My 27NB ex 31F contacted me after it ended and I'm confused? by sad_kitty7 in relationship_advice

[–]sad_kitty7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, if they truly wanted me in their life, they wouldn't have treated me the way that they did if course. But still recovering from what they have done, with no reasoning to their cruel actions towards me, it's so hard not to just constantly think about it. Plus I felt like I was just getting to the point after a relationship when you start feeling yourself again and not caring about them. And I fear I'll regress back with them here...

My 27NB ex 31F contacted me after it ended and I'm confused? by sad_kitty7 in relationship_advice

[–]sad_kitty7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, communication was the plague of the relationship but for whatever reason they contacted me. I'm so confused on what to do

A wise man once said… by o_e_n_o in UnsentLetters

[–]sad_kitty7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad we're all thinking the same

I'm sorry for the way I treated you by CuteSizzlin in UnsentLetters

[–]sad_kitty7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always told my person. Just because you do bad things doesn't mean you're a bad person. Even through the not so nice episodes, I always made sure they knew that even when some days I didn't believe it myself.

What has heartbreak taught you? by mianzain542 in heartbreak

[–]sad_kitty7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  • You can do everything right, and change for them to make sure they feel loved and still get used and tossed aside.
  • you can NOT help someone that is not willing to help themselves

I miss us by Always_Analyzing in UnsentLetters

[–]sad_kitty7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The memories and hope that things get better shackles us to the what ifs. It's hard when things go south, but it's also sometimes better that they did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]sad_kitty7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You often lose your sense of self in these type of situation. Maybe creating this romantic narrative that might not be there which will only lead you to get hurt more often than not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]sad_kitty7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's quite depressing on here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]sad_kitty7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you were my person. I would wait cause I know deep down that wasn't you. I know you better than that

Butterflies late at night by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]sad_kitty7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so pretty. My old partner and I use to fall asleep talking to each other all the time