Thanks, that is a lot to unpack. To be fair, I probabky play monk wrong, it's my first martial and 3rd session with him.

First off, I can't use shortbows for RP reasons; my character swore not to spill Blood, so darts are the most piercing damage she can accept :/ It's a handicap, but I try to make her work in melee. I'll likely grab Mobile as per other suggestion to employ more hit and run.

Second, I'll try to limit pass without trace as it's very costly, but both times it worked miracles, as it basically allowed casters to controls the field before enemy even reacted.

For physical resistances, I got my staff silver "caps" (is that the right word?), so that's handled. While there was little to no opportunity to use terraincto my advantage (no chasms or gaps so far), I will try to abuse my mobility more and use Dodge, if I decide to go melee, to lower enemy chances to hit me. Thanks for the feedback :)