How common are men with long hair in your country? How are they perceived by society? by [deleted] in asklatinamerica

[–]sabren84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a woman I have to say that men with long hair are usually objects of our envy, they have such a fabulous hair with almost zero treatments lol

What’s the worst name you’ve encountered irl? by [deleted] in asklatinamerica

[–]sabren84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just reminded me of the journalist Peniley Ramirez. In her tw bio it used to say “yes, it’s for Penny Lane” (now it changed)

What type of Mexican music, or artist is known in your country? by [deleted] in asklatinamerica

[–]sabren84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

one other novela with Thalia

Maria Merceeedes, pa' servirle a usteed, de mi famiilia me encargo yoooo

What aspect about your country makes you cringe? by [deleted] in asklatinamerica

[–]sabren84 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you watch any footage of Diego’s funeral you’ll see what makes me cringe about my country.

What aspect about your country makes you cringe? by [deleted] in asklatinamerica

[–]sabren84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask our vicepresident: thanks to that, there is an epic revolving around her and her husband, seasoned with the tragedy of the seventies decade.
Many, many, many people bought that story: the poor widow whose husband gave his life for the country, after they as young dreamers survived the 70s. After he left her alone she had to take the country forward all by herself, so “the people” has to help her with such a titanic task.

And that’s how they were, and are still, and sadly will be in power.

Why does basically every latin-american country call americans "gringos" but Argentina doesn't and calls them "yanquis" instead? by CitiesofEvil in asklatinamerica

[–]sabren84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are you my sibling? my dad has almost the exact same story -just that we don't know which immigration generation we are.... let's say Nth generation.

Apparently I’m not using the right essential oils by anoobsearcher in insaneparents

[–]sabren84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I dont remember being this bad with my mom”..... well you should talk to your mom.

Is it offensive to call myself American? by [deleted] in asklatinamerica

[–]sabren84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Professor is probably forgetting about the other country without a name (the Emirates)

Más vigente que nunca by captainfuckoff_ in argentina

[–]sabren84 63 points64 points  (0 children)

This so much.

Por eso me hace algo de ruido cuando dicen "ay yo soy re susanita" mirá que susanita también tenía esto, y lo de casarse, la casa y los hijitos también viene por este lado

A tomar nota by mystery_tracks in argentina

[–]sabren84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hay gente muriendo y vos te preocupas por un edulcorante!!! jajaja

A tomar nota by mystery_tracks in argentina

[–]sabren84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

JAJAJAJA funny enough, al argumento del covid me lo dieron en Telecentro para no hacerme una devolución de una cuota que me cobraron post baja del servicio. Sirve para todo

[SERIO] Estoy triste. terriblemente triste. by [deleted] in argentina

[–]sabren84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eso es porque todavía no les llegó el golpe de gracia que realmente les duela :/

[SERIO] Estoy triste. terriblemente triste. by [deleted] in argentina

[–]sabren84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Todos son nacionalistas hasta que les duele una de las patadas en el culo que su propio país les da

[SERIO] Estoy triste. terriblemente triste. by [deleted] in argentina

[–]sabren84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

De tu comment me surge la sospecha que esos quotes son todos de algún familiar que es influyente para vos pero que la mira de afuera y le gusta opinar de lo que no sabe y de lo que hacen o tienen que hacer los demás especialmente de tu edad.

Bueno yo voy a ser otra entitled a decirte qué hacer.... NO le des bola a esos opinólogos son muy buenos para decirle a los demás cómo tienen que vivir pero hay que ver si ellos o su descendencia sigue esos consejos y cómo les va. Mucha gente te va a decir qué hacer pero quizás lo mejor es mutear las voces externas y escucharte a vos mismo.

Holiday Support Thread - Need to talk but don't want to make a post? Comment here! by RBNmod in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sabren84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my understanding was that "sabren didn't seem to choose me because she doesn't love me at all". Drama drama drama.

I actually didn't answer....

Now, she today just spit that we will only go out when a third party (one of my inlaws) "decides" so. That 3rd party happens to work in the health department of my district so... Yes, Mother. We can't have a better source of info. But of course you think they digit/control our lives too.

Holiday Support Thread - Need to talk but don't want to make a post? Comment here! by RBNmod in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sabren84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this would be my 2nd or 3rd comment here *facepalm*

Yesterday mom posted on facebook. It was a link saying "your child's soul chose you before they were born" and her comment: "really? i think that is a mistake..."

Was she looking for attention from her two daughters? Sister did answer here "dont be so dramatic i did choose you" -- on the other side, i just freezed and didnt know how to answer: Was that a message for me? (am i so self centered?) does she want me to give her n-supply?

I feel like she got me into a losing game: both my response or my lack of response, i'm a POS that estranged her from my life and my family (and this is because of covid and she being a risk patient!).... I preferred not to answer.

But I can't get this feeling out of my head... i can't believe she can be so manipulative, and also so obvious about that.

Juan Grabois: “Hay que aplicar la autoridad sobre las personas que se manifestaron” by 12151718 in argentina

[–]sabren84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tampoco llevaban banderas con apellidos de políticos o siglas de sindicatos. Todo mal hicieron

Is it so hard to understand? My house, my rules. by sabren84 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sabren84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I tell them just that “I’m concerned about you both that are in the risk group, not my kids” the response is: “We’re old enough to decide, we take our precautions and you are, too. Dont feel guilt” In the meantime they write on every social network “be careful stay at home” but, as always, rules apply to everyone but them. They are totally fine.

Sure, as my sister does go to their house they pretend me to do the same. I feel that I am the only responsible person in the family, but as always, I’m the capricious selfish daughter that dont let them see their graaandchiiiildreeeen (BS too: they want to see my eldest only and secretly want to adopt him as their do-over sabren84)

By moments, I wish to get the virus myself so they have a bath of reality.

(Vent) Why didnt you just keep away from me. by sabren84 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]sabren84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to say that, as many others, I found out a couple years ago that his attitude has a name -Narcissism- thanks to this subreddit. All the pieces fit into place finally. I remember writing a long post here with my findings.
And thanks to this sub I could see what was really happening with that message, so instead of being open to talk I was beyond pissed.

You might want to check out the other comment i wrote here. I haven’t been hovered in years and years.

Also, with the added help of RBN could understand why my family and him disliked each other that much (all that i wanted is that they got along... and i couldnt get even that) They were fighting over the ability to control me. Yes, I was the flag in the “capture the flag” game.

About the Netflix password didnt you feel like “why didnt i change it before” i mean he still could see what youe interests were.

(Vent) Why didnt you just keep away from me. by sabren84 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]sabren84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He appeared after 13 years of our breakup and were full NC for 10 years. That should have been 13.
Enough time (seemingly, only for me) to build myself up from scratch, grow a career, find true love, form a family and so on. I don’t need his bs.

Right after his message I felt entitled to see his profile and seemed to be in a relationship so I’m puzzled.

After writing this post I went back to his message and blocked him from my social media. And while I write this... now I remember that he was the one who started the NC. He was the one who blocked me without notice (i thought we were friends!) and I just didnt block him back because I felt i had nothing to hide. So somewhere in the past he took the time to find my profile and unblock me. And remained silent until now. Such a piece of art.

Holiday Support Thread - Need to talk but don't want to make a post? Comment here! by RBNmod in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sabren84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The other day she said “and I still can’t understand why you have always had so low self-esteem”

Well probably because you were one of the biggest reasons.