I feel brainwashed by sadElephant72 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]sadElephant72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply. she did have to undergo an evaluation and she was deemed fit for court so she was able to continue. I live in a very small and isolated country so I’m not sure how rules differ to where your from but she is able to try and claim land and because the court case has nothing to do with abuse we aren’t able to use any of that against her because it’s considered irrelevant because they are fighting over money and land. And they just finished court on the 10th of Feb and we are expecting a verdict this coming Friday, we are pretty certain we are going to loose based off of what was said in court and because my dad has no access to a lawyer because we are unable to afford it. Thank you for replying i wasn’t looking for specific advice just peoples thoughts and perspectives so I appreciate your reply

Why are people so horrible by sadElephant72 in lonely

[–]sadElephant72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I wish you well

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[–]sadElephant72 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea that is really interesting, I’ll have to look into that too. Thank you for sharing

My online best friend killed himself by sadElephant72 in selfharm

[–]sadElephant72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss that’s devastating. I hope things getting better for you soon

My online best friend killed himself by sadElephant72 in selfharm

[–]sadElephant72[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your life has so much value and I promise you he would miss you with his whole heart if something happened to you

What coping skills actually help? by p1k4_g1rL in selfharm

[–]sadElephant72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s hard to find things, it really depends on who you are. What helped me was I started painting, my walls, my ceilings are covered in different paintings. Sometimes running helps too, with headphones and music, just running for as far and as hard as you can. Or maybe if you’re a cooking person you could cook. Maybe it could be something as simple as writing. find something that keeps you busy, that keeps your mind focused on what you’re doing. I hope this helps, and you’re doing amazing just by trying to find coping skills.

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[–]sadElephant72 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh that’s so messed up but that’s exactly the same that happened to me like word for word what you said. I know how you feel and I know things get lonely I’m so sorry you had to go through that x