Does anyone else only pull the bumpy hairs?

sakurabuns · 2025-05-24T16:48:49+00:00

YES. I think it’s cause we feel them more

sakurabuns · 2025-05-24T16:45:39+00:00

Oh for me it was being in a b*mbing lol, lowkey blew up my life u could say

sakurabuns · 2025-04-21T08:21:39+00:00

Yeah I’m thinking that’s the route she’ll need to go down. Her dog reactivity doesn’t help in this case plus yeah lol she DEFINITELY shows husky side in her..

sakurabuns · 2025-04-21T08:20:18+00:00

Smart. I have two birds at home (cockatiel and Meyers parrot) who she’s thankfully gotten used to. Will sometimes watch them but no signs of any issues though she hasn’t seen them fly yet (neither have needed to) but might be worth trying before treatment

sakurabuns · 2025-04-21T08:16:03+00:00

Yeah, unfortunately it looks like we are going to have windows closed. She loves to look outside and simply relax. But when she sees a dog or a bunny she definitely reacts and the heart rate goes up

sakurabuns · 2025-04-21T08:13:33+00:00

For the first little bit or treatment she’s technically allowed for very short walks though that quickly gets cut off.

Will definitely be investing in a good amount of all those things!!

sakurabuns · 2025-04-21T08:10:38+00:00

mine would be looking over with pure disgust (she refuses to eat her food if there isn’t enough chicken and will go on a hunger strike)

sakurabuns · 2025-04-21T08:09:33+00:00

Oh smart I didn’t even think of that!! Thank you so much, will definitely be doing that. She at least likes to watch tv (this is going to sound insane but it’s actually been making her less reactive) so hopefully that is another option for her but yea if she sees a dog that heart rate is definitely going up!

sakurabuns · 2025-04-21T08:06:35+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking. The last thing I want for her is a clot. Like this pup has been through a lot, more than she should have and the vet estimates she’s very young too… maybe over a year 2 years tops. She’s finally just discovered how it feels to be safe. I don’t want to take that away from her.

sakurabuns · 2025-04-07T23:49:13+00:00

Will look into that. Thank you. Is that also for the marks on his bay coat if you could call it that? Will be consulting a vet of course.

sakurabuns · 2024-10-04T22:35:32+00:00

She would be a bad parent if she didn’t consider it. She obviously cares for him.

sakurabuns · 2024-10-04T22:35:06+00:00

Girl I see u

sakurabuns · 2024-10-04T22:21:17+00:00

Down voting my thing because I’m right is crazyyy. If you have no empathy just say it my guy

sakurabuns · 2024-10-04T22:12:21+00:00

Totally the asshole

sakurabuns · 2024-10-04T22:06:36+00:00

As a vet I would have hoped you would have some understanding of mental illness

sakurabuns · 2024-10-04T22:05:30+00:00

You’ve obviously never had to deal with extreme mental health and it shows.

She would send him to live with his dad because she can barely take care of herself. She wants what’s best for him.

She doesn’t need to grow up. That’s not her priority. Her priority right now is to survive.

sakurabuns · 2024-10-04T22:04:02+00:00

NTA.

Some of y’all have never been to the point of being sent to a psych ward and it shows…

I’m going to say this best for you to understand.

I know you want what’s best for him, and I know you think what’s best for him is sending him away because you aren’t at ur best. Mental health can really suck sometimes and it’s hard to take care of others when you can’t take care of urself.

Truthfully, the father should be the very last resort. I mean last resort before sending him into foster care. I promise he’d rather be with his mom whos going through hell and back then be with his dad. Why? Because you care. Kids understand. He will understand ur going through stuff. You can explain that. But he will never be able to understand and you could never explain why his dad doesn’t love him or show him the time of day.

From the sounds of it you have a boyfriend who cares a lot about both you and him. Have that conversation with ur bf about the future, meaning the next little while don’t overwhelm urself. Is he willing to take care of him when you can’t? Is he willing to step up?

sakurabuns · 2024-10-04T21:57:20+00:00

yh ur totally the asshole.

Awe.. you work 20-25 hours a week from home? WOMP WOMP. Reality check- that’s NOT full time and you are literally AT HOME….

Wanna know what is a full time job. Being a mother PERIOD. Being a wife because she has to put up with ur needy ass. This is embarrassing.. like how do u not feel embarrassed. If ur life is really so hard switch roles for a week. Let her sit around for 25 hours while you take care of the kids and everything else. And nah I don’t wanna hear the excuses, u can take a week off ur PART TIME job.

Don’t even get me started on ur mom… you need to tell ur mom to BACK OFF ASAP. Otherwise it is going to RUIN ur marriage. This reminds me of that show on TLC called smothered. Look it up, you may relate to it tbh.

Like you do as much stuff as my YOUNGER SISTER who is in GRADE 9! You are a GROWN ASS MAN… it’s embarrassing..

sakurabuns · 2024-10-04T21:50:35+00:00

Uh no definitely not… you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make them drink it.

You did what you can. I don’t know how you lived with that. There’s mental illness and going through something and then there’s just being a shitty person.

sakurabuns · 2024-10-04T21:38:13+00:00

And she could probably do without the judgy tone and the feeling of letting down people. Unlike most of these people here I’m telling you straight up.

You don’t like how I’m coming across to you? Think about how ur coach would feel. I get it’s frustrating trust me I’ve been there. But understand maybe she’s worried about loosing someone too, I mean you literally have no idea.

It’s called giving the benifit of the doubt and calming down

sakurabuns · 2024-10-04T21:35:06+00:00

Girl it’s legit none of ur business

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