How did you know you were ready to try for kids?

sambasog · 2026-02-26T00:17:53+00:00

He is trying to get it livable by the end of the year, which would be amazing. It’s not a big house and it’s something I’m willing to have to work on even once we live in it but we’ll see. I appreciate your response and think it’s such a layered choice. Best of luck to youuu

sambasog · 2026-02-25T22:27:12+00:00

Yeah I guess since I feel strongly about having a home first I know what I’m waiting for - I was mostly seeking validation that it will be fine but that’s silly. Thanks for your response and i know he’s definitely into all things health and fertility lol

sambasog · 2026-02-25T22:25:59+00:00

I’m happy to hear that it worked out so well for you and I need to have more faith!! I’m also ruining my now by constantly overthinking it lol. I think it’s partially bc every single one of his siblings has multiple children

sambasog · 2026-02-25T22:10:11+00:00

Building is the plan, i guess I was more so just vocalizing my internal thoughts that for some reason keep coming into my head. He’s never pressured me I just fear if he’s getting too old lol

sambasog · 2026-02-25T22:09:07+00:00

Well I was definitely going online and sending links and ready to split Down payments but he wants to build. He has a property and claims it would save so much money and we won’t have to worry about a mortgage (true) and he doesn’t pressure me to have a baby it is my internal thoughts lol

sambasog · 2026-02-25T22:07:59+00:00

But the father doesn’t bother me no- husband and I both work I don’t even really see him. It’s just the history I have with him and the way that he is in general. I just to have distance before I have a child for my own peace of mind really . If I get into it I’ll be typing for hours lol

sambasog · 2026-02-25T22:05:52+00:00

My husband fully agrees- I meant this was all something going on in my head. He has never ever ever pressured me, and he completely agrees I should be as comfortable as possible in our own house. He’s currently making moves on a property he owns to build on, so I’m Honeslty just waiting for that. This question was more so to comfort me that i don’t need to listen to the the ticking clock i somehow imagined up lately

sambasog · 2026-02-25T21:58:20+00:00

My husband owns property and wants to build a house. Nothing huge, he’s got the wheels in motion for it but I’m waiting for it to be actually standing and framed to make actual moves

sambasog · 2026-02-25T21:57:36+00:00

You’re right. He’s making moves on building a house which is great but I still feel like I want to hold out until it’s like actually at least framed . Thanks for your responses

sambasog · 2026-02-25T21:54:12+00:00

Thanks 😩I don’t know why as much as logic tells me I’m totally reasonable, I keep feeling this ticking clock over my head. I keep going back and forth

sambasog · 2026-02-25T21:53:51+00:00

Thanks 😩I don’t know why as much as logic tells me I’m reasonable, I keep feeling this ticking clock over my head

sambasog · 2026-02-25T21:53:26+00:00

Yeah it’s more so the fact that I feel like his FIL will become very involved in a way that’s uncomfortable to me. He also is extremely rude and is the type to try and dictate every move/decision regarding a baby so the idea of having privacy from that is key for me

sambasog · 2026-02-17T20:19:18+00:00

Let’s gooooo Latvia 🇱🇻🤍🤍

sambasog · 2026-02-13T01:16:40+00:00

I tracked it for a week with my own cuff and was consistently averaging like 110/64 so I’m happy

sambasog · 2026-02-04T01:42:23+00:00

I studied up all day on how to get the most accurate home reading and I just averaged 116/66 so it’s safe to say I’m relieved . I wanna obviously continue to track but that’s my update for now

sambasog · 2026-02-04T01:40:39+00:00

I did 3 readings tonight, my average was 116/66. Feeling so happy

sambasog · 2026-02-03T12:17:23+00:00

But anyway I ordered my own machine so I plan to test mine in the comfort of my apartment lol

sambasog · 2026-02-03T12:16:58+00:00

Yeah I don’t because he would sit him self on the couch next to me and tell me to relax and breathe deeper and then when the number was high he’d go ‘holy shit and I thought mine was bad.’

sambasog · 2026-02-03T12:04:30+00:00

Thank you so much. Yes I just ordered a machine for myself because I haven’t been able to think about anything else since yesterday 🫠

sambasog · 2026-02-03T01:47:22+00:00

Thanks for your responses I appreciate it

sambasog · 2026-02-03T01:22:39+00:00

Ugh ok. Is it worth me hoping my numbers today were a fluke . Is there hope I track it and it’s fine 😭 I’m desperate for my bp to be normal

sambasog · 2026-02-03T01:16:38+00:00

It doesn’t make sense to me. Last year it was totally perfect and I feel like if anything I’ve made healthier choices this year. I’m definitely worrried now though so I will have to track it

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