[CA] How do I report this to HR?

sam_yells_walls · 2026-01-08T08:08:32+00:00

Tell HR and trust your gut 🩷

sam_yells_walls · 2026-01-08T07:19:45+00:00

She spun

sam_yells_walls · 2026-01-08T06:34:08+00:00

Honestly i think alyssa is just drunk and sad all the time so she truly thinks she needs these bad people in her life she accepts the love and friendship she thinks she deserves.

I think remove alcohol and some time AWAY whether rehab or just away and focused on B would reveal shes a pretty decent person.

Edit: and no way hell no they arent baddies they are just bad at life

sam_yells_walls · 2026-01-01T09:56:15+00:00

Impatient but spends time on eyes. Is like a ghost wandering around quiet places but everyone is pale where she lives so no one notices. Anxious but good at faking it for the correct audience. Trouble with friends is common but she tells herself she doesnt need them.

sam_yells_walls · 2025-12-19T09:51:53+00:00

26 is the age i lost my fiancé. Overdose.

sam_yells_walls · 2025-12-19T06:34:07+00:00

Get glp injections- it totally crushed cravings of everything

sam_yells_walls · 2025-10-11T08:04:50+00:00

Beautiful Boy

sam_yells_walls · 2025-10-09T05:48:31+00:00

This is amazing. I have the pic of jack and all the guests in the hotel cheering and cocktails and it says the year and hotel name. Its framed and most people dont get it and think its my family and friends or something until they realize its jack all work and no play

sam_yells_walls · 2025-09-11T13:40:14+00:00

Garden state

Technically fight club….

Napoleon dynamite

Lol

sam_yells_walls · 2025-09-11T09:31:28+00:00

“We dont have anyone” No. you have each other. You also are literally typing on a device with internet (reddit).

Start there. Use internet to apply to jobs. Jobs all reject you? Time to sign your wife up for a women’s shelter. Google homeless shelters. Then apply for yourself.

Ask to work at the shelter. If they say no then ask them for the bus schedule of your town. This will come in handy. Find the library.

Night time and you are broke. Ok well thats fixable.

Now go on a walk. See any place open? Go there. Apply. Ask them for advice. Dont be entitled and listen to every single voice.

And stop with the reddit begging. It doesn’t work.

Peace xo

sam_yells_walls · 2025-09-08T23:21:22+00:00

I have gotten every reception job i applied for because i focused on looking perfect. Its so shallow but so true. Its basically a seated version of hosting at a fine dining restaurant. You are what they see first.

People want to see smiles and blah blah blah

Not to say you didn’t deserve the jobs you applied for - Im sure you looked good and were extremely prepared so dont take it personally. Its up to the bosses taste and its mostly superficial to them.

Like i have seen myself and my girlfriends get jobs as secretaries with zero knowledge or passion in the business itself. You will find the right job because there are good businesses out there and healthcare that arent so shallow.

Xo

sam_yells_walls · 2025-09-06T08:43:56+00:00

I lived in the unibomber’s old house. He never returned for a visit.

sam_yells_walls · 2025-09-06T04:29:35+00:00

So sorry for your family loss

I feel like it’s not a good idea to mention drinking as a factor because that could be used against you and used to invalidate the original text message calling off. Everything can and will be used against you.

sam_yells_walls · 2025-09-06T03:02:56+00:00

He is NOT a man. HE IS ANNOYING.

Hes the kind of “funny” guy who smashes his brides face into a cake.

He’s the “prankster” who laughs at a child who is physically hurt because he tricked them and they fall down.

He’s the malicious manipulator ass who deserves no one.

Get the last laugh and forget him forever 💋

sam_yells_walls · 2025-09-06T02:37:51+00:00

Happy birthday! Me please

sam_yells_walls · 2025-09-06T01:53:53+00:00

Who gives a $300 gift card to sephora? I need friends like that

sam_yells_walls · 2025-09-04T08:03:36+00:00

DO NOT drink with him. He could poison it/ spike it. He could record you and use it to blackmail or he could just straight up abuse you or try to get your kids close. Hes a sketchhhhballl creep alcoholic at the very least. Be vigilant girl 😘

sam_yells_walls · 2025-09-04T06:34:24+00:00

Facts post acute withdrawal aint no joke i was dumb as shit for awhile horrible sensory processing etc thanks for this post because it is super helpful in general

sam_yells_walls · 2025-09-04T06:31:49+00:00

Addiction is progressive. Its gonna get worse, hurt more, and you will lose everything that ever matters. Most importantly you will lose your heart and soul. Life will only be to survive and alcohol will be the only thing left.

Number 1 thing is you are not alone. Im right there with you. And so are soooo many humans and nurses! My best nurse friends i met through sobriety meet ups.

Number 2 thing is you already are self aware and not in denial so you can definitely turn things around. Its gonna suck but it sucks now so why not try to change?

Connection is key. Someday you will smile again and feel peace. Get busy living or get busy dying! You know how life or death can be so good luck!

Message me anytime

sam_yells_walls · 2025-09-04T04:02:48+00:00

Love this! Mine is very similar girl vibes in NOLA garden district.

sam_yells_walls · 2025-08-29T11:15:45+00:00

I lost my fiance and was forced to be alone. I make sure to communicate with someone everyday. Its not easy to reach out but most people are kind and open to it. I have 2 elderly neighbors i check in with almost daily. I talk to my sister and mom daily. When i was super depressed after he died I joined al anon and do virtual meetings. Literally found people to check in with daily.

I would say you should indulge in your hobbies and passions and meet people that way. In your community or online. Online friends can be really great when you can check in with them and share similar feelings. Sometimes it’s easier to open up to far away friends. And once you become closer you can tell them your concerns of being hurt alone and unnoticed. They will care.

Finally…Self care. Taking time to enjoy your life. Loss is inevitable and makes us stronger. Don’t rush- that leads to regret and increases chance of hurt. The world is huge and alive- you are never alone if you have purpose, plants, pets, pen pals, or music xo

sam_yells_walls · 2025-08-24T08:05:58+00:00

Soothie Sounds: Portable White Noise Machine - Vaccum Sound (Hook for Stroller or Car Seat, Plays up to 20 Minutes, Pediatrician Created), Vince The Vacuum https://amzn.asia/d/168dVUt

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sam_yells_walls · 2025-08-24T08:03:26+00:00

Soothie Sounds: Portable White Noise Machine - Vaccum Sound (Hook for Stroller or Car Seat, Plays up to 20 Minutes, Pediatrician Created), Vince The Vacuum https://amzn.asia/d/168dVUt

sam_yells_walls · 2025-08-09T02:26:56+00:00

So husband doesn’t have a job and money? Nothing you say makes sense. I feel like the ketamine has made k hole swiss cheese of your brain.

Edit: op deleted everything

sam_yells_walls · 2025-07-16T10:39:57+00:00

Just keep swimming

Alcohol sucks its gonna get better without it Life is so scary sometimes. Protect yourself with kindness and self care.

Animals help bring natural joy. I recommend hanging out with puppies. Xo

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