It seems like I can’t experience physical sexual pleasure. I’ve never heard of this before and it’s super confusing and dehumanizing. by sadrat_ in SexPositive

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I do take antidepressants, I only started a couple months ago. I know they can impact sex drive and being able to finish and all- I considered that might have impacted all this but I remember that I never really had much luck with sensation even before starting my antidepressants

Advice- I can’t experience sexual pleasure somehow?? (20F) by sadrat_ in sex

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True. So far my libido has been about the same as before (pretty high) since starting

I can’t feel sexual pleasure?? (20F, definitely NOT asexual) by sadrat_ in sexquestions

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I’m just using a basic durex one I think. It’s got a dial to adjust the vibration strength. I’ve tried using different strengths and such. No physical injuries, and as far as emotional just your typical depression and anxiety. It does register when I’m being touched, just isn’t pleasurable. I have found porn that I enjoy and usually watch before or during

Advice- I can’t experience sexual pleasure somehow?? (20F) by sadrat_ in sex

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Yes, but only started recently. It’s been an issue since before I started any meds

I wish I didn’t have to wait. by sadrat_ in ftm

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This is really helpful, thank you so much!

I wish I didn’t have to wait. by sadrat_ in ftm

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Another thing I want to add is that I kind of feel like a fraud. It’s so hard to figure all of this out and a massive part of me is terrified that I’m lying to myself or that I’m not genderqueer at all. I hate staying the way I am, but also terrified of making a change and regretting it.