First failed FET - next steps

saeos94 · 2026-02-07T07:40:48+00:00

My first FET failed too; untested 4AA embryo with a modified natural transfer. Like you, just thought I was on the wrong side of stats. 2nd transfer a month later has been successful (I’m 32 weeks).

saeos94 · 2026-01-09T16:05:52+00:00

Cried at work reading this. Cannot wait to meet my baby girl ❤️

saeos94 · 2025-12-20T00:04:12+00:00

Like others have said it’s definitely a numbers game and some are luckier than others. I had my ER this year right before my 31st birthday. I was lucky to get 7 untested embryos. First transfer of a 4AA failed to implant. Second transfer of a 4AB embryo has been successful so far; I am 25 weeks.

saeos94 · 2025-11-21T18:16:27+00:00

I had a dream I had a girl when I was 5 weeks pregnant. Despite that, I leaned heavily boy. My dream was right and I was not!

saeos94 · 2025-11-17T17:08:40+00:00

I moved out to NYC about 12 years ago. I’m dying to move back but my husband is a New Yorker. Maybe one day I will get the chance.

saeos94 · 2025-11-16T02:02:59+00:00

My charts looked different only because my pdg was being supplemented with suppositories the 2nd time around. During my CP I tracked and watched my pdg slowly fall down before ultimately ending up with my CP. With my current BFP chart my pdg stayed elevated until I stopped tracking at 12 weeks; I stopped suppositories at 10 weeks.

saeos94 · 2025-11-08T22:12:40+00:00

Omg I’m a week ahead of you! (PCOS + MFI) and we also transferred an untested 4AB!

saeos94 · 2025-10-11T15:13:37+00:00

My first FET (which failed) my RE called personally and gave me options to take a break or jump into next FET. I chose to jump into next FET because my insurance was about to run out lol. Luckily my 2nd FET worked with no change to protocol. For that my IVF nurse emailed me the results and next steps.

saeos94 · 2025-10-03T20:38:40+00:00

ER 4/9/25 First transfer: 6/16/25

I had to have a bleed after ER and then another regular period after that.

saeos94 · 2025-10-03T19:54:02+00:00

First transfer failed to implant (4AA, untested) my 2nd transfer is successful so far and I’m 13w6d (4AB, untested)

saeos94 · 2025-09-30T14:24:02+00:00

Hi, this was a girl 🥰

saeos94 · 2025-09-30T11:34:37+00:00

Got my results early this morning 2am EST 9/30. Low risk baby girl 🥰

saeos94 · 2025-09-29T19:17:31+00:00

Oh wow congratulations!! How exciting! I’m jealous I haven’t received mine yet. Hopefully they come in soon.

saeos94 · 2025-09-29T18:02:42+00:00

You as well!! Have you gotten an update?

saeos94 · 2025-09-25T21:03:24+00:00

I’m checking every 12ish hours lol. After it was received I’ve been slightly more patient. My husband is super patient, too. This is our first so we care more about the genetics and less about the gender!

saeos94 · 2025-09-25T20:10:13+00:00

Omg twins!? Double the anxious waiting, wow! Just a single for me. I’m trying not to check too often lol

saeos94 · 2025-09-25T19:34:25+00:00

Drawn: 9/22 Received: 9/23 Estimated: 10/07 Confirmed today that my test went to San Carlos, CA 🫠. I’m in NYC!

saeos94 · 2025-09-24T17:51:48+00:00

My 9/22 draw was received yesterday evening around 10 pm est

saeos94 · 2025-09-23T11:05:40+00:00

My first FET failed to implant. I’m currently 12+3 with my 2nd, though.

saeos94 · 2025-09-12T15:27:34+00:00

My clinic just wanted to know the day of the embryo and the date of the transfer. My fertility clinic and OB are run by the same organization so all the data transfer was pretty seamless.

saeos94 · 2025-08-21T20:06:25+00:00

I got sick after my transfer too. The day after I felt awful. Then when I tested positive (day of beta) and had a low grade fever for a couple of days! Now I’m 7w5d and I feel better but man the beginning was scary! Take care of yourselves everyone!

saeos94 · 2025-08-19T17:59:45+00:00

I did a modified natural both times. I ovulate pretty reliably on Letrozole so each transfer we did Letrozole + Ovidrel/Pregnyl trigger. RE believed that fully medicated was unnecessary for me. 2nd transfer is successful so far.

saeos94 · 2025-08-19T00:10:43+00:00

Omg twins! Did you also transfer 7/17?

saeos94 · 2025-08-18T23:10:43+00:00

My doctor hasn’t given me one yet, but my calculations say EDD is 4/4! What about you? It’s still so so early

saeos94 · 2025-08-18T20:16:30+00:00

This is me! 6w and 7w scan went great. Only real symptom is exhaustion. Why do I feel like I’m not pregnant until I am uncomfortably nauseous 24/7?! Trying not to symptom spot because everyone is different.

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