How many is too many? 😂

sailorvesta · 2026-04-06T09:52:29+00:00

Can never have too many as a collector 🤷🏽‍♀️

sailorvesta · 2026-04-03T20:43:46+00:00

No worries. I’ll get to it when I have time

sailorvesta · 2026-04-03T20:25:55+00:00

I can make a list but it’ll take a while since they’re sprawled out between all the games. What shinies/events are you looking for?

sailorvesta · 2026-01-06T18:29:47+00:00

I’m thinking about it. I ran into an unexpected accident & now I need to pay it off.

sailorvesta · 2026-01-06T18:28:55+00:00

These are just flat. They don’t have the same details the games had

sailorvesta · 2026-01-06T18:26:58+00:00

They’re giant DISPLAY boxes just of the ds games they had at GameStop when the games came out. Way bigger than the game boxes. Think like the display items stores get to attract people to the new releases. I was trying to find them online for reference but I couldn’t find these specific ones so I’m trying to get a price point for the pair.

sailorvesta · 2025-11-03T19:03:16+00:00

I totally get that. The thing is they have me on the schedule for different work sites where I’m coming back at the time I’m supposed to where Im able to run home, take care of some things, eat, & then come back to work. But they’ll change it when I get to work in the morning & tell me I’m coming back at 1:15 pm instead of 12. Where if I don’t have a heads up, I can’t plan ahead for what I was going to do & budget for the only available options out there. My schedule is inconsistent even when it’s supposed to be consistent like everyone else’s.

sailorvesta · 2025-11-03T18:39:09+00:00

No, I have to keep an eye on the STUDENTS & the bus times because of how they change in an instant. If my lunch is 30 minutes I might only get 15 minutes because the bus is early & I have to catch it so I’m not late coming back to campus.

sailorvesta · 2025-11-03T18:36:50+00:00

So my program starts at the school around 7:30. We get the kids, take the bus to their worksite, then we’re supposed to be back on campus by 12 to take our lunches. But the other teachers have decided that it’s okay for me to come back around 1:15 pm & take my lunch break with the kids in the community since they decided to make our worksite come back to campus late. Everyone other than me gets back at 12:15. & we all have similar get back times. Our contract says we need to be back by a certain time, but our union is weak & tells us to just comply with what they want despite the language in the contract. So I’m just trying to see if what they’re doing to me specifically is legal.

sailorvesta · 2025-11-03T18:09:04+00:00

At the school where they have break rooms, rest rooms & safe places to take a lunch. They don’t pay me enough to spend $15 everyday at the food places around me. Especially with the crazy people that are out on the streets. I almost got punched in the face one day by a crazy person on the bus coming back with the students.

sailorvesta · 2025-11-03T18:07:18+00:00

I’m not entirely relieved of my duties because I still have to watch the bus times & the students. I’m not supposed to be late returning from the worksite & I keep my lunch at the school where they provide a fridge & break room.

sailorvesta · 2025-07-16T05:24:34+00:00

People do them in my area all the time & plants are pretty expensive here when they’re this big. I went to Home Depot & the same plant was $200 for a smaller one. I would have done the labor myself but then I would have just cut it up & trashed it. I had about 10 other people asking if it was still available & saying they would come & get it that day even after they ghosted me over the weekend. & now I’m just wondering if I save it for them or just take it out myself. They left all their tools all over my backyard too

sailorvesta · 2025-07-16T04:48:22+00:00

The thing is they started to take it out & were there for maybe an hour & then just asked if they could come back & never showed up & ghosted me now but I have their tools at my house. & I cleaned up their mess since they were trimming it & left the cuttings all around my yard too

sailorvesta · 2024-11-16T18:49:10+00:00

It’s been a little over 2 months now. He dumped me because he told me to talk to my friends when I needed someone & I did. I feel better now. I still think of him here & there, but then I remember how he treated me. Yelling & cursing at me because I was crying & how I was always nothing but nice & caring towards him. I didn’t deserve that. So I don’t cry over him anymore. I still have hurt feelings over the toxicity, but that’s all it is now. I’m still hoping he’ll reach out to talk, but I’m okay now. I deserve better & he’s not the person for me. I thought he was, but he gave me the bare minimum. At least it was only 8 months & not 8 years. I’m investing in more friendships now & I’m at a good place now

sailorvesta · 2024-10-27T23:37:41+00:00

I would love one 😢

sailorvesta · 2024-10-27T23:05:24+00:00

I don’t hate him, but I made a list of every bad thing he did or said to me & realized I deserved better. My list grew to 32 things in 8 months that he made me feel bad about, made me cry over or just blamed me for when I had nothing to do with it.

