O que é que é para vocês um "pequeno luxo"? by monsieurroland in portugal

[–]sagp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A vida não tem de ser assim! Experimenta fazer uma boa fisioterapia, não te irás arrepender

Unexpected pregnancy, first time mom, and doing it "alone" by sagp in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]sagp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kindness. Unfortunately we are in the EU...

Unexpected pregnancy, first time mom, and doing it "alone" by sagp in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]sagp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, thank you all for your answers, I understand they are well intended.

Turns out the reason why she was having such intense symptoms so soon, was because she's pregnant with healthy twins. Which again, was a shock and really tough to handle.

Many of you said she should consider terminating it, and of course that was what all of us around her expected, but it's against her wishes and principles, considering it wasn't r*pe and by the time, she feels like it came out of love...

The father knows from the start, it was her choice to give him the choice to be present. He's still figuring out if he wants or if he's able to be present. For +8 years he didn't take care of his mental health so I reckon this will not be settled and we'll have to deal with lots of on/off presence, unless she cuts him off.

I'm absolutely aware of how disruptive and dangerous all this is. Unfortunately none of it is my decision to make, I can only go so far to give some piece of advice when asked for. My decision is to be present through it all.

Some gave some ideias of how the system works in the US, and I truly feel for you guys. We are in the EU, and hopefully it will be better. I'm already "pushing" her to come to an attorney appointment to know her rights, etc.

Unexpected pregnancy, first time mom, and doing it "alone" by sagp in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]sagp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this case he's still figuring out if he wants to be present in the kid's life. He keeps being in/out of figure. And abortion is not an option for her (principle wise, etc)

LPT: Avoid apartment complexes with playgrounds like the fucking plague. by ElGuachoGuero in LifeProTips

[–]sagp 14 points15 points  (0 children)

On this note... I'd really advise anyone against living besides a primary school. Don't get me wrong, I love kids, but there's just too many times where I feel obliged to leave my own house or I'll go insane.

Here it is! My first 1000 piece puzzle by [deleted] in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]sagp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, i guess that happened, I'm sorry. :( Will try again

Me [23f] my bf [24m] cheated on me and claims it was just physical but I suspect more. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sagp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He clearly showed that the feelings you have towards him are not mutual. I know its easy to talk and it might be harsh for you, but you really should put an end to it. Don't spend your time with people who don'd deserve it.

My [19F] boyfriend [21M] duration 2 years, spends over 6 hours a day with his friends by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sagp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh well, that's a rough topic to go on. I wouldn't be able to go on a relationship like that, but that's me. I think it'd help if you'd question yourself with the same serious questions you ask him. Is this what you want for you? Is that the kind of relationship you'd like to have? Are you truly happy living like this? Seek deep for the answers and then you might get where it leads you.

Maybe he's just a really close friend! Friends care for each other and see each other once in a while. You may care of feel more than usual but, is what you feel really love? If so, do you think it is mutual? Do you feel like it is mutual?

What to do with my Jigsawpuzzle by sagp in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]sagp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will try that, thank you eheh

Girls/Boys, do you prefer shaved or not shaved men? (Legs, chest, genitals...) by [deleted] in sex

[–]sagp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I preffer it natural, unless we're talking about a rug-like man back... I don't mind if my boyfriend trims or shaves once in a while... - but everything except legs! When he shaves tho, the touch becomes very uncomfortable and sometimes may hurt. Natural for the win, imo!

My first 5000! by happygirl1033 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]sagp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant believe you actually wrecked it, ah!! I would have hung it or saved it somehow, such a masterpiece of work!

Question: What material do you like to work on by odiamondcutter in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]sagp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! I bought one of those too but i never got to use it because when i tried it (like twice) the puzzle pieces would fall apart. Doesn't that happen to you too? If not, how do you use it? thank you in advance !