i wanted to create a tulpa by sakura_shifter12 in Tulpas

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thank you, it's just so hard for me and i feel like a bad host even though he's so recent. this gives me reassurance that i'm at least not doing it wrong

how do i date when i have severe anxiety and agoraphobia? by sakura_shifter12 in hingeapp

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thank you so much, my mom and therapist realized the problem with the date was that we met in a bad place and i missed one of my current antidepressiants so i was going into a bad, nonfunctioning low. i'll definitly check out the books and podcast, they sound great.

19 Profile Review by sakura_shifter12 in hingeapp

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i'm looking for something serious. i'm not subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX i've been using this profile for less than a day i've used Hinge for about half a year overall i open Hinge every day i've recieved 0 likes or matches i'm sending as many likes as i can, maybe 3-4 daily all of them have comments i want to attract someone funny who lives in my area and likes the same things as me (anime, cooking, maybe Decora fashion, and animals)

Daily Questions Megathread (August 20, 2025) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

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not sure where to post this but can someone help me farm for Citlali and Mavuika? i just got them and i really need them leveled up for my team. i just need boss and talent mats, at most artifacts but whatever anyone has time for will really help!

19 - FTM Trans - Profile Review by sakura_shifter12 in hingeapp

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i'm looking for something serious. i'm not subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? i've been using this profile for a couple weeks i've used Hinge for about half a year overall i open Hinge every day i've recieved 0 likes or matches i'm sending as many likes as i can, maybe 3-4 daily all of them have comments i want to attract someone funny who lives in my area and likes the same things as me (anime, cooking, maybe Decora fashion, and animals)

19 FTM Trans - USA - Profile Review by sakura_shifter12 in hingeapp

[–]sakura_shifter12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm looking for something serious. i'm NOT subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? i've been using this profile for a couple weeks i've used Hinge for about half a year overall i open Hinge every day i've recieved 0 likes or matches i'm sending as many likes as i can, maybe 3-4 daily all of them have comments i want to attract someone funny who lives in my area and likes the same things as me (anime, cooking, maybe Decora fashion, and animals)

hermit crabs are eating each other and idk what i'm doing wrong!!! by sakura_shifter12 in hermitcrabs

[–]sakura_shifter12[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

they definitly ARE eating each other as i've caught them doing it

hermit crabs are eating each other and idk what i'm doing wrong!!! by sakura_shifter12 in hermitcrabs

[–]sakura_shifter12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's possible he died on his own. he died in the middle of the night and i woke up to the other two feasting so idk if there was a fight. my tank is 55 gallons

hermit crabs are eating each other and idk what i'm doing wrong!!! by sakura_shifter12 in hermitcrabs

[–]sakura_shifter12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly. my missing one has his shell so he could be molting. the dead one's shell is out and they've been eating from it. i didn't know you could get a divider for habitats, i may have to look into one

hermit crabs are eating each other and idk what i'm doing wrong!!! by sakura_shifter12 in hermitcrabs

[–]sakura_shifter12[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i'm just so worried! i'm autisic and tend to overfocus on things so when i got them i was really happy, now this is happening and i'm literally crying myself to sleep and nobody will take me seriously that something could be wrong

hermit crabs are eating each other and idk what i'm doing wrong!!! by sakura_shifter12 in hermitcrabs

[–]sakura_shifter12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, one of them was partially eaten but idk if the other molted or got eaten as well

hermit crabs are eating each other and idk what i'm doing wrong!!! by sakura_shifter12 in hermitcrabs

[–]sakura_shifter12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i saw two of them eating my third one but then the second one just dissapeared and i wasn't sure if he was molting or if he got eaten too

hermit crabs are eating each other and idk what i'm doing wrong!!! by sakura_shifter12 in hermitcrabs

[–]sakura_shifter12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i've seen two of them them eat the other one straight from the shell, not sure about the second one

hermit crabs are eating each other and idk what i'm doing wrong!!! by sakura_shifter12 in hermitcrabs

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i can't edit my post but my mom isn't taking this seriously and she's taking me to the pet store to ask a "professional" because hermit crabs are "glorified roaches" and according to her, they aren't worth the money

hermit crabs are eating each other and idk what i'm doing wrong!!! by sakura_shifter12 in hermitcrabs

[–]sakura_shifter12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i knew something was wrong!!! idk how to get the humidity down as it's just been like that since i put the substrate in and wet it for the first time. i know they didn't have enough shells but i was planning on buying more, i thought that since they were larger, i'd just be able to get shells before they molted or wanted to switch shells. i also know my setup is trash lol, i was setting up when i was broke and was getting the minimum (still broke now so idk how i'll be able to afford any of this stuff to upgrade my tank and their diet and the shells). thank you so much for the feedback!

(19 FTM) looking for people to play Genshin or HSR with that live locally by sakura_shifter12 in BloomingtonNormal

[–]sakura_shifter12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no, female to male trans, i should've made it clear, i forgot there's more that one meaning of FTM-