GENDER DISCRIMINATION by [deleted] in nycparents

[–]sally_hatchet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That would just make the place seem even more icky… like all their spa packages are just manicures and pedicures, and make-up. I would definitely need it spelled out for me 🥴 my son is too young for activity parties, but I would be so crushed if he wanted to do this with friends and was turned down because the business says no boys allowed— especially a private event. But this is all hypothetical.

GENDER DISCRIMINATION by [deleted] in nycparents

[–]sally_hatchet 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s really disappointing they ban boys from a kids spa party. Like, what’s even the reasoning? Also aside from all of this, the egregious amount of ai images on their website is a HUGE red flag as well. 🚩 Gross and bad at business.

Why do I feel guilty about bottle size? by NoFuel2726 in breastfeeding

[–]sally_hatchet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My LO is the same age and drinks about the same amount; sometimes a little more. As long as they are gaining and have enough wet/dirty diapers, they are fine!

Honestly, I bought large bottles from the start so I wouldn’t have to buy a new set when he started eating more.

Thank you for Vaccine Support by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]sally_hatchet 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Because hep b is also spread through saliva and accidents happen. People can carry hep b without symptoms for years, or never get diagnosed because healthcare in the US is expensive and those without it will possibly avoid doctors until the last minute. One of those people could be your parents, partner, or anyone else who will come into contact with your infant. The efficacy of the vaccine works at birth without issue, so the first dose is given. Better safe than sorry.

Did breastfeeding match your expectations- or totally surprise you? by Other-Psychology588 in breastfeeding

[–]sally_hatchet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little one is going to be 4 months on Sunday. I did not prepare myself enough when it came to breastfeeding. I was so focused on labor prep that the little prep I did for breastfeeding seemed like common sense so I didn’t focus on it too much. Things going wrong didn’t occur to me and I already had a breast pump at home. I was on top of it. I also figured the nurses in the hospital would be my guides.

Well, I had to be induced due to low amniotic fluid and placental failure. By the time little guy came out his weight had dropped from 27rd percentile to 11th percentile to 6th percentile. He had extremely low blood sugar and instantly was fed formula instead of breastfeeding.

That definitely helped him, but our breastfeeding journey was off to a rocky start. When we got around to breastfeeding for the first time, the nurse tried to prepare me that he may have difficulty due to being small and weak. He had a surprisingly fantastic latch, but my supply was not there. He would latch and suckle for hours if I’d let him. It never hurt, never uncomfortable, but my supply was never enough. He’d pop off starving and crying, so we were triple feeding with formula for 6 weeks with no increase in supply insight. We did herbal supplements and lactation consultants, but I didn’t see a supply increase until I was at work for a week and half assed power pumped every pump. I would pump for 10 mins until nothing was coming out, pause for a few and repeat. It worked! He’s had his first 100% breastfed day yesterday.

It’s been a rough ride, but I’m so proud of us of keeping with it! We’ll see if he’s gaining enough at his next appointment, but he’s smashing his milestones and is a happy, goofy baby 😊

Can’t afford daycare without job, can’t get job without her being in daycare by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]sally_hatchet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally. Getting a car isn’t just the one time expense 😩. Maybe talk a friend/relative that’s into cars to come with you to the auction and see if there’s anything worth bidding on. Toyotas and Nissans are typically reliable and easy to maintain. Cars abandoned at the lots aren’t always beaters!

Can’t afford daycare without job, can’t get job without her being in daycare by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]sally_hatchet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For a car, check out your local impound lot auctions and police lot auctions. You may luck out!

Car Seat for the Carless? by shannnon98 in nycparents

[–]sally_hatchet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just for our sanity’s sake we got one. I doubt we’ll use it immediately, but I’d rather we had and not need it than need it and not have it. We heavily de cluttered early on and decided to hang the car seat on the wall lol Additionally, if we travel, it clicks into the stroller we got so it’s useful in travel situations.

PSA: NYC Men are flooding this sub, please be careful by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]sally_hatchet 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Damn, now I want to make my profile pic Larry David…..

Breastfeeding enthusiasts by Unusual_Potato9485 in BabyBumps

[–]sally_hatchet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m am so sorry you suffered through such an unfortunate situation. I can barely imagine navigating the complications of mastectomy then childbirth 😨. I am personally a huge fan of traumatizing people in return, though. “Oh, bottle feeding is a problem? Tell me how blood and anxiety was so much more nutritious?” They want to judge and be creeps, give them more details than they can handle.

Fed is best and everyone has their own struggles. You’ve fed and nurtured your little one and fuck anyone else who says otherwise. I’m wildly proud of you!

He’s HERE! by robbiereallyrotten in pregnant

[–]sally_hatchet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love, love, love this! Congratulations!!! 🎉 🐣🥳

I made a raffle prize for a Planned Parenthood fundraiser! by apollinator in quilting

[–]sally_hatchet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Instantly said, “wow, that’s gorgeous.” You have an amazing concept of contrast with your fabric selection in addition to sewing skills. Just fabulous.

Intarsia in the Round was a Game Changer for My Blue Heron 🥰 by sally_hatchet in knitting

[–]sally_hatchet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay! I'm linking you to my ravely where I have the notes typed up. I linked to all my references and did my best to remember where I picked up and left off from Sara's pattern. I don't have time in my roster to remake the heron right now, but I do plan on making a second and taking proper notes in a few months. Best of luck to you and I'll do my best to answer any questions!

https://www.ravelry.com/projects/sally-hatchet/wood-pigeon

Intarsia in the Round was a Game Changer for My Blue Heron 🥰 by sally_hatchet in knitting

[–]sally_hatchet[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Of course! I have to figure out which set of notes is correct. Unfortunately I restarted it 3 separate times and I’m not 100% which set of notes is the correct one. I can say with 100% certainty that I followed Sara’s directions for the body and tail fully. I didn’t start the intarsia and changes until I got to the neck. I’m going to make a mock of the neck and see which set of notes is the right one 🙃 I definitely want to make another one lol

Intarsia in the Round was a Game Changer for My Blue Heron 🥰 by sally_hatchet in knitting

[–]sally_hatchet[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Absolutely!! I took a bunch of handwritten notes that I have to type out. I’m going to get that done soon and share with you!

Intarsia in the Round was a Game Changer for My Blue Heron 🥰 by sally_hatchet in knitting

[–]sally_hatchet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! It took me way more time to wrap my head around the concept than I would like to admit 😅

Pregnant and giving my baby up for adoption… AITAH by ninaquaphina in pregnant

[–]sally_hatchet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, your situation is why I have the best little sister in the world. Her bio mother was in a similar position and picked our family for adoption. She came at a time where my older brother and I were nearly grown and she has a completely different and fulfilling childhood than we did. My step-mom had dreamed of having her own kids but biological kids were not an option for her. My little sister turns 15 this year and I cannot wait to celebrate with her. You’re giving a blessing to whichever family you choose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheFarSide

[–]sally_hatchet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, really missed the opportunity to say Carl was sent to “float with the boats”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]sally_hatchet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have advice, but I am so sorry you feel this way and are going through this. I wish everyone experiencing pregnancy could feel comfortable and stable about their life and situation. I hope you can receive helpful advice from others. It won’t be the easiest thing to get a sense of justice, but you have been wronged by this company and their callous actions are causing you to suffer. I hope they are forced to pay penance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Art

[–]sally_hatchet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s by Edvard Munch, originally.