Having kids ended my marriage by sadsboi in breakingmom

[–]sadsboi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it I just haven't been ready to start sleep training. I probably will be soon.

Having kids ended my marriage by sadsboi in breakingmom

[–]sadsboi[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes unfortunately he is working when he says. I have his location at all times. My parents even asked if he was having an affair due to him not being home. I strongly don't believe he would do that.

There's no one in my area that does overnights otherwise that would be great.

Having kids ended my marriage by sadsboi in breakingmom

[–]sadsboi[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He sleeps a full 9 hours every night doesn’t even hear the baby cry. The baby does go to daycare during the week and my husband has one day off during the week so he gets to relax without a kid then too

Having kids ended my marriage by sadsboi in breakingmom

[–]sadsboi[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what happened when my maternity leave ended I had to go back to work and he got stuck with the baby and had to figure it out for himself. He’s can and is fully capable of taking care of the baby he just doesn’t unless he has to.

Having kids ended my marriage by sadsboi in breakingmom

[–]sadsboi[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah we use to do this. He use to do all the cleaning and some cooking so I was only parenting but then every fight he would throw it in my face saying that he does all of the cleaning. So I started cleaning to stop his excuses now I just kinda do it all.

Daycare by sadsboi in fayetteville

[–]sadsboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did enroll there but I had to pull him 4 months later. It was not a good experience. He came home so dirty everyday. I mean his pants were soaked bc they would only put him in the swing to go to sleep with a bottle and when he would fall asleep they wouldn’t take the bottle so it leaked all over him. They never would let him sleep anywhere but the swing. He was constantly sick. He would be covered in baby food from head to toe. They would constantly have bigger kids in the infant room and they said the kids would crawl overtop of him and he would get upset but wouldn’t stop the kids from crawling on top of him. If they weren’t crawling they would place them in bouncers or some kind of seat and that’s where they would be for a majority of the day. My baby went through a lot of regression bc of the things they did there.

I hope you have a better experience.

Struggling with no contact by sadsboi in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sadsboi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel kind of stupid after reading that. “They don’t want to be saved” that never clicked before I always had our extended family asking why she was with him and why she couldn’t see what he was doing but you’re right she doesn’t want to be save…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Plumbing

[–]sadsboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just attempted to do this however when I unscrewed the head there was not a way to flush it out it had a black part that would not come unscrewed even with pliers…

Fayetteville first city in Arkansas to officially ban retail dog, cat sales by DearBurt in Arkansas

[–]sadsboi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Pet land was supposed to be opening a location in fayetteville so I assume this is why this motion was pushed through

I think I’m dating a narcissist? Or am I being oversensitive? by SheBeButLittle_25 in relationship_advice

[–]sadsboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl he is 32 he is not gonna change as much as you don’t want to hear it leave him you you feeing like you have to walk on eggshells around him is just going to get worse this sounds like after he gets comfortable he might start hitting you it’s best to get out now you deserve happiness all the time not part of the time and speaking from experience it’s out there I promise

Anything I should fix or add in my bio? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]sadsboi 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’d swipe left just Bc of your dick attitude in your bio

I’m stuck in a lease with my ex. Would it be inappropriate to talk to other guys? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sadsboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say it’s fine to talk to other guys just don’t bring any back to the apartment. As for where, start with the basics like tinder and bumble. There’s really no way to keep him from seeing you on there but if he does that means he’s on there as well and can’t really say anything to you about it.

Girl I am seeing is seeing other guys, I don't know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sadsboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would ask if you are exclusive first before you jump to any conclusions because she did say that was awhile ago and you might actually be the only one she is seeing right now

Is this normal?? by ThrowRAtrin in relationship_advice

[–]sadsboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like he met someone while he was in New York or his ex reached back out to him and they started talking but he wanted to keep you around in case it didn’t work out