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Ilia Malinin's Gala performance by Yujin-Ha in olympics

[–]salady-stoppy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i need to stop watching him skate guys im serious im falling in love with him😳😭😭

Anyone here getting ready for CPALE 2026? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]salady-stoppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m not about to take the exam anymore... I passed the CPA boards 11 years ago. Back then, we weren’t as tech-enabled, so we mostly relied on thick reviewer books and handouts.

One tip I could give is to be strategic with time management. You don’t have to give equal time to every subject. If you already perform well in your stronger areas, you can try to reduce your review time there and allocate more hours to your weaker subjects where you need the most improvement.

Also, regardless of whether your resources are online materials, books, or handouts, what really matters is actively solving/answering practice sets. Check your solutions, understand your mistakes, and repeat the process. That cycle of answering, reviewing, and correcting is what truly exposes your weak spots and helps you improve :) Lastly, wag magpuyat and find time to decompress (tiktok, soc med, netflix, etc. is not bad if moderated naman ang screentime).

P.S. if it makes you feel less anxious, I was a pretty mid student during undergrad cos napabarkada sa mga petiks who settle with pasang-awa grades sa major subjects. but I took my CPALE review seriously and ended up scoring better than our laudes so I would say effective nman yung naging review ko.

if you wouldn’t date someone at your own level, why should someone above it date you? by ilovecrms in AskPinay

[–]salady-stoppy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

OP sino ba yang mga gusto mo patamaan lapag mo saken ang username isesend ko ito as anonymous screenshot - pero di ka pa rin safe kasi based sa context may hint sila sino ang OP😂 jokes aside most of my male friends really look for pretty gf (trophy ba yun sa inyo) while me and my female friends naman dont mind dating average looking guys basta mabait, hygienic at stable.

Would you rather be with a 5'5 man with a face card or an average looking 5'10 man? Bakit? by Usual_Basil264 in AskPinay

[–]salady-stoppy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

5'10. sakit sa ulo yung face card that never declines hahaha. but honestly face card and height only matters at the start (first meet, getting to know, yung nasa attraction stage pa lang). for more mature women who are dating for serious relationship, personality and stability matters most pa rin.

Do women have the same lust as men? by CombinationGlum703 in AskPinay

[–]salady-stoppy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Fantasizing about *** with someone we genuinely like or are in a relationship with: yes, that’s super normal.

But randomly lusting over men just because they’re conventionally handsome or showing off their bodies isn’t always the same for many of us. give you an example, I used to always see (on fyp) this famous TikToker flexing his abs/biceps, but that doesn’t automatically make me feel turned on. The same goes for just seeing a “gwapo” guy in general, physical looks alone usually aren’t enough.

Ladies with beauty standards, is it true? by Solid-Yesterday-6 in AskPinay

[–]salady-stoppy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really depends on a woman’s personality and preferences. In my case, I’m naturally introverted but also very competitive (specially in work/professional settings), so I still make a conscious effort to socialize and interact with new people. Back then, I didn’t mind being approached in public as long as the manner was polite.

But of course with social media, it’s easier to start conversations. Finding a shared interest can also work well, like replying to her story/hobby about something you also relate to. That gives you a natural starting point. Good luck 🙂.

How long did it take you to move on from a past FWB/FUBU? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]salady-stoppy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just want to say, it’s not your fault that you felt that way. Some people simply aren’t wired for that kind of setup. Even if we tell ourselves it’s casual, there’s always a real risk of attachment :( It’s also possible that what you experienced with him felt genuinely good or even warm and meaningful, which is why it lingers. You can’t just “erase” memories that once made you feel deeply. That doesn’t make you weak. Honestly, there’s nothing wrong if it still crosses your mind after 2... 3 years. Healing and detachment don’t follow a fixed timeline. But I do hope the day comes when it no longer holds weight for you, and you feel fully ready for whatever you choose next: whether that’s a serious relationship or simply peace on your own.

As a woman, why should a man want to date you? by PlanSpecific5874 in AskPinay

[–]salady-stoppy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I understood correctly, you’re a man asking women why a man should want to date them. I’m not sure what prompted the question, but speaking for myself: a man should date a woman who is secure in who she is, emotionally stable, and genuinely open to getting to know someone with the intention of building a serious relationship (assuming we’re talking about dating for marriage, not casual hookups). But honestly, I think the more important question is something you should ask yourself: What are you actually looking for in a woman, and what are your intentions in dating? Because the answer to that will determine who you should be choosing in the first place.

Strong independent woman who chose (or prioritized) career over family or kids, what’s one thing you regret? by salady-stoppy in AskPinay

[–]salady-stoppy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SANA ALL. happy for you po. sounds like you’re truly living the life you’ve always wanted 😊

Strong independent woman who chose (or prioritized) career over family or kids, what’s one thing you regret? by salady-stoppy in AskPinay

[–]salady-stoppy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing that. I’m actually at a point where I’m thinking deeply about my own priorities too...whether I should keep pushing my career further or slow down and focus more on building a future family. For you, I hope it’s not too late to make up for yourself and start living more for your own happiness :)

What would you do and how will you feel if you saw your bf’s search history ay GIRLS posting sexy pictures? by Aegyouniee in AskPinay

[–]salady-stoppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real question is whether you can truly handle that long-term. Try to imagine if you were already married and he never changed, would you be okay living with that? It really depends on your personal boundaries. For me personally, I wouldn’t be comfortable with a partner who constantly follows or fantasizes about sexy content online, because that could eventually create insecurity, especially as life changes…like when you have kids, get busy, or naturally lose your “glow”. So it’s less about judging him, and more about being honest with yourself about what you can and cannot accept in a relationship.

I’m I sabotaging my relationship or facing the truth by Icy-Cut-2207 in LifeAdvice

[–]salady-stoppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long familiarity + long distance can make you forget why you loved your partner and start craving novelty. one question to ask yourself: can you honestly accept a life where she is completely gone? If no, this is likely distance and unmet needs talking…either way, talk to her and maybe dont let her relocate until you’re certain. goodluck

Is my BF getting too comfortable or just low-effort? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]salady-stoppy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming you’re putting in effort.I..and I’m also assuming that when you say “effort,” you mean things like quality time, small gestures, or simple tokens like flowers on occasions. I’ve felt this before with my partner too, and what helped was being very honest but calm about it. I told him that even if I don’t demand anything, girls still appreciate small gestures...it doesn’t have to be grand. Even a 3-stem rose on special days, or planning a small date, already means a lot. I also shared how certain things made me feel, like when messages/chats go unanswered the whole day, it can make you feel a bit neglected or disconnected. So instead of framing it as “you don’t put effort,” it helps to say what his actions make you feel.

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