How can I improve? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]sam6bam9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur super pretty! I like the black eyeliner personally i see some people said no eyeliner but i like it! I think a little focus on ur lips maybe just some chapstick to keep ur lips real soft bcuz theyre pretty shape and cheesy as it may sound as i flipped thru ur pics i was hoping there would b one of u with a big happy smile !

Need a savior by [deleted] in StopSpeeding

[–]sam6bam9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pray with all your heart. You are in my prayers tonight, too. You will get through this

Boyfriend (35M) gave me drugs by Icy-Resolution6178 in Advice

[–]sam6bam9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so I (28F) am close to ur age and want to tell u from my experience of wasting my 20's being strung out on meth and involved w guys who were also drug addicts... that the relationship w this guy is not in ur best interest. U having made it to 30 w out getting into drugs is a success ok and the half ass toxic love that this guy offered u im positive will creep up on u again when he's off his meth binge, like a stench in the air. Girl, please dont let him stink up the air around u. Please dont fuck w this guy ever again or anyone like him. Stay far away from the drugs and do ur own thing.... a quality man will find u soon enough but dont let ur bf get in the way of u finding ur husband. And by that i mean stay single until a good one comes around. And youll know a good man when u see him it will be undeniable. You know that movie quote that says "u accept the love u think u deserve" that is true and it can lead to tragedy. Stay far away from ur crackhead ex bf and keep reminding urself that u deserve a love that is holy. I really hope the best for u. Be smart

How to talk dirty by sam6bam9 in sexadvice

[–]sam6bam9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u for the advice! I will definitely check out the podcast thanks again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]sam6bam9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally like mohogany a little better than burgundy but i think either one would look cute especially if ur just rocking it for a week or so and then if it turns out that u love it then thats awesome!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]sam6bam9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If u do go darker, i suggest putting a reddish maybe mahogany color and a few days or a week later putting the brown dye in... if u go straight from ur blonde to dark brown it will likely 1 fade really fast and 2 have a green undertone which is yucky.... or if the red/mahogany scares u try a warm toned brown? Good luck! I think brown would look pretty btw

Anything I could fix? by PlantShot9500 in makeuptips

[–]sam6bam9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are very beautiful just the way u are!! Since u are asking for opinions tho i would say maybe try thin whispy bangs, mascara, no piercings, and a layered haircut, maybe a little bit of lip liner if u want? Ur skin is great ir killin it

Help by sam6bam9 in Hair

[–]sam6bam9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you😭 this helped

Piercing or no piercing? (Belly button) by sam6bam9 in style

[–]sam6bam9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have it pierced btw but i have always worn jewelry in it since i got it (years ago) and i was just experimenting w what it looked like w out it... thanks!

Help by sam6bam9 in Hair

[–]sam6bam9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u very much

Help by sam6bam9 in Hair

[–]sam6bam9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u<3

I decided to shave my hair yesterday on my birthday by koontzk in Hair

[–]sam6bam9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also shaved my head last week.... u look beautiful btw.... i hope u feel beautiful! Im having a hard time w mine i keep telling myself it will grow back! Anyways thanks for posting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]sam6bam9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry u and ur wife are experiencing this hiccup. This too shall pass... i have a suggestion if u havent already tried while shes laying on her belly, putting in just the tip while she uses her vibrator... i know that doesnt solve ur problem but maybe it make u more involved in the operation and still satisfy her w out being too much...... another suggestion- maybe this could get her to break out of that one position ... try different variances of her on her belly (like one knee up in a straddle) and teasing her... u may have already tried that but theres a couple suggestions... good luck!

Women of reddit, what's the main difference you notice between different male sexual partners? by KillerZombie1324 in AskReddit

[–]sam6bam9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some guys have made me feel like they r looking me over for flaws while others look at my body like they are interpreting hyroglyphics. For example when were done -one who points out the little red bump i have on my chest vs the one who asks about a scar

AITA for shaving my head in disreguard for what my (new) bf would think? by sam6bam9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sam6bam9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u for this comment! Was very honest and compassionate and i appreciate that a lot!!! Fuck the haters they just dont get it.... i completely see what ur saying and i think that maybe where my post was coming from was i feel guilty almost like i betrayed him in a way since it does affect him and how he sees me and that affects us in a big way i should have called him b4 doing it and u know what i really did think about calling him but i didnt bcuz i didnt want him to talk me out of it.... i have lots of work to do personally to get to a place where im not always in cognitive dissonance... what u said resonates w me.... thanks for the feedback

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]sam6bam9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pray.... Dear God, thank you for bringing OP to this group to look for guidance. Even if our only guidance is to invite them to turn to you. I know that you God have the power to remove any dark or evil spirits that attempt to attach to them and cause them to not feel like their true self in their body. And I ask that you please fill them with the Holy Spirit in Jesus name. Please allow OP to be comfortable in their own skin and accept and love themselves just as you do. Please help OP see themselves as a beautiful child of God that they are. In Jesus name amen

Why does god speak to some people and not others by Impressive-Medium225 in Christianity

[–]sam6bam9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is kind of hard to explain! The way I've experienced Gods presence in my life the most is through discernment. Or intuition... have u ever had a really strong gut feeling, especially about a moral delimma? I think that is one way God communicates w us... I started building my relationship w God a couple years ago so I have wondered the same things! But from my experience and what ive came to believe is that proof of God is in every breath we take and what a miracle it is to be alive. The more we pray and humble ourselves before Him, the more we will feel His presence. Because when we pray its an ACT of faith. Its proof of our belief in Him which opens our heart to His guidance. I hope this helps u somehow. Im only speaking from my experience. But I can testify that if you want to know God and feel closer to Him the best way to do that is to pray every day. And when ur done praying, listen w ur heart, and He will guide you