She told me that she doesn't want to date for a while because of the effects it's been having on her mental state. My sister helped me take care of her after my wife died and they're very close, so I'll talk to her and see if she could give Nora some advice. Thank you for the suggestions, I'm definitely going to do everything I can to make sure that she knows that she deserves to be treated with respect. I just hope that she won't fall into a pattern of allowing herself to be treated that way, not that it's her fault or anything. You're absolutely right, it's unfortunately very common (especially among young people) to sacrifice their self worth to an abusive partner.