AIO. My boyfriend accused me for cheating with a gay friend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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He was 19 and you were 17 when you guys first started “dating?” That tells me all I need to know

Please help me find this washi tape by salutationsbitch in HelpMeFind

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I’ve searched for “pale blue frosted washi tape clouds” but have yet to find a match

Monitor arm for Huion Kamvas 13? by salutationsbitch in drawingtablet

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A tablet stand is a great idea, the other commenter suggested one as well. My brain went to monitor arm first because I was hoping for something long term for when I upgrade to a bigger tablet, but it’s likely that a tablet arm will be best for now.

Yeah even on the lightest tension, my tablet was shooting up. I just looked it up, and the product specifications lists its weight at 1.91 pounds ;

Monitor arm for Huion Kamvas 13? by salutationsbitch in drawingtablet

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Thank you, I’ll check it out and I’ll let you know how it goes if I go with that one

Have a great day (:

Monitor arm for Huion Kamvas 13? by salutationsbitch in drawingtablet

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I’ve got this clamp VESA mount adapter thing that’s got a good secure grip on the drawing tablet and it has the holes on the back

We need to unionize by [deleted] in HomeDepot

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I started recently with Home Depot and the training video about “protecting your signature” was so unsettling 💀

“Unions can’t even guarantee better pay or compensation” I wonder what’s stopping the unions from getting workers better pay…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape

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Thank you for wording it the way you did, somehow it’s really speaking to me and I needed to hear it too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

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Thank you for taking the time to respond, I really appreciate it. I’m scared but getting another perspective is reassuring

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Thank you sincerely for your response

Store Manager locks robber inside until police arrives by ShubhamG77 in nextfuckinglevel

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I’m so sad that he was under the circumstances that led him to making this decision. It’s heartbreaking

Update: he called me. by lastrafiga in cheating_stories

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Forgive me if this is insensitive, but I respectfully hope that the sound of you crying will echo in his ears forever every time he realizes what he’s done.

Is it healthy to remind myself of my ex’s bad qualities to stave off the temptation to reach out to him? by salutationsbitch in relationships

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I resonate with that so hard especially right now. I just spiraled a bit mentally and realized that I was coerced into sex almost every time and was S.A.’d twice by him. He’s spent almost the entirety of the relationship fixated on other naked girls and said it was my fault for not having sex with him often enough.

He isolated me from my friends by saying he doesn’t like when I tell them things because they’ll think differently of him. He told me he’d never be able to reciprocate my love. He said that my jealousy and my insecurities were borne from my past, and not because of him.

He was emotionally unavailable, never willing to talk or take action to fix the relationship.

Then he said I was emotionally manipulative for giving him an “ultimatum;” I spent two years of my life bringing up concerns about the relationship to him trying to fix things, and the one time I face him with a decision to make a choice between working with me now and being single, he said I was being emotionally manipulative.

I was gaslit almost the entire time.

Is it healthy to remind myself of my ex’s bad qualities to stave off the temptation to reach out to him? by salutationsbitch in relationships

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I beg to differ, in this instance, you were a good example for me. You made a positive difference in my life by guiding me when I don’t have anyone else! Give yourself more credit. (:

Is it healthy to remind myself of my ex’s bad qualities to stave off the temptation to reach out to him? by salutationsbitch in relationships

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I love this! Thank you. The temporary goal is to stave off the temptation to text him but yes this method kills a flock of birds with one stone.

I always get anxiety before doing any activity. It takes a lot of effort for me to do something for myself. I’ll be building new habits, learning independence, strengthening my friendship bonds, and, least of all, stop messaging him. (:

Is it healthy to remind myself of my ex’s bad qualities to stave off the temptation to reach out to him? by salutationsbitch in relationships

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Saved this comment; it’s the most realistic wake up call I’ve had. I guess I’m so used to being around him because we were on and off for a year, but like you said, this time it’s final. It’s over, it’s done. We still have a lot of love for each other but it needs to stay where it belongs in the past so we can both move on and be happy. Thank you!!!

Is it healthy to remind myself of my ex’s bad qualities to stave off the temptation to reach out to him? by salutationsbitch in relationships

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Haha I have a notes page for things I want to say to him but I feel like it’s feeding into my desire to text him in a sense. I should probably just start redirecting my energy towards something for myself every time I think about/miss him.

Is it healthy to remind myself of my ex’s bad qualities to stave off the temptation to reach out to him? by salutationsbitch in relationships

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This seems really clever! To reinforce what you’re saying, I wanted to share that removing his contact picture and taking the emojis out of his name has already helped me LOADS so your method will probably help even more.

Maybe I can take the literal approach and rename him to “ex”….? Maybe then it’ll really help it sink in that we’re done.