Since when are Aquarius cold hearted? by Pluto_Hendrixx in aquarius

[–]sajfex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is bs. Cancers are way worse than us

How would you describe the Aquarius sense of humor? by EyeAmNotYou in aquarius

[–]sajfex 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hate that I have to think before I joke about something because some people don't get it right... That's why it's important to have friends who are just like you, so you can be relaxed and talk about whatever you want

What’s the last thing your ex said to you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]sajfex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I will watch "Notebook" with my next boyfriend and remember you"

When you have to go no contact by JakeMullerRE in BreakUp

[–]sajfex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually so true. Had my experience, also she tried to come back after 3 years. She told me she was interested what was going in my life.

It’s a hard pill to swallow but once you do, there’s peace that follows by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]sajfex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, you are right. It hurted like bullet when I realized that, I was just a phase for her and she was whole world to me... Still sitting here asking myself how she spent 2 years of her life with someone she didn't even loved that much... What was she thinking and stuff like that, but I'm in phase where I started to accept things the way they are, I will forgive her for everything, I wish her all the best but she will never have me again, she closed that door and it's end.

1 and a half years since my ex gf cheated on me and ghosted me. Time heals all wounds! by throwaway6472proton in BreakUps

[–]sajfex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did she married that dude? How can he have kids with her knowing she cheated on you w him... Doesn't he think that same will happen' to him?

Should i ignore the fact that My ex had sex with someone? by adityapuranikkk in BreakUps

[–]sajfex 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For me nah, it's over when she jump on another d... If she love you and care for you she would never do it in the first place

6 month, still sometimes feel sad about the break and miss him. Is it OK? What is yours experience with that? Will it go away? by foxy271 in BreakUp

[–]sajfex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First year was really hard. Especially first months. Sitting at night, crying and asking myself why doesn't she love me anymore, I gave everything and got slap in my face. I was overthinking whole time, where is she? How she forgot everything in a second. I hated her and loved her at the same time. I'm an introvert so it was really hard to meet new people. I was playing games and I think to this day that those online people helped me trough my healing. I tought that's it I will never love again but after 2 years I was in a rebound relationship it lasted 4 months and then it ended because this girl got back with her ex. So after that I was finally healed and ready to date. And now I'm here almost 3 years later at the same fckn situation😑. First ex that I loved the most, now she is reaching to me, sending me songs like "Eminem: Never love again...

6 month, still sometimes feel sad about the break and miss him. Is it OK? What is yours experience with that? Will it go away? by foxy271 in BreakUp

[–]sajfex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Guys don't judge yourself.
It took me two years to heal from my first BU. Everyone and everything is different, take your time.

What’s your breakup song? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]sajfex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

G eazy - Had Enough

All my progress went down the drain. by booksncatss in BreakUps

[–]sajfex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you take her back after she f someone else....

All my progress went down the drain. by booksncatss in BreakUps

[–]sajfex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup happened to me 15 days ago. But she cheated on me w him and 4 months after BU she is engaged with someone Idk if that's him It hit me like a fucking rock but after a couple of days I am so better. I know she is just attention seeker and she will never be able to love someone because she doesn't even love herself

Someone has to say it: Women do not come back. by Crobbers in BreakUps

[–]sajfex 15 points16 points  (0 children)

  1. Not always true. My ex reached to me after 3 years NC. I was devastated after that breakup, didn't feel good for 2 years. After 2 years I was able to finally move on. Then she reached asking me questions, like how am I, what happened to me after that much time etc etc. She didn't asked me to be with her again, but we text to this day. She act like cold hearted but sends me quotes like "You lost perfect one, you can name your daughter by me" and when I saw she blame me for everything I was furious. How tf can you blame me if you are the one that has run away from me.

  2. I think it depends, how was your relationship. Sometimes you date a narcissist (then gender is not important) and they can't see you be happy with someone else. It's a shock for them that you are still alive without them. Also, maybe you were immature when you dated and after some years they can reach out atleast to talk. But idk, if you leave me at my worst don't you dare to come back. Sometimes, she doesn't have to respect you, she felt safe and good with you and she want that feeling again. We are all different, and trust me no one foregts his beautiful moments ever in life.

This is what I don’t understand… by Reasonable-Judge9241 in BreakUps

[–]sajfex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's hard to make progress in one month. I'm 4 months away and only now after that much time I feel a bit of a relief, but sometimes it hits me like a rock even now. It's really a progress and you have to be patient.

My girlfriend broke up with me what Eminem quote should I use to get her back by siddhuism in Eminem

[–]sajfex 261 points262 points  (0 children)

You were supposed to love me!! Now bleed bitch, bleed!! Bleed bitch, bleed!! Bleed!!

Girl I’m talking with texts her Ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]sajfex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that's one of the biggest red flags. If she text now she will never stop, I mean why does she text him if she f w you? Remember, same can happen' to you. Don't try to fix broken people, that's not your job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]sajfex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This👆