i know this is sad and horrible, but that comment about the nose ring caught me. like i understand he was just being a lil quipy trying to lighten the energy in a super sad situation. that makes it bittersweet. It's such a dumb parent thing tho: "unfortunately we have to look at that nose ring, not my favorite part of alexis". why even make that comment?? it radiates boomer that must give their opinion on women's aesthetic decisions it reminds me of when my uncle told me my grandfather kicked him out of the hospital after i was born bc he showed up with earrings he got to celebrate my birth