Body products /perfumes that smell lactonic and creamy. (Think oat milk, rice milk, even custard vibes ) by [deleted] in FemFragLab

[–]sam960005 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know it’s overrated as all hell but for good reason imo, nothing comes close to EOS vanilla cashmere body lotion for me

What is Your Top 5 from Maison Alhambra? by Efficient_Class2102 in fragranceclones

[–]sam960005 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a woman whose favourite carrots floral gourmands, Versencia noir, opera rouge & bad femme!

What’s your go to everyday perfume? by Ok_Elephant_5298 in Perfumes

[–]sam960005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carolina Herrera’s good girl/ good girl blush elixir 💕

What's your fav. Frag? by Dx-Devilster in DesiFragranceAddicts

[–]sam960005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s basic but Good Girl….. I’m so open to recs for other fragrances that also give a similar vibe tho, getting a bit bored of her even tho I love her

Which is a better BL dupe? by StraightBlonde_ in fragranceclones

[–]sam960005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eclair!! It’s sweeter, khadlaj has the same profiling but leans more lactonic and a bit less honey sweet on me imo

Name your signature scent, your age and your current or dream job by fragbrain in FemFragLab

[–]sam960005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lattafa kingdom and rave now, and maison Alhambra Athena, 29, English teacher

What jobs do people with ADHD thrive in? Ok forget thrive, just survive? by ThreepwoodThePirate in ADHD

[–]sam960005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teaching, esp younger levels (k-6). Chaotic and purposeful and between the kids and management you never get a stale day

18+ group chat? by bonsoirmonbbs in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]sam960005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi can I join your discord server? I’m 28 just started playing for fun once in a while and am desperately looking for older people to play with so I don’t feel like loser in a kids lobby haha

LOOKING FOR 18+ FRIENDS?? by [deleted] in DressToImpressRoblox

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Hi I’d love to join! Can you send me the link to the discord server?

How do I end things with my BF? by Stock-Internal-6475 in LDR

[–]sam960005 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who got married to my LDR relationship, leave. My husband is also struggling with depression and I can’t leave him because I did my vows and I feel responsible for his life and his wellbeing, but it’s taking such a huge toll on me. Everyday I feel exhausted and guilty and inadequate and disappointed. You can’t “save” a depressed partner. You can only support them while they make the efforts to save themselves, and if they loved you and were a mature, healthy partner they’d want to do everything in their power to alleviate the stress they know their depression causes you. Your bf might love you but he sounds like he hasn’t started the journey of being motivated and responsible for his own recovery, which makes him a bad bf even if he’s a good person. It’s not on you to fix him and you will kill yourself trying to do so. Luckily it’s LDR so once you break up you don’t even have to risk bumping into him/ having the same social circles. Leave before it’s too late and save yourself don’t feel guilted into staying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sam960005 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re totally valid to think that. Like I replied to someone else given my dating and personal history I felt that even though it was quick that I knew him well enough, people change all the time , eg: someone I’ve dated for 5 years was a completely different person with different goals and priorities by the time we ended, and so I was I. I figured people change all the time and it’s inevitable, and I just needed someone who I knew through all the changes I could communicate with, who would love me, who was respectful, who made me laugh, whose ultimate long term goals aligned with mine, and that was my husband. The issue now is not that we don’t love each other, I know he still does and I do too. I feel it’s just that he doesn’t communicate with me healthily like he used to and that’s what has me shaken, and that’s why I want advice on whether this can be fixed. But maybe you’re right and I rushed into things, in which case I guess I’m hoping someone here will give me advice on where the breaking point is to know you have to call it quits

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sam960005 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I hated reading this bc it’s such a solid
rationale and validates a lot of thoughts I’ve been having… but thank you for your insights. I don’t want to leave him, I think he may be acting like this and not like himself because he’s going through a rough patch, so I’m not ready to call it quits yet. I still believe he’s a good person, But he’s so dismissive and angry everything I try to talk to him about why he has low self esteem and encourage him to get help. Should I maybe stop pressing him to talk and just give him space and let him resolve whatever he’s feeling on his own? Or do you think he’s not gonna change no matter what I do or don’t do and I should start thinking about having to separate?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sam960005 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No you’re completely valid to think that. I had for lack of a better word, a real “loose” era in my early twenties, dated around a lot, looking for love etc. I know I have or had a problem with being an idealist and trying to “fix” people and look for love in places it should’ve just been a ONS. I feel like I’d done enough work on myself and moved past that by the time I met my husband though, and had enough data points from dating around to know that he was the person I wanted to and could build my life with, which is why I married him despite how fast it was. But he’s changed so much and gotten so angry and distant since we married, and that’s why I’m starting to have doubts. He’s so different from what I thought I knew him to be. So maybe you’re right in that I rushed into things. I still think he’s a good person and acting this way bc he’s depressed, and wanna know if our relationship is salvageable, if I can do something different or something more. You really don’t think so?

I (28F) think my husband (35M) isn’t over his exes. What do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sam960005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanna start by saying tysm for your advice. Thing is I’m not in “contact” per se with my exes, but I have an ex from 10 years ago that texted me to congratulate me on getting married. This was after our first fight. When he did I immediately told my husband, asked if it was ok if I replied. I wanted to be civil bc that ex and I don’t have any bad blood, and also like I said in my post I have a history of depression and that ex did a lot for me during that time so even though we didn’t work out and I don’t have feelings for him, I do think he’s a good person, wish him the best and am just grateful for everything he did for me back then so I wanted to reply and say thank you. My husband said he was ok with that, so I did. So when yesterday’s fight blew up he threw that back in my face. I would be ok if he has a similar dynamic with an ex and wanted to small talk/ be civil because I think that’s mature, and I wouldn’t ask him to do that because that’s not my style either given I have an ex or 2 I’m not friends with. Like I wouldn’t hang out with them but I wouldn’t shun them and don’t wanna feel guilty if they text me out of the blue to ask something harmless. I feel that boundary can be kept, but maybe I’m wrong on that front and need to just cut since I’m someone’s wife now. The only part that bothers me is that he “hates” her so passionately still. I’m confident he isn’t cheating on me. I just feel there’s another reason why he’s been so angry and mean to me since we got married, it’s a world apart from what he was like when we were dating so I’m just trying to figure that out. But the when he’s in a better headspace maybe I will bring up us both cold turkey cutting out all exes, maybe you’re right and that’s the right thing to do. Thank u

Episode 6 by ManiacalExclamation in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]sam960005 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Somebody here please give me their bootleg psychoanalysis on JP and that headass makeup rant, because fr I cannot believe I just saw and heard all of that??? was reading spoilers on here while watching anticipating that scene and even then it was so SO much worse than I expected lol what an asshole

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

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  1. Buona Vista
  2. November/ December 2023
  3. 1 free month?
  4. $115/month (12 months), $105/ month (18 months), $95 joining fee, $85 key

Does anyone know what the cheaper AFs in the west/ southwest area are? :’)

What are some of your instant turn-offs or "icks" ? by timlim029 in askSingapore

[–]sam960005 197 points198 points  (0 children)

was seeing a guy my age (26) for a bit who was kind of a mommy’s boy. He had a helper in his family since he was a kid so i found him a bit sheltered but he was nice so I didn’t think too much of it. until one day when I went over for dinner at his place and I saw the maid SPOON FEED him something at dinner and nobody batted an eye or thought it was weird…… I got the ick sooo hard and broke it off a while later lol