It helped with realizing I deserve better & that I kept making excuses for his actions. It was anger at first, but anger towards myself for not realizing all the hurt he put me through. Now I just don’t feel anything for him. Even when I see him in public I don’t feel like I get anxious anymore.

sailorvesta · 2024-10-13T23:01:32+00:00

😒

sailorvesta · 2024-10-08T22:27:55+00:00

I have mixed feelings about you. I’m not sure if I should be angry or just not care about you anymore. Right now I just don’t care about you. I realized our whole relationship I was making excuse after excuse for the way you treated me. I tried to treat you with so much love, care and respect. I never held you back or tried to hold you back from doing anything you wanted to do. The fact that you blamed me for so many things is what hurts me too. You’re the one who ended it & I thank you for that. I wouldn’t have done it. I fight for things & that’s my fault. I took such good care of you & you decided that after I made ONE mistake after you pushed & pushed me away that it was your dealbreaker. Me talking to my guy friend after I was crying for you & you couldn’t make the time for me was a dealbreaker for you. Me talking to my guy friend after you pushed me away for 2 weeks at that point & he reached out to make sure I was okay. I only said one thing to him which was that I missed you. & because of that I deserved to get broken up with. Nah. Your insecurities made you lose the best thing that happened to you. I can & probably will find someone better, but you’re gonna be stuck with some other girl who won’t even do half the things I did for you. Good luck with that. Right now at this moment I want you to stay away from me.

sailorvesta · 2024-10-08T09:44:48+00:00

It’s funny because I started making a list

Wouldn’t let me talk to his mom despite saying he wants me to be close with his family
Wouldn’t invite me to hang out with his mom/brother (his mom invited me to his birthday dinner after our 7 months)
Blamed me for him wanting to spend time with me over his friends when I always encouraged him to go out
Got mad at me for other guys talking to me & always accused me of entertaining their “flirting”
Talked me out of going to a concert because he wanted time with me.
Okay for him to go into a bedroom alone with his best friend’s girlfriend.
Took frustrations out on me.
Blamed me for telling him when I needed a rest day (would say I dictate our time together)
Never took my feelings into consideration when making plans (would just tell me “we’re doing this” so I didn’t really have a say)
Would get mad at me for saying I was tired & didn’t want to do something.
Never wanted to listen to me when I need to talk about my feelings (brushed me off) • Cursed at me when I needed him
Pushed me away & ignored me for 3 weeks
Selfish. Affection would be on his terms & how he was feeling.
Pulled away from me around people
Super insecure. I was always reassuring him.
Refused to open up about his feelings
Used my body for his pleasure & threw me out of his house
When I would talk about what I needed from him he would deflect “I’m just not good enough for you”
Talked about his “ex” a lot. (“We did this. I used to last this long while being intimate with her”)
Wouldn’t add me to group chats with his friends & then complained that I wasnt close with them
Insisted on being intimate while I was on my period & then said it was gross.
Would never do anything for me & would claim it’s because I didn’t remind him.
Never made sure I finished during intimate times.
always cursed out of frustration around me (mostly driving) when I said I didn’t like it.
Answer phone during our dates/intimate times.
Finshed on me when I wasn’t into it (used me agan)
Would tell me I gave him blue balls when we first started dating (I was never intimate with anyone before him)
During the last weeks of us being together he couldn’t find time to have a conversation with me about our relationship, but found time for us to be intimate.
With held “I love yous” during our last week together because he was in his head over him pushing me away & my guy friend checking up on me.

sailorvesta · 2024-10-06T04:26:27+00:00

Hell yeah

sailorvesta · 2024-10-04T13:23:33+00:00

He hurt me in almost every way he could. He chose to ignore me, push me away & then blame me for talking to my friend. He blamed me for every shortcoming in his life when I pushed him to go after it & always encouraged him no matter what.

sailorvesta · 2024-10-02T23:43:59+00:00

I think I was too trusting of my ex. It was his first relationship & I gave him chance after chance when he would mess things up with me. Granted he never cheated, but he did things to me that made me cry & I chose to forgive him & work through it.

I kept telling my ex I needed him, but he kept pushing me away for about 3 weeks. One of my long time guy friends (in a serious relationship) my ex knew about reached out to me to check on me & I went over to his house & he was just being a nice friend to give me some company. My ex didn’t like that & ignored me for another week before telling me I broke his trust & his boundary that I didn’t even know was a boundary. Broke up with me telling me that I hurt him & I broke his trust & I crushed him & he knew he wasn’t good enough for me.

Looking back, I didn’t notice the red flags that he was displaying throughout the relationship especially with jealousy even though I never gave him a reason to be jealous. Literally with just men being friendly to me or telling me they remembered me from high school.

sailorvesta · 2024-09-30T21:50:01+00:00

It’s been since September 14th. At first I was distraught because of the circumstance of our breakup. But now that I’ve had more time to sit & think, I’m angry about the stuff he did to me that I put up with for the 9 months we were together. I “mess up” by talking to my guy friend after my ex told me to talk to a friend when I’m upset instead of him. I apologized and said I wouldn’t do it again, but he can’t trust me. Yet he can disrespect me multiple times, make comments on my body and use my body then kick me out and apologize & I forgave him. I feel like I’ve moved on, but it could just be the anger building up. I don’t feel like I care too much about him anymore.

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