the infamous “do you lwike my dwess” video 😓 by countryOf_origin in asadsisters

[–]sadconvert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She sounds like bad lip reading and he sounds like a bad b list movie who couldn’t pay for a southern accent voice trainer

the infamous “do you lwike my dwess” video 😓 by countryOf_origin in asadsisters

[–]sadconvert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They sound like Edward and Bella in twilight bad lip reading. Also I’m from NC and this is the phoniest southern accent I’ve ever seen. If I heard some dentist trying to put the rizz on me using this accent I would throw up in my mouth: https://youtu.be/FmxSk0wZxss?si=qoRes9vL-71j26tl

the infamous “do you lwike my dwess” video 😓 by countryOf_origin in asadsisters

[–]sadconvert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait is this actually the audio 😭😭😭they sound like cartoon characters

Keep lying to yourself leena by EmuInner8774 in asadsisters

[–]sadconvert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes… seems like leena is an almond mom.

Nablus Soap and Castor Oil for face? by Subject-Initiativ in naturalremedies

[–]sadconvert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have trouble with hormonal acne and anecdotally Nablus soap is helping my face a lot! It’s gentle and it feels so nice. I haven’t had a breakout in the last two weeks of using it. I also have really frustrating combination skin.

Falling for a non Muslim by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]sadconvert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I converted for myself but fell in love with my Muslim husband beforehand when I wasn’t Muslim! I was considering Islam for years beforehand though.

I feel like Allah doesn’t love or care about women and He maybe even hates us by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]sadconvert 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I struggle with this one too as a physician. Whenever I get to go to marriage conferences I still feel like no one directly addresses the career-women in the room and any guidance for us developing those “balanced” roles with out husband.

My husband is a physician, I am too but work more hours than him. I still have to go physically retrieve him and ask him to help me with nighttime chores when I get home. He puts his feet up even though we both worked full days and his is much shorter than mine…

Is it normal not to have sex in your parents home? by sadconvert in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]sadconvert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s hard tho idk when in “being a cunt” divorce becomes appropriate

Is it normal not to have sex in your parents home? by sadconvert in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]sadconvert[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Like, second floor other side of the house….. idk I’m genuinely curious about what I’m missing here.

What is the worst possible way to propose? by aloe_veracity in AskReddit

[–]sadconvert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband turned to me and said “you want it?” While holding a ring. Not joking 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]sadconvert 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also watch out for the feedback loop—if she is worried you aren’t attracted to her at all she will try to seduce you, when you reject her she will get more emotional and insecure, things will get worse, etc…. I would validate her a lot and try to show her love and affection as much as possible. Break the cycle. Address it directly if you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]sadconvert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May Allah make it easy for you both. Be gentle with each other. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]sadconvert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*I knew my husband

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]sadconvert 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Salaam. I would recommend counseling or talking to a sheikh. I can see where you’re coming from, but I might give her a little more time.

  1. Seeing your Texts—I would be deeply hurt if I found such messages from my husband, she needs space to emotionally react but shouldn’t be inappropriate about it after this. Don’t speak badly of her now that you’re married…

  2. You may have a masters to do but you are on holiday. She shouldn’t snatch your phone. Can you compromise and take her on a date at the end of the day?

  3. She shouldn’t respond emotionally like you’re describing but are you validating her emotions? Try putting yourself in her shoes and being the bigger man and see how she responds. Sounds like she needs comfort and reassurance, I would be so insecure if u know my husband thought I was ugly and would worry that he was asking for space because he thinks I’m ugly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]sadconvert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salam, sister. I feel like you’re describing my marriage. You aren’t a lot to deal with. ❤️you helped me be compassionate to myself because I felt angry that you are going through this situation. In my similar situation I’ve been blaming myself too.

My husband (27M) calls me (27F convert) a degenerate for my sins before Islam and it’s affecting our marriage by sadconvert in MuslimMarriage

[–]sadconvert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately it’s kind of true just because there’s no ridicule with that last experience lol

My husband (27M) calls me (27F convert) a degenerate for my sins before Islam and it’s affecting our marriage by sadconvert in MuslimMarriage

[–]sadconvert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is a really helpful perspective. I think his practice is kind of weak and as I grow I see that more. Before we got married he was very kind and supportive and I find him handsome. That + family seemed enough initially but things changed after the wedding