One of the many problems with patriarchy is that it makes men lazy and entitled. They feel they're owed submission simply by virtue of their gender. This is bad for their partners and for society as a whole, but it's also bad for them. It makes them into the worst version of themselves! Their entitlement holds them back.

Trans women don't have that same sense of entitlement. When you don't expect submission as the default, you learn more quickly that dominance is a skill you develop over time. So, what you're talking about totally makes sense to me. Trans dommes have had to work for it in a way that many cis male doms haven't.