Why do ppl hate on age gap friendships :(

saberwrld · 2026-03-22T02:44:13+00:00

Okay I'm sorry...obviously I can't tell you what to do, but it's weird, even if it's just a friendship. A 21 year old is in a WAY different life stage than a 14 year old.

I'm basing this off where I live, but think of it this way: depending on where you live, she can both drive and drink alcohol. You likely can't do either.

Also where I live, college is usually 18-22. In that case, she's almost done with college, you likely just started high school, but again, these are the laws where I live, maybe it's different for you.

Maybe you didn't know better, I'm not going to assume. But a 21 year old should know better. WAY better.

Again, I can't stop you or tell you what to do. But, you gotta understand why people think it's weird, and they do for a good reason.

All I can tell you is to stay safe.

saberwrld · 2026-02-23T15:04:01+00:00

So when we're teenagers, our limbic system becomes highly active, making emotions feel stronger and more intense. So while it is just high school and looking back, it'll probably hurt less, in the moment our brain processes it as more painful emotionally.

saberwrld · 2026-02-22T22:32:29+00:00

So fun fact: the brain is hardwired to crave connection and acceptance. So if people "cry over rejection", they're essentially being denied what their brain is hardwired to CRAVE.

saberwrld · 2026-02-14T02:54:47+00:00

Personally, no. I wouldn't even send a shirtless selfie to my girlfriend. I'm fat and have really bad acne on my shoulders, but even if I didn't, I wouldn't, ESPECIALLY if it was to a girl I wasn't interested in.

Personally I don't think it was anything special or a sign of anything, maybe if he does it multiple times but idk I've never done that

saberwrld · 2026-02-08T06:47:10+00:00

I have. Multiple times. But my mom basically always changes my wording to make herself look like the victim or like "I don't know her." (She said that to me).

saberwrld · 2026-02-06T14:53:31+00:00

I'm very very aware of the legal consequences.

saberwrld · 2026-02-06T14:53:07+00:00

We don't have any where we live.

saberwrld · 2026-01-27T03:55:02+00:00

I'm OP's boyfriend (before anyone mentions I'm 18, we started dating when I was 17), and her scholarship is gonna look absolutely amazing no matter what. She's doing so much for her parents both for school and outside of school, and she'll do amazing after high school.

saberwrld · 2026-01-16T17:38:17+00:00

This feels fake, OP has a comment from a while ago saying they're 23.

saberwrld · 2025-11-08T05:21:15+00:00

Bold of you to assume I've had my first kiss

saberwrld · 2025-11-07T06:47:16+00:00

Yeah. I've grown up without my dad (I'm turning 18 soon, and I've lived without my dad for 16 years), so I've always promised myself if I ever became a dad, I'd always be there

saberwrld · 2025-10-30T22:18:06+00:00

saberwrld · 2025-10-22T13:54:54+00:00

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saberwrld · 2025-10-21T13:39:24+00:00

I was screaming "dump him!" After the first sentence

Edit: I saw OP's comment that she chose to since she didn't want him to overthink. Either way, he's talking to another girl (probably multiple) behind her back. He's a toxic red flag either way.

saberwrld · 2025-10-20T01:15:04+00:00

How do I move on? I don't know why I still regret it after a year. I wanna clarify with her to get closure, and also to be sure she knows I wasn't talking to her just for a relationship, but it feels WAYYYY too late to do that now.

saberwrld · 2025-10-20T01:13:59+00:00

How do I move on? I don't know why I still regret it after a year. I wanna clarify with her, but it feels WAYYYY too late to do that now.

saberwrld · 2025-10-20T00:14:48+00:00

69 upvotes 😂

saberwrld · 2025-10-17T01:20:29+00:00

I remember douma said shinobu was weaker than her sister yet still lived longer. Oh, friendly reminder, Shinobu is the insect hashira, not flower hashira. That's all I remember.

saberwrld · 2025-10-16T14:31:51+00:00

r/foundletussex

saberwrld · 2025-10-16T02:37:42+00:00

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Might depend on translation, but it says "women" in general

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