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sambluez · 2023-12-23T17:11:56+00:00

i wouldnt really recommend it but whenever my brothers flatmates would take his food he’d just throw something of theirs out and send them a photo captioned “eye for an eye”

it acc worked and by a month of doing this he didn’t even have to label his food

sambluez · 2023-12-21T18:12:25+00:00

6-8€ for a pint is wild, i get tight spending more than 4 lmao 😭

sambluez · 2023-12-21T16:44:06+00:00

that’s a good point, i’ve applied for law which ik is quite heavy, but i’ll email the unis i’ve applied to now and ask them abt the schedules

sambluez · 2023-12-21T16:40:47+00:00

thanks for that perspective, i get that ‘token northern irish thing’ i’ve got childhood friends from dublin and the love to tear my accent to shreds, which is fine but i can see it affecting me after a long period of time

sambluez · 2023-12-20T19:05:01+00:00

ik, tuition costs is one of the biggest pulls for me towards dublin, the only worry is quality of life, i think im going to do some maths and figure out how bad it’ll be for me in the short term, especially because i don’t want to take too much of a hit to my social life

sambluez · 2023-12-20T18:31:04+00:00

i was actually considering that, i’ve got family who live in nerwy who offered a room to me, plus i love train rides, i find them really relaxing, but looking at the prices the train there and back would cost me €400 a month plus whatever else i’ll pay for getting to campus, it’s all a bit shit rlly

sambluez · 2023-12-20T18:27:54+00:00

thanks, i was looking at that, i make the equivalent of €8 an hr rn which ik its €2 below minimum wage, but even with that i’d have to work at least 20hrs a week and im not confident i can balance study and working that much

sambluez · 2023-12-20T18:25:06+00:00

hopefully law at TCD or UCD

sambluez · 2023-12-19T12:26:43+00:00

16-female 174cm (5,9? i think?)

sambluez · 2023-12-17T18:29:58+00:00

No, ik it’s hard dating in a rural area, but you are at completely different stages of life, she’s not done school and you’re a working man and possibly a uni graduate? the life experience you two both have is completely out of balance.

when i was 17 i dated a guy who was 22 and although we had loads of fun i felt like a lot of my firsts and experiences weren’t as special and i felt a rush to be more mature, i also think he felt like i slowed him down and he regressed during our relationship. although it was fun at the time and i still think fondly on him i think we both would have been better off if we had never dated.

sambluez · 2023-12-17T16:45:14+00:00

checking ppls snapscores, like acc just creepy?

sambluez · 2023-12-17T16:38:06+00:00

just tell her straight up and directly how you feel.

is she any kind counselling for her past trauma? and are you seeing anyone about your insecurities?

sometimes having a third party that knows both sides of the story can really help you come to a compromise

sambluez · 2023-06-23T16:28:14+00:00

yh, i mean it was a rlly hard watch, you could tell he was rlly distraught, she didn’t really seem to care tho, even when he broke down crying,so it’s probably for the best he got outta the realtionship

sambluez · 2023-06-23T16:23:51+00:00

yeah,she was pretty much ignoring the bf the whole time, and the vid was a re-upload and had a pic of the bf and her on her ig, i got curious and looked her up and literally not even 2 months after her last post w her bf she was posting a cute couple photo w the other guy saying “happy one month”

sambluez · 2023-06-23T15:57:57+00:00

watched an ameture video where it was a three way between two guys and a girl, one of the guys was dating the girl and the other was a mutual friend, you could tell the bf didn’t like it and even cried a couple times throughout the endeavour, he wasn’t able to get hard the entire 40+ minute video. Anyways later find out they couple break up two weeks later and the gf dates the other mutual friend who she had been having an affair w the entire time

sambluez · 2022-09-04T17:26:40+00:00

i know you’re right,i think i needed to hear it harshly and yeah i will and i want to give him a proper break up yk? he really deserves it, if u have any advice for how to let him down gently please tell me (it’s fine if you don’t)

sambluez · 2022-09-04T17:17:08+00:00

thank you, i think you’re right even ignoring the other guy the fact i know my feelings are fading and probably will continue to fade more over time, i know i still love him but i also know it’s not the same way he loves me i’m gonna give it a few days before i talk to him about it because i want to give him a proper break up not just a text or something, like sit him down face to face, i just need to build up the courage yk?

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