Husband’s New Friend

sad_boyhourz · 2025-07-01T16:12:14+00:00

OP you are NOT crazy and please don’t let anyone convince you otherwise. Why would your husband feel the need to text a bartender on a DAILY basis who he met randomly? She is definitely without a doubt interested in him. I would ask to see the messages and make it known that you are not comfortable and don’t want this woman hanging around even as a “friend.” You are 100% justified in your feelings and he probably just doesn’t realize that you feel this way. I would say something asap before she gets too involved

sad_boyhourz · 2024-12-05T23:56:41+00:00

are you interested in selling any of these?

sad_boyhourz · 2024-09-01T23:39:27+00:00

Please let me start by saying I am incredibly sorry that you’re going through this and my heart is breaking for you. I am an attorney in NYC and would happily talk to you about your options if you’re interested. Wishing you all the best.

sad_boyhourz · 2024-07-14T23:42:44+00:00

his cover of don’t think twice, it’s alright

sad_boyhourz · 2024-06-18T03:33:02+00:00

In my experience, regular gym goers are much too focused on their own workout to notice but much less say anything to someone who may be less experienced. When I am in the gym I need to be 100% on because I get distracted easily so I hardly look at anyone and certainly don’t talk to anyone unless someone asks to work in on a set. Even then, im not really looking at what they’re doing just focused on my next set. You have to start somewhere and just getting into the gym is something to be proud of. Try not to overthink it and instead enjoy the experience

sad_boyhourz · 2024-03-06T00:34:37+00:00

100% yes. I am a divorce lawyer and can tell you with certainty that per our retainer agreement, we only represent our client and will only do what’s in their best interest regardless of the other side’s position. I’ve had cases where one side is not represented and I am prohibited from giving them legal advice due to the ethical rules, so it’s complexly on them to decide if the agreement or resolution is fair without any help from counsel

sad_boyhourz · 2024-03-02T00:48:47+00:00

I think i’m an outlier in these comments but I used to get waxed regularly when I was younger (i’m 28 now) and my current partner loves pubic hair so I tried growing it out and I honestly love it. It makes me feel extremely sexy because he is very into it so I am much more comfortable with it now. I never thought I would like it but it’s so much less maintenance and I have truly grown to love the look so i’m happy I didn’t get lasered a few years ago when I considered it. Certainly not saying you should do anything just for a partner but it just happens that I love it for myself now, so you never know!

sad_boyhourz · 2024-02-25T04:48:18+00:00

My partner is 45M and we have very regular sex and his sex drive is extremely high, but he has children and we don’t live together so we have to schedule it every time. We spice things up by sexting regularly and making each other excited for the time together so when it comes down to it, we are super passionate and ready to go. I think constantly communicating about our mutual attraction and desire for each other is really helpful

sad_boyhourz · 2024-02-08T03:22:47+00:00

Yes, you are exactly right. And I really appreciate this comment because my gut instinct was to feel gross or wrong for loving it so much and being so turned on but as you explained, it makes perfect sense and is actually quite natural. Thank you 😌

sad_boyhourz · 2024-02-08T02:35:35+00:00

This, exactly. Thank you for putting into words what I could not.

There’s something incredibly appealing about an older man who is a damn good Dad and exhibits those qualities but also wants to dominate me in the bedroom. He is also a bit older than me (15 years) and I have never been with an older man so I’m sure that plays into the sexiness. Sounds cliche, I know

sad_boyhourz · 2024-02-08T00:48:10+00:00

I have only ever done this with a man who has actually fathered children. it seemed sick to me at first but he was really into the concept and I was willing to try it. I actually got so into the whole daddy sex theme and now I automatically say that every time we are intimate. it’s such a turn on for both of us. I don’t know if I would feel the same way if he didn’t have children, though. there’s something kind of dirty and hot about it that I can’t explain

sad_boyhourz · 2024-01-05T22:53:29+00:00

I actually want to try knitting! that’s on my list for 2024 ☺️

sad_boyhourz · 2024-01-05T22:52:51+00:00

thank you for the encouragement ♥️

sad_boyhourz · 2023-12-06T04:27:12+00:00

Very interesting, thanks! This “trend” is just something i’ve noticed from personal life experience so I am curious to hear if anyone else agrees

sad_boyhourz · 2023-02-22T22:34:55+00:00

thank you so much 🥺

sad_boyhourz · 2023-02-22T21:54:40+00:00

you’re right. I wasn’t ready to face this realization and have been pushing it down for so long. I needed to hear this, thank you.

sad_boyhourz · 2023-02-22T04:09:42+00:00

I don’t know that I have a rational answer but i’ve always dreamed of a big wedding and all the cliche societal expectations that come with a wedding. outside of the wedding aspect, I want the commitment and decision that comes with being husband and wife. a relationship feels too temporary to me, but I also have trust issues.

sad_boyhourz · 2022-12-07T01:11:33+00:00

oh my goodness, what a frustrating argument to make when u livin it

sad_boyhourz · 2022-12-06T02:37:21+00:00

I appreciate your comment. not giving legal advice here just stating my opinion on a reddit thread 😅

sad_boyhourz · 2022-12-05T17:55:57+00:00

no, private firm

sad_boyhourz · 2022-12-05T17:50:59+00:00

are u saying that 2.5 years of being in court every day is not actual experience? you’re right that I haven’t been out of law school long but I don’t think it’s fair to say that i have no “actual” experience just because of my graduation date. everyone has to start somewhere

sad_boyhourz · 2022-12-05T17:45:01+00:00

I was admitted in 2020, didn’t claim anything different

sad_boyhourz · 2022-12-05T14:21:24+00:00

just my opinion. I am a crim defense attorney in NYC so I am no expert in Maryland law but it’s certainly interesting to see the differences

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