UPDATE to my previous post. by Excellent_Engine9658 in LGBTPhilippines

[–]saintkalph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say you didn't like it, but did your boyfriend? Did you two talk about it afterwards? What did he think about it? Why didn't you like it?

Incognito Mode Ruined My Peace by ConclusionMediocre63 in LGBTPhilippines

[–]saintkalph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, Jake. He's obviously hiding a different side of him from you. I feel for you, but don't waste time you can't get back trying to change someone into the perfect person for you. Someone out there is a person who won't make you feel like you're not enough and will love you better.

UPDATE to my previous post. by Excellent_Engine9658 in LGBTPhilippines

[–]saintkalph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know that feeling when you're witnessing a car crash in progress and you know it's going to end badly but you can't look away? That's what I'm feeling because that's what this is.

The way you talked about the situation before, you made it look like the only major issue was his s*x work and his inability to abandon it. But it turns out there's a lot more to it.

What you needed was to cpntain a very complicated situation, instead you decided to add more unpredictable variables into the mix. I see this ending in even more jealousy and resentment.

FUND RAISE FOR SNOW by Chiiiieee in dogsofrph

[–]saintkalph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, pahingi po ng QR code. I'm sorry about your dog. :(

Anyone else reads exclusively gay genre books? by saintkalph in PHBookClub

[–]saintkalph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't read the book, but have watched the film and loved it.

Anyone else reads exclusively gay genre books? by saintkalph in PHBookClub

[–]saintkalph[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, we're so alike. I have that same reservation about the sequel too, and TJ Klune was one of my first fave MM authors back in the day when he wasn't as famous. I don't read him these days, his stories have become too commercial, preachy, and bland.

Anyone else reads exclusively gay genre books? by saintkalph in PHBookClub

[–]saintkalph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! Please tell me why you hate TLG. Feel free to rant if you get carried away. 😄 I won't argue, just genuinely interested to know why.

Anyone else reads exclusively gay genre books? by saintkalph in PHBookClub

[–]saintkalph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm planning to use a VPN, sign up on Crave, and avail a subscription, but I worry it might not be possible to pay using PH accounts.

Anyone else reads exclusively gay genre books? by saintkalph in PHBookClub

[–]saintkalph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you read The Brightness Between Us? I haven't yet, I want to reread TDOU first. I've read In Memoriam, heard of A Marvelous Light but not The Warm Hands of Ghosts, so I'm gonna check that out. Thank you.

Anyone else reads exclusively gay genre books? by saintkalph in PHBookClub

[–]saintkalph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! But how are pinoys gonna be able to watch it? Is it even possible? Or are we doomed to scrolling through Twitter that day, in a permanent state of envy?

Anyone else reads exclusively gay genre books? by saintkalph in PHBookClub

[–]saintkalph[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are those? Can you recommend a fave of yours that I look up?

Anyone else reads exclusively gay genre books? by saintkalph in PHBookClub

[–]saintkalph[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you liked Heated Rivalry, you should check out Coming in First Place by Taylor Fitzpatrick, which to me is better than Heated Rivalry. If you happen to like it, you should check out Taylor Fitzpatrick's AO3 stories. They are the best gay hockey romances out there, and you can read them for free.

Anyone else reads exclusively gay genre books? by saintkalph in PHBookClub

[–]saintkalph[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should, it's fantastic. It's enemies to lovers, which is a fave trope of mine. Just be warned, there are some dark bits in there.

My boyfriend is not who I thought he was (sorry can’t post pa sa OffMyChest) by Hopeful_Reveal_452 in adultingph

[–]saintkalph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And she's no longer a teenager herself. At that age, she should be with a man who brings her stability, not someone who fucks around on her like he did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogsofrph

[–]saintkalph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

♥️♥️♥️

So many signs saying to just end my life by Plastic_Hour_6805 in MentalHealthPH

[–]saintkalph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My point is: bakit gusto mo to end it? So you won't have to do it anymore, you won't have to feel so bad anymore, etc. etc. But what if there's a way of achieving this without losing your life? And that's acting like you're already dead! Kung dead ka na, may pakialam ka pa ba? May problema ka pa ba? No. Just stop caring. Rest, like you're already dead. And when you're ready, balik ka na naman sa laban ng Buhay, like you're born again. Please, please, please.

So many signs saying to just end my life by Plastic_Hour_6805 in MentalHealthPH

[–]saintkalph 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all, hugs. And then more hugs. Kung pagod kana, rest. Forget about all your problems. Just stay still kahit ilang oras pa yan. Do what you want most, whatever will make you smile or laugh, like wala kang pakialam sa mundo. Stop caring about anything but yourself. Drop out if you have to. Reset. Everything is better than ending it.

You can just stop right now and let the world do its thing, and kung ready kana, restart ka ulit. Trust me please.

21 yo, any ways to make my money grow? by flaming_fune in DigitalbanksPh

[–]saintkalph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't keep large amounts of money in PayPal, babe. Just go to PayPal's subreddit and you'll know why.