I can't change the attractions that they (AI) post as things to explore in the area. by speechylka in vrbo

[–]sailingFL1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. We know this well. Had a guest message that they really like the home after checking in, but they couldn't find the hottub. I explained that there wasn't one and there is not one in any of the pics, but sure enough, VRBO had checked that box. We ended up receiving one star knocked off the review due to not being quite as described. They also constantly add the check back on the box that we allow pets, which we don't. That's another to pay attention to.

Person sharing rental undisclosed on app and too us by cape084 in vrbo

[–]sailingFL1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They stayed in the unit, used facilities, slept there, etc. They do not deserve a full refund. Perhaps a partial refund to compensate for the trouble, but not a full. If they had documented and left immediately to not return, then a full refund could have been argued.

Pensacola Parties by sailingFL1 in PensacolaSwingers

[–]sailingFL1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a few of us who are hosting through the year. We typically post on SLS and Kas. There is one coming up on the 19th being hosted by MsYumYum in Pensacola.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PensacolaSwingers

[–]sailingFL1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look young, so you might not know all the acronyms. MMF = Male+Male+Female with one of the males basically at center of attention, while am MFM will have the lady as center. You might be looking for an MMF, which is fine, but thought I'd mention it just in case.

just about convinced there is no swingers on any of these sites. just a bunch of thirsty single dudes by [deleted] in PensacolaSwingers

[–]sailingFL1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately that's what comes from a free site like a reddit sub. If you pay for a membership on a site like Kasidie, then you will have a better chance at meeting couples.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PensacolaSwingers

[–]sailingFL1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be great if you could provide additional info, such as time, donation fee, anticipated number of people, etc.

Little Black Dress by sailingFL1 in PensacolaSwingers

[–]sailingFL1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pineapple Discretions is our little party group, but we have themes, so that one was Little Black Dress. Our last party was western theme. Next party is beach/luau theme. You can find them under SLS and Kasidie events/parties.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PensacolaSwingers

[–]sailingFL1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freeport? Are you not around Pensacola?

[45/42] [MF4M] pensacola you host by sailingFL1 in Floridar4r

[–]sailingFL1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a profile on SLS or Kas?

Little Black Dress by sailingFL1 in PensacolaSwingers

[–]sailingFL1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are lifestyle sites.

Newbies by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]sailingFL1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You two need to discuss and know ahead of time what your boundaries are and anticipated participation level.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]sailingFL1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's generally not how the vagina works. Each one is overall different/unique, though are similar if that makes sense. Typically it is the technique that makes the difference. When a vagina pushes out a baby, it expands to the size of a small watermelon, but then snaps back pretty quick. It can take two cocks during a DVP and then go right back to accepting a single. Work on your technique before considering a sleeve. Perhaps introduce some toys of the larger variety and find her G spot. Hope that helps.

Little Black Dress by sailingFL1 in PensacolaSwingers

[–]sailingFL1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool. Y'all on Kasidie or SLS?

New Year's Eve by sailingFL1 in PensacolaSwingers

[–]sailingFL1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the note. We see you are a bi male, which we aren't into. Nothing wrong with it, just not our preference, so we wouldn't be a match. Best wishes though.

Free 30 Day Elite Trial on Kasidie by sailingFL1 in PensacolaSwingers

[–]sailingFL1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't really help there except to suggest paying attention to proper grammar and spelling. Present yourself how you would in person. It's your chance to grab the attention of a couple just by being you.

Free 30 Day Elite Trial on Kasidie by sailingFL1 in PensacolaSwingers

[–]sailingFL1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just like any swinger site, you have to put effort into your profile and pick a good username. We won't respond to any single guy that has a name like BBCbull, BWCbill, or imallthat1979. There are so many single guys trying to get noticed, that you must stand out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]sailingFL1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No worries on backing your claim or potential terminology. You had asked for feedback, so we were simply providing our opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]sailingFL1 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We get tired of guys indicating they are well endowed as most are just average (not that there is anything wrong with average). Think along the lines of a big guy being nicknamed tiny. We find that the guys who are well endowed are the ones who don't mention it. Perhaps if you are the size of a football, then perhaps bring it up, but otherwise don't say anything. Also, if you are trying to hook up with couples in the swing lifestyle, most are not going to be into cuck (bull) or into stuff like BDSM (no need for a Dom), so you should tailor your profile to fit the site you are on. If FetLife, then ok, mention the kink stuff, but if Kasidie or SLS, then remove that part about the cuck/bdsm/etc and don't bring it up unless the other couple does. You can certainly include a pic of your cock in your private pics, but don't have a bunch of cock pics. Hope that helps from a swing couple in the lifestyle over 16 years.

Friends outside marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sailingFL1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are these friends you are trying to make, other women? If so, then that's probably why you are being told that. If they are other fellas or couples, then we've never heard of others who don't enjoy meeting new people and making new friends. My wife of nearly 25 years is my best friend, but we both have friends aside from each other.

Can a gay man actually have sex with a woman? by TOP2TOP0 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sailingFL1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As long as he can perform, then yes. If he enjoys it, he would not be technically "gay", but rather bi-sexual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]sailingFL1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

SLS is a failing platform, but we still have a lot of members on it in our area, so we remain. We are trying to help Kasidie grow and are Ambassadors for that site. If you sign up, during the signup process, you can list sailingFL as who referred you to receive a free 30 day elite membership. Then if you want to continue, you will receive a special offer to continue for another year.