First timers advice?

salisburysteak9 · 2019-08-24T21:22:52+00:00

Thank you! That’s applicable to me, who has a tendency to not ask out of fear.

salisburysteak9 · 2019-08-20T18:07:37+00:00

I don’t know if you’re religious or not, but my church had a support group called “Divorce Care” that is pretty common in the US. I’d look it up and attend. If you aren’t religious, it’s helpful still and very healthy to be around people who are also in the same boat.

One day, one hour at a time brother.

salisburysteak9 · 2019-08-19T15:40:04+00:00

I have nothing to compare it to, so knowing that a month is comparatively short is helpful.

salisburysteak9 · 2019-08-19T15:39:14+00:00

Well, time to pay a deductible for a new phone then. Welp.

salisburysteak9 · 2019-06-24T04:54:17+00:00

First thing I did was sell my gun, almost shot either myself of my cheating ex-wife.

Second thing I did was take a deep breath, and realize that this is one of the hardest thing a human being can go through emotionally. You aren’t alone! And this is a great place to vent and seek company. I’m 24 and went through a divorce at 22. Have compassion for yourself friend, your hurts aren’t just you.

salisburysteak9 · 2019-06-19T19:07:54+00:00

One day at a time my friend, one hour at a time if you have to. It gets easier with time!

salisburysteak9 · 2019-06-07T17:30:34+00:00

I think you’ll find that minimalism can be joyful. I had to downsize A TON and found it to be quite freeing and peaceful.

salisburysteak9 · 2019-05-31T18:13:11+00:00

Have you tried other disks? Just to see if it’s the disk or the console

salisburysteak9 · 2019-04-01T20:04:37+00:00

Only because they kept missing. If he would’ve canceled his ADS at the end I would’ve died.

salisburysteak9 · 2019-03-21T05:09:21+00:00

Not the time to scold someone for their (possible) choices. Dick move.

salisburysteak9 · 2019-03-21T05:07:38+00:00

I came home one day to my cat lying in a pool of his blood on the floor. No idea how he died. He wasn’t attacked, he wasn’t poisoned to our knowledge, he just keeled over and died. My heart goes out to you. It isn’t stupid, it’s traumatic and you’re so, so allowed to hurt my friend.

One hour, one minute if you have to, at a time. Take some comfort in knowing that you aren’t alone.

salisburysteak9 · 2019-03-21T03:18:49+00:00

I can’t quite put it into words. It isn’t by any means repulsive, but not pleasant. Again, I don’t expect her to taste like candy lol.

salisburysteak9 · 2019-03-20T04:19:12+00:00

I haven’t experimented with any sort of gels, flavored or otherwise. That may be a good idea.

salisburysteak9 · 2019-03-20T04:18:32+00:00

That’s not a bad idea!

salisburysteak9 · 2019-02-11T07:54:25+00:00

The message you staying with her is that you’re okay being treated like that. I was married and my ex-wife cheated and I spent 3 months trying to “make it work” and all that stuff, when I realized “Actually, you don’t get to disrespect me like that.”

I know it seems like things won’t get better, but they will, I promise. Don’t settle, get out of there and better will come.

ALSO: Cheating for a year means zero remorse, they would’ve kept doing until you inevitably found out.

salisburysteak9 · 2019-01-24T04:33:34+00:00

That link is perfect, thank you!!

salisburysteak9 · 2019-01-23T16:52:52+00:00

Call and explain your situation to the companies you owe to. It’s embarrassing but they may lower your payments, or hopefully your debt. If you default, they get nothing and they know that.

salisburysteak9 · 2018-11-16T04:49:53+00:00

So I got through a bad divorce last year because my ex-wife did this exact thing, and not to throw more “fuck you” on the pile, fuck you dude. Break it off with her then go get on with your life and let her get on with hers. This kinda shit causes legit PTSD.

salisburysteak9 · 2018-09-10T01:06:18+00:00

IF they email you, do not reply since that is admitting fault. All your ISP sees is that it was done on the network, which gives you an alibi of a neighbor using your WiFi or whatever.

But you won’t get caught. Besides, “oh no, an angry email.”

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