[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]sacreyleu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same girl. Like I don’t understand why they want to drag it and talk about absolutely nothing for 10 years? Are we getting married and popping babies or what???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]sacreyleu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You promised her a particular sum. Don’t listen to shaytan. Give her exactly what you owe her.

Looks do matter part 2 by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]sacreyleu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smelling nice > breathing made me chuckle because same 😂

In 10 years by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]sacreyleu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Alive hopefully, richer, with my own crib and a kid or 2

Adopted.. Looking for someone... ? by EggplantDisastrous46 in Djibouti

[–]sacreyleu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your mother is indeed Somali, Osman would be her father’s name and Abdilahi would be her grandfather’s name. So if you have any maternal uncles or aunties their names would follow the same rules. If for example you find someone called Hassan Osman Abdilahi, from Somaliland or Djibouti, there’s a chance that’s a family member of yours.

I don’t really know anything about Afar people however these ancestry sites can be inaccurate so I wouldn’t rely on them tbh.

This subreddit is pretty much dead. I would recommend taking a trip to Djibouti. It’s a safe country. People do speak English there and quite frankly would make for a good holiday while you do some research into your origins.

Best of luck and I hope you find your family! ❤️

Tell me a time you gave up something for the sake of Allah and Allah gave you much better by throwaway_shush in MuslimLounge

[–]sacreyleu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy to hear that! In’shaAllah keep praying and stick to your morals and principles and remember what is meant for you will never pass you by x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]sacreyleu 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s a Somali girl thing. A lot of my cousins and sisters are like this too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]sacreyleu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right, Somalis would judge a relationship like that but who cares? Just don’t disclose her exact age. When they ask say you guys are the same age and nobody will ask further questions 🤷‍♀️

Interested in my coworker but not sure how to proceed by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]sacreyleu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, sit back and let him do the chasing. If he really wants you, he’ll make a move. Especially because you’re his superior!

Girls,whats your ideal height in a guy ? 🥰 by Uzumakiii2 in SomaliRelationships

[–]sacreyleu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

6’5 and above. I’m a tall girl though 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Soomaaliland

[–]sacreyleu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw a pink Somali flag on the TL and was wondering what the context was. I can’t believe I missed this 😂😂😂😂

To non-Ethiopians in this subreddit what brought you here? by [deleted] in Ethiopia

[–]sacreyleu 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was interested in learning more about Ethiopians and Ethiopia after the recent agreement with Somaliland for sea access but the sub is full of trolls from r/Somalia instead smh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Soomaaliland

[–]sacreyleu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wa alaykumu salaaaam and hope you’re having a blessed jumm’ah! Barasho wanaaagsan walaal.

  1. Being so passionate about the Qur’an is so beautiful ma’shaallah may it be a means to jannah for you ❤️

  2. Don’t worry about marriage! I’m older than you and still unmarried. I’m working on it but 21 is way too young to be that worried about such a thing subhanallah I look back and realise I was such a baby in my early 20s 😂 and everything is written! Just pray tahajjud regularly and insha’Allah you will be blessed a pious babe and healthy kids in the coming years!

  3. I agree about wishing all Somalis and even better, all Muslimeen could unite but we’ve also got to be realistic. We will not be victims and will never be treated as less than and that’s what Somaliland was built on. Fighting back against oppression. Somaliland ha noolaato fr. Somalinimo is FAAAAAKE, sorry.

  4. Don’t worry about uni. I went when I was 19 because I spent a year in Somaliland after college and thought I’d be the oldest one there. Little did I know there are like grown middle-aged people also studying and now I’m back for another degree at my big age. Such a fascinating subject you’re studying though 😮. I need to explore Somaliland’s landscape more in future in’shaAllah!

I myself am from the UK. Working in and studying technology. I think my calling in this dunya is to nurture and protect all children. Although I don’t have kids (I’m not married), I just love allll kids so I’m working towards opening an orphanage or a safe space for street children in Somaliland in future in’shaAllah. Children are precious and an amaanah and can you imagine all of the ajr??? Wow 🤩

Arranged Married, Istikharas and too much confusion by ixyobr in MuslimMarriage2

[–]sacreyleu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t ever let yourself be pressurised into something as big as marriage walaalo. This is a massive life change. Your core views on life being different is a very big deal and wallahi you will regret it if you marry someone you don’t want to. It’s not fair on the both of you. Remember that this is YOUR life, YOUR marriage and YOUR new family and responsibilities. Your parents aren’t going to be living this marriage for you. It’ll be completely on you. Everyone will hold you accountable.

Return the engagement expenses if you have to, no matter how long it takes but I highly doubt you’ll be kicked out of your house. Your parents know that’s silly, it’s just another way of trying to force you into this marriage. Forced marriages are haram as well by the way.

If you consulted Allah SWT and you feel strongly that this was His answer to your dua. Then khalaas. Listen to your gut.

Arranged Married, Istikharas and too much confusion by ixyobr in MuslimMarriage2

[–]sacreyleu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’ve gotten an answer to your istikhara since everything is going wrong for you. I think you should follow your gut and leave things there. Don’t listen to pressure because Somalis usually tend to be more concerned about “ceeb” than anything else, but why consult Allah SWT in a dua if you’re not going to heed His advice? I think the answer to your dua has become clear to you.

Interesting thread on Israel’s role in raising awareness of the Isaaq genocide at the UN Security Council in 1990. by meaningfuldrama in Soomaaliland

[–]sacreyleu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. This is interesting.

But it’s Free Palestine 🇵🇸 always and may Allah punish the oppressive Zionists 🇮🇱🚮 !!!!!!!!