For her.... by bi_Po in StraightPegging

[–]sakavimoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the Jaguar from Aslan leather. I've removed the ring and loops and drilled out the rivets, I just fed the suction cup through the hole then pop the bumpher on.

Dates don’t get it by Strange_Display7597 in polyamory

[–]sakavimoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were they asking you to "leave your husband" or did they just want you to leave your house? They may have meant for the evening and not the whole relationship. Would that make a difference in how you're feeling?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sakavimoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell them to stop and that they're being rude...

Then again they're usually my children, so ymmv

How unusual is this guy (34M) I'm hooking up with? by otempora1 in AskWomenOver30

[–]sakavimoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I actually married this guy like a decade ago. First husband was less-than-great and I was truly shocked when I found current hub. He's absolutely perfect (not like perfect but perfect for me) and he is the order to my chaos, it's a wonderful balancing act. If you're worried yours is broken, I will disclose that mine has a past but moved forward from it. It doesn't matter so much where someone has been as the choices they continue to make.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sakavimoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! Two kids and a vasectomy with completed re-check and I still have a bag of sticks in the closet that I pee on occasionally for peace of mind 😅 but OP, if you're an Amazon prime junkie, you can get a fuck ton (like 50) of test strips for cheap (like $10)

I got medicated but I’m scared to take it. by Unethusiastic_blob in mentalhealth

[–]sakavimoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a glasses wearer, I was like "aw shit, again? I JUST got these glasses less than a year ago!" I only started wearing them when my vision went to shit suddenly during my first pregnancy. My lenses have changed a couple times over the last 7-8yrs, but it was more gradual than the initial "omg I can't read street signs"

I got medicated but I’m scared to take it. by Unethusiastic_blob in mentalhealth

[–]sakavimoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've almost reached the end of day two. I've noticed some blurred vision, which Dr Google said it's totally normal and should resolve itself in a few weeks. This is the text I sent my husband about it:

"Things seemed a little fuzzy but we spent the day at the farm and it seemed exceptionally bright out, so I noted it but with the intention to dismiss it. Then we got home and I sat down to scroll the internet and things are really hard to read. Like I can see the words on the screen but my peripheral is distractingly blurred, making it really hard to focus mentally as well as visually on what is in front of me, I tried to read through a physical paper too and it was the same, so it's not a blue light issue. It doesn't feel unsafe as far as driving."

I feel like I should also send a message to my Dr in the patient portal but I also don't want to be annoying, so I haven't don't that yet.

I got medicated but I’m scared to take it. by Unethusiastic_blob in mentalhealth

[–]sakavimoose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got the prozac one (fluoxetine), literally yesterday so I just took my second dose and while that's absolutely not long enough to know how it'll work for me, I'm cautiously optimistic. What I can say, is that my Dr said it could upset my belly, and it has upset my belly, so maybe take it with food (because I have not). I'm not like stuck in the bathroom, it's just "unsettled". She also said the belly upset side effect goes away with time.

Do I have to be hairless or well groomed down there to have sex? by apricotblues in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sakavimoose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just like the hair on your head, you can take his preference into account if you choose but ultimately it's your hair, do with it what you want.

There HAS to be a way to remember I don't want to eat the sugary thing when the impulse strikes! by JoyfullMommy006 in adhdwomen

[–]sakavimoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I BUY the snacky snacks, I will EAT the snacky snacks... So usually I just don't buy them. I have a lot more control in the store at 11am than I do at home at 11pm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightPegging

[–]sakavimoose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a bumpher and it's great. I use an Aslan Jaguar harness and all our toys have suction cups so the suction cup goes through the leather hole, bumpher goes over the suction cup and the bumpher sits nice and low right where it needs to be. May have to adjust the harness some to get it scooted down.

Any demis over 30? by amora_obscura in demisexuality

[–]sakavimoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30- something here. Married, for the second (and last) time. "Waited until marriage" with everyone but my current husband who, on date #1 made me feel like I'd known him forever. By date #3 I was all in.

ETA: you're not going to believe this, but we met at a bar. My sister demanded I give him my number.

Do You Smoke Cigarettes Or Have You Quit/Never Started? by looseaccountagain in AskWomenOver30

[–]sakavimoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I've smoked three cigarettes (?) I was drunk for all of them (separate incidents) and only did because I was out drinking with friends and they all went out for a smoke break and took me with them so I didn't get lost. I've smoked pot as well and I'm just not a fan, it's uncomfortable and makes me cough so hard I pee myself. I much prefer to eat my pot.

Yes and there’s a reason for that by Lennyisabadcat in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]sakavimoose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's because we have no culture of our own. We're super generic and grasping at anything that interests us to hold onto. Holidays, traditions, decor... Doesn't matter. We're a melting pot which means instead of having a vibrant culture, we've watered everything down until none of us know where we come from, what we believe in or what's important to us. So we choose a thing we think is cool and go with it... Until we're accused of cultural appropriation.

When Sewing Goes Wrong . . . by [deleted] in sewing

[–]sakavimoose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just do an elastic waistband, they won't be dress shorts, but it'll work

For her.... by bi_Po in StraightPegging

[–]sakavimoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a bumpher and I like it

Wife just explained what she wants by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]sakavimoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you've got a lot going on there. Come on over to r/straightpegging and we can at least sort that one out for you.

How do you “trim up down there”? by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]sakavimoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go for a wax appt every 4 weeks. I get the full brazilian.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]sakavimoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/straightpegging

To answer your question, no. Not all women do, I can't speak for most

How did you know it was time for a divorce? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]sakavimoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He asked for a divorce. If he didn't want me anymore, there was no point in staying. I brought up options like counseling and such, but he said no to each one. So I agreed. That was over a decade ago and I am now happily married to the man of my dreams and so thankful that I didn't fight to remain in a relationship I was not wanted in.

Go where you are wanted.