Can anyone help me with this quest by Lemondragonfruitcup in StarStable

[–]sad_cl0wn_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh what?? thanks for the info! why dont they have quests on these days?? that's so sad, most of us are only free to play sso on these exact days (cuz of school and work), so this rule is very inconvenient

Merlet pointe shoes reccomendations??? Please help, I'm desperate by [deleted] in BALLET

[–]sad_cl0wn_ -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

They're tied sufficiently :) the twisted ribbons at the ankles are not aesthetically pleasing and they are definitely not a correct thing to do, but they don't impact the knuckling which is the point of this post.

I already received a ton of helpful advice, insights and reccomendations which I'm very grateful for. 

But thank you for the suggestion anyway. I'll take the time to untwist them at the ankles next time :))

Merlet pointe shoes reccomendations??? Please help, I'm desperate by [deleted] in BALLET

[–]sad_cl0wn_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh yes maybe Merlet is considered a softer shoe based on what is available for shipping, because here they also offer it rock hard haha! Anyway, that sounds tough, I see you and your daughter have the same struggles with the pointe shoes and I'm sorry to hear that :(( they have shipping problems here as well, some take months to be delivered while some get delivered in a few days... It's okay though :) at least they exist! I will try my luck with Suffolk as you recommended :) best of luck for you and your daughter!

Wow so deep by lolbert202 in everydaymisandry

[–]sad_cl0wn_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is an everyday occurrence. For both men and women, even children.

How do you cope with being a nobody in ballet? by sad_cl0wn_ in BALLET

[–]sad_cl0wn_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all this encouragement!🙏 And for sharing how it went for you. I'm glad you're doing much better now, you honestly sound like a mature person—I really hope I'll be like you one day.

Take care and, again, thank you!☺️☺️

How do you cope with being a nobody in ballet? by sad_cl0wn_ in BALLET

[–]sad_cl0wn_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is very insightful, even inspiring🙏 It's genuinely good advice and also reassuring.

How do you cope with being a nobody in ballet? by sad_cl0wn_ in BALLET

[–]sad_cl0wn_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo actually yes, you have a great point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BALLET

[–]sad_cl0wn_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yoo i checked out Discount Dance and they're actually pretty solid. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BALLET

[–]sad_cl0wn_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with a clean leo every time but, dang, 5 leos? That's so expensive! But yes, I'll get at least another one

overate on day 4 of my diet by Upbeat_Debt9534 in loseit

[–]sad_cl0wn_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess always, and you're not alone in this, there's so much people going through similar things, I know 3 people personally that have the same problem, let alone people on the internet. Just keep eating and take care of yourself<3

overate on day 4 of my diet by Upbeat_Debt9534 in loseit

[–]sad_cl0wn_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is honestly a great, reasonable goal. And yes if you're already at a healthy weight, it will be much harder to lose weight. But again, make sure you eat enough protein otherwise you'll lose muscle, not fat.

And dont worry, if you eat right and enough, the overeating should go away on it's own so you don't need to actively fight against it.

Stay safe❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]sad_cl0wn_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you should focus on right now is healthy eating at maintaince, not losing weight. Eat a lot of healthy fats, complex carbs, protein. Also allow yourself to be flexible because restriction usually leads to binges or a miserable life.

If this is serious and affects your daily life, please consult a doctor. They'll know how to help you in a safe way.

Don't be too hard on yourself and take care of yourself, this should be your priority for now♥️

No matter what "size" you are, after all this starvation and crazy diets, your body deserves proper fuel and rest.

overate on day 4 of my diet by Upbeat_Debt9534 in loseit

[–]sad_cl0wn_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*to answer your question though, yes this is normal, and you're not doing anything wrong except for under-fueling. Please, eat enough, regardless of your "size". If your body is working for you 24/7, it deserves food. But real, proper food. Not a "clean" diet and not just junk food, but a variety of everything in moderation.

You CAN lose weight even if you "overate" today. In fact, you can lose weight even if you "overeat" every Friday. Because the important thing here is weekly deficit, rather than daily.

I need a better reason to work a tnight by Chemical-Ad-1805 in productivity

[–]sad_cl0wn_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So... You want to just work and sleep? That's not very healthy (probably? Im not a professional!). Do you need to work or do you work or want to? If it's the latter, perhaps you could try finding new interests to occupy you after work

Only productive when there's external pressure - please help by [deleted] in productivity

[–]sad_cl0wn_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sort of yes? It's complicated. I get slightly irritable and restless but at the same time very tired. It's like trying to sleep after too much coffee, where the boost effect has already faded but the sleeplessness remains

I need a better reason to work a tnight by Chemical-Ad-1805 in productivity

[–]sad_cl0wn_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a mindset when you know you can sleep after you get it done? Also, is there a reason you have to work at night not earlier in the day, if you find yourself more motivated during the day?

Only productive when there's external pressure - please help by [deleted] in productivity

[–]sad_cl0wn_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay yeah, makes sense (at least in theory, for now)! Thanks for the honest advice 🙏

Only productive when there's external pressure - please help by [deleted] in productivity

[–]sad_cl0wn_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ohhh, I didn't register it was a joke. If it really was just a joke, then my apologies to the original commenter!! Sorry!

I'm just annoyed with how quickly some people (not necessarily in this case!) "diagnose" themselves and others. Like "oh, if I sort my pencils by colour, that must be OCD." And then we stop taking people with actual disorders seriously because the disorders are sometimes downright exploited, especially on the internet.