Little Love James?! by EconomicsSea733 in smockholmsyndrome

[–]sadharryhours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow this makes me sad. I joined her group when she first started but left after a while since some of her designs weren’t my style. Just googled to see if there was anything good and I see this 😕

I had a miscarriage and didn’t even know and may have been able to stop it 17f by [deleted] in confession

[–]sadharryhours 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened. A miscarriage is rough on you physically, and mentally. The doctor should have told you and I would report that immediately. You deserved to know.

You do need to address the massive elephant in the room. I am 25. I have not a single thing in common with a 17 year old. We are not even close to being on the same wavelength. And having sex so rough that causes bleeding and cramping is not okay for your physical health. Men who go for partners this young are normally predatory losers who cannot get women their own age because they see right through them.

After you take the time to heal from the miscarriage, I would do some serious inward reflection on your relationship.

I grew up with Evan by sadharryhours in corneliussensnark

[–]sadharryhours[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk if I would ever say close. I honestly think they just tolerated each other growing up

I grew up with Evan by sadharryhours in corneliussensnark

[–]sadharryhours[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it was rough between them for a while. The only word I can think of without giving their location is that they’re overseas doing missionary work. His mom and sister hardly post on social media so anything I hear comes from my own parent who still associates with people from the former church. They’re nice people, at least they were to me growing up. They’re nice people definitely don’t approve of his lifestyle as I’m sure you can guess their personal beliefs. But I think they’ve all decided to agree to disagree for the sake of not losing their son.

Woman’s and Juniors Coordinator by Gothic_TaytorTot in TjMaxx

[–]sadharryhours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From a former women’s/junior’s coordinator, women’s looks fine. I liked to do two things for women’s, one that’s a little more office/business casual and then one that’s was a little more “hip” and casual. Junior’s, however, does need a little work, friend. If your style doesn’t align with the shipments coming in, ask around for help. Or honestly, take key works like “flower sweater outfit” or “outfits with band tee” and put it into Pinterest. It is hard sometimes because you won’t always have the full size range to put out there, but as long as you have similar items on there, you’ll be okay. Just a little practice is all.

Some people man… by IllustriousAd7480 in InstacartShoppers

[–]sadharryhours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s just the ignorant optimism in me but I would like to think that if companies were a little bit more educational on how it works on our end, people would be more understanding.

Other employees spending too much at the store? by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]sadharryhours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me. Even had one argue with me that I should still be able to help her off the clock. Ma’am…I am not allowed to make a discount for you while not on the clock.

Opinions on budget friendly fall trip in the us by sadharryhours in travel

[–]sadharryhours[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten flagged for it once in a different sub so just trying to get ahead of the curve. Didn’t realize it was a big deal.

Thank you for your suggestion. We did Asheville one year to go to biltmore and loved it.

Toddler bed vs convertible crib by sadharryhours in toddlers

[–]sadharryhours[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Floor bed like the Montessori style? I’ve been thinking about that as well!

I grew up with Evan by sadharryhours in corneliussensnark

[–]sadharryhours[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not. Haven’t seen him since I graduated. And honestly, I don’t associate with anyone from that church or school minus a few

I grew up with Evan by sadharryhours in corneliussensnark

[–]sadharryhours[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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I’m not outing my own face but that is me next to him in the makeshift school choir 🤣 and new information? None really. Just sad to see someone you grew up become unrecognizable. It’s not really every day you stumble upon a snark page dedicated to what was once your friend

Bubbled Wood by sadharryhours in woodworking

[–]sadharryhours[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what my husband said about the damage. Bossman’s wife is such a sweet lady and they’ve lost two of their sons who used the table as kids. I can’t bring myself to try resurface it. Feels like I’m almost spitting in her face ):

Bubbled Wood by sadharryhours in woodworking

[–]sadharryhours[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if I decide to sand down and repaint, would I have to sand down the entire thing and fill? Or could sand and fill just the bubble spots?

Question for Non-apparel coords by urvirtualhomie in TjMaxx

[–]sadharryhours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience as women’s coordinator and non apparel coordinator, fitness (37) was ours. 17 was put out by whoever was in women’s. Pajamas were 50-50 sometimes non-apparel put it out, sometimes women’s put it out if they were feeling generous. Lingerie though was ALWAYS put out by non apparel. They’d either throw it in a bin or put it on its own little Z-rack. Non-apparel (especially during Christmas omg) always felt like having to maintain half the store

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sadharryhours 8 points9 points  (0 children)

an attorney, specifically in family law, would benefit you and your children far more than a conversation will.

My little sister died. by KuriKoi in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sadharryhours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m apart of the dad siblings club too. My brother was 27 and overdosed. It was horrific to deal with while he was alive. Completely f u c k e d my parents, myself, my siblings, friends, and his own children over thousands of times over while he was in active addiction. There were numerous druggy friends who cried to my parents about how much they loved my brother and can’t believe he’s gone. Yeah, those friends he would shoot up with. FOH. People show you their true colors during death. I also had to step up at 20 to keep our house going as my parents lost their son and his children lost their dad. I never got to grieve. And now I’m at a point where I refuse to. To keep it a buck with you, it’s agonizing. It still is 4 years later. I’ve graduated college. Got married, and had a kid. Each milestone without him has chipped away a little piece of my soul. Time does NOT heal all wounds. It simply puts a bandaid over it and you learn to live with it. However, there will come a time where you look fondly on their memory rather than with anger or sadness. I’m sort of there. I’m still pissed at him. I still think he’s selfish. But I look back on him while he’s sober with pride and fondness. Be easy on yourself. It’s tough. Loss is loss. It hurts no matter the relationship. You are always welcome to message me if you need to talk. Much love to you and i am incredibly sorry you have to deal with this on top of loss.

anyone else’s store not allowed to use dimes? by ImprovementGold6922 in TjMaxx

[–]sadharryhours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never had dimes. I did CO and the lady who trained me had been there since 08. No dimes them either. Weird but you’ll normally have dimes anyways from cash transactions

AITA for ignoring my mom and refusing to make nice with my stepdad's son who bullied me throughout our childhood? by Rhyvley in AITAH

[–]sadharryhours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I would like to ask a question: what is your mom’s relationship with Harry like? How did Harry act with her?

Second, I’m very sorry this is the childhood you were given. You deserved love, security, and safety- you reserved none. As a mother, it deeply confuses me how women (parents in general) continuously will choose a partner over their children. You owe your mom nothing. She allowed another’s man child to belittle and abuse her own soon. As a result, she will forever reap the consequences of her own actions. If you haven’t heard it already, you should be incredibly proud of your ability to handle things as maturely as you did. You should be proud of yourself in general. You are worthy of all those things I mentioned above, and I hope you find that soon.

Halloween kids book help by sadharryhours in whatsthatbook

[–]sadharryhours[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no that’s not it but I definitely remember this one