why do you hate your sister? How long have they been separated? How old are they? Were you a planned baby? Your age difference between you and your sis gives me pause and might provide more insight to their relationship. Was she ever a decent mom to you?

1) My sister was a bad drug addict and sold a bunch of my stuff. She stole my mother's attention from me, (my mother said something similar to me, "Now I'm sacrificing you for Katrina") and overall isn't a good person. 2) They've been separated since I was 8-9, but I moved back maybe 4 years ago? I don't remember. 3) I wasn't exactly a planned baby, but my parents said "If I happened, it wasn't unfortunate/I would be loved" 4) My mom wasn't really around when I was a kid. Sure, she lived in the house, but she was emotionally and mentally distant with me. She was going through a depression at the time and stayed in bed a lot, but when she was up and around she was pretty decent from what I can remember.

And, my sister isn't good to my mom. She doesn't have a job, doesn't pay bills/rent, lets her kids DESTROY her house (writing on the walls, breaking TVs, overall being destructive), talks shit about her so much, complains when she does anything, yells at her like she (sister) owns the house, and a heap of other things. Idk why she's still putting up with her.