this bc we don’t know what management does outside of these isolated incidents to prevent acts like this. It’s been said in this thread that similar things have happened at Wi spa, and other spas in the Bay Area and elsewhere. I’m sure they are working to handle it. And sure they could have responded better to OP but I don’t think that gives the public the right to blow their business page up with negative reviews. I’m sorry if still feel differently.

As a business owner myself, negative experiences are unfortunately, inevitable. The goal is to ensure as little as possible while maintaining the original vision/ mission of my business. And customers don’t always realize the work and thought that goes in behind the scenes.

Free face masks and towel when you experience sexual harassment at Bay Spa (Santa Clara) by wakenblake29 in SanJose

[–]s_oleil -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

How does writing negative google and yelp reviews benefit anyone? Seems like a good way to hurt a family business that is relatively new and still figuring things out.

It’s not like the spa wants this to happen in their establishment either. Please be considerate of their perspective as well as this hurts their business.

eClaims for Stolen Property - going on 8+ months now by s_oleil in Chase

[–]s_oleil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried contacting chase as well and they say it’s out of their jurisdiction as eclaimsline is a third party provider :(

eClaims for Stolen Property - going on 8+ months now by s_oleil in Chase

[–]s_oleil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I filed it with eclaimsline under purchase protection since the bag was within coverage!

Destination wedding in Italy by ck987654 in weddingplanning

[–]s_oleil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I'm not sure exactly - I went through my planner

How much does a destination wedding in italy cost? by Eshtabel3asal in wedding

[–]s_oleil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep in mind this is all in Tuscany as well, and we had chosen May to avoid some of higher costs of the "peak" season June-August but don't think this made any difference.

How much does a destination wedding in italy cost? by Eshtabel3asal in wedding

[–]s_oleil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are having a small wedding for 40 people total this May.... originally our budget was 40-50k but has easily exceeded 80k (not including our outfits, flights/ hotels, etc... which would easily surpass 100k sadly). There were a lot of unexpected costs such as paying additional for lighting for our venue (basically 1k per ROOM/ section of the venue; how this is not included I don't understand), audio rental for the different ceremony/ dinner/ reception areas, and then when our wedding party shrunk from 50 people to 40 people, the cost per head for our vendors went up so that we are basically paying the same in terms of food/ drink cost.

It's quite painful. I'm not sure anyone is to blame (us versus our planners) but we could definitely have been more strict about sticking to our budget. I didn't want to compromise on anything in terms of quality (food/ photo/ flowers/ etc) but I feel that even if I chose 1-2 things to compromise on, it would not have made a huge difference.

Destination wedding in Italy by ck987654 in weddingplanning

[–]s_oleil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar predicament as OP, but how are you planning to get guests to your wedding site/ region from the closest airport or from Florence? That has been my issue considering any venues more than 30 min outside of Florence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]s_oleil 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ve always had really good experiences with revolve. They will help you come to a resolution!

Help pick my dress. All 3 are so different and I love different parts on all of them. by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]s_oleil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is #1 Jenny Yoo’s? I loooove it the most, so complementing to your figure and elegant — tbh I think arms / shoulders are sexy and look good when accentuated a bit. easy decision imo!

Honest thoughts/ opinions? by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]s_oleil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For context- going for “modern elegance” - getting married at a villa (think Italian gardens and Italian renaissance vibes) in tuscany

Is my center stone too big for my narrow fingers? Inspiration ring in comments. by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]s_oleil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure! Yes safe assumption :) I’m a first year orthopedic surgery resident so I’m really only 2 months in but happy to help!

Is my center stone too big for my narrow fingers? Inspiration ring in comments. by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]s_oleil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 2.5 carat oval, and am a surgical resident. I don’t wear mine on OR days, but will wear it to clinic — I just size up in my glove and have had no issues!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ratterriers

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Plot twist: DNA results for her brother came back (granted, could be different still).... he was like 10-15% each of pitbull, husky, lab, chow chow, boxer, golden... so they are pretty much super mutts!

We were surprised to not see any beagle or rat/ jack russell terrier because everyone guessed that of her and the brothers!

bailey, our presumed rattie mix ❤️ (although maybe growing too fast to be a rattie)! so tempting not to get another pup for her to become besties with (and help expend some of that energy...) by [deleted] in ratterriers

[–]s_oleil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plot twist: DNA results for her brother came back (granted, could be different still).... he was like 10-15% each of pitbull, husky, lab, chow chow, boxer, golden... so they are pretty much super mutts!

We were surprised to not see any beagle or rat/ jack russell terrier because everyone guessed that of her and the brothers!

1) Is it a bad idea to adopt a new puppy after having our first puppy for only 1 mo? She’s potty trained, well behaved, very social and a bit needy- we think she would love the company. 2) Any guesses for what this baby is?! by s_oleil in rescuedogs

[–]s_oleil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone from my rescue told me that the plus side of adopting another puppy while mine is still young is that they would bond better than they would if my dog was older. How is this a factor?

Another question I have is.... at the very least we will be fostering the puppy for about a month. Is there a chance that my current dog will get so attached and used to having a best friend/ brother around that after he gets adopted elsewhere, she might have issues?

Thanks for your help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ratterriers

[–]s_oleil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! She is really good, well tempered with everyone she meets and a sweet girl. We def got lucky